You will know the obvious biological sexual differences between men and women, unless you missed out on a significant amount of school/learning or had parents that didn't talk to you about puberty and sex. Sex and biological sex are the same thing.
The problem with "gender" is that some people use it as a straight synonym for sex, so for example on a form you might see a question asking "what is your gender?" with the answers being "male/female/prefer not to say". Clearly, they are asking about someone's sex.
Other people use gender to mean either "gender identity" or sometimes "gender expression". "Gender identity" is poorly defined and usually comes down to an individuals personal and idiosyncratic belief about their own identity eg they "feel" like a woman/man/other (non-binary, or other alternative descriptions). This isn't based on any physical attributes, behaviours or way of being. Simply an internally held belief.
"Gender expression" usually means how someone presents in terms of clothes, hair, make up, behaviour, etc. It's rooted in stereotypes about how men/women typically behave in that person's culture. So some behaviours are considered feminine and others masculine,
That's my thoughts on it, others probably have a different explanation!
Either way, feminism is about liberating women and girls from patriarchal societies and from misogyny in all its forms.