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Are you put off booking a holiday in Scotland by the Marion Miller case and the Scottish police carping about stickers?

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ChristinaXYZ · 03/06/2021 16:54

I know that the chances of being harassed by the police on holiday are minimal but the whole atmosphere: law changes, the SNP attitude to women, the police tweeting about stickers etc - would you really want to holiday in such a pool of chilling effects? It is really changing how I feel about Scotland (in the sense of those currently running it - I'm not blaming the average Scot obviously) and I know if I went there it would be on my mind all the time. Chilling effects do not equal a holiday feeling is what I am saying I guess.

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KittenKong · 23/08/2021 10:09

I never use the C word. Well extremely rarely. I never use the c** word. Completely offensive.

RufustheBadgeringReindeer · 23/08/2021 10:08

It does appear intentionally misgendering someone is allowed on Mumsnet

No its not

And i think youve been here long enough to know that it isnt

Ereshkigalangcleg · 23/08/2021 10:06

"Oh, and when you say Horse Bar, do you mean Salt Horse, The White Horse or the Laughing Horse?"

The one Ms Miller and chums went to. I don't know I'm not from Scotland.

I saw another person in passing claim that GC feminists had put leaflets in his pub and boasting that he made them leave or he would have got violent Confused I did not see him claim that it was specifically Marion herself, just random unidentified "TERFs" of which there are many in Scotland, so I'd be careful that you don't say she was personally doing things she wasn't as it could be seen as both personally defamatory and with potential to prejudice the live court case, which may lead to it being thrown out, which I'm sure some people wouldn't want.

In fact it looks like she's taking action against someone else for exactly this kind of thing.

AnyOldPrion · 23/08/2021 10:05

@littlbrowndog

And us rough Scottish people

🥳🥳🥳

Scots could definitely be classified as “Northern” so it probably fits in the the Northern Women theory of bluntness.
Enough4me · 23/08/2021 10:02

The manager is a 'he' on his Twitter account, but a TW in the pub...what loo does he use, what ward would he go into in hospital if ill?
can we ever common sense back?

ScreamingMeMe · 23/08/2021 10:02

🤣

littlbrowndog · 23/08/2021 09:59

True. Will save that for anyone I meet at work this afternoon 🤣

ScreamingMeMe · 23/08/2021 09:56

@littlbrowndog

And us rough Scottish people

🥳🥳🥳

You haven’t called anyone a "cunt" yet today, littlbrowndog - you're slacking! Grin
PurgatoryOfPotholes · 23/08/2021 09:50

Well, thanks to this thread, I've developed some insight into the chasm of incomprehension I meet when I try to explain the disproportionate impact that a lack of single-sex spaces will have on Muslim women and girls.

It explains a lot, to be honest

yourhairiswinterfire · 23/08/2021 09:48

It does appear intentionally misgendering someone is allowed on Mumsnet. If one does that on Twitter it can be removed for breach of the rules.

He calls himself male on Twitter and every media report calls him 'he'. We're discussing it as it's reported.

And we're not on Twitter with their batshit definition of 'hateful conduct', so it doesn't matter what their rules are really.

Helleofabore · 23/08/2021 09:44

If the group went to a bar run by Muslims

Did you put much thought into that?

littlbrowndog · 23/08/2021 09:41

And us rough Scottish people

🥳🥳🥳

Nachthex · 23/08/2021 09:39

Margarita made me laugh out loud (not for the first time) with the Muslim-run bar comparison. Excellent business idea there, Margarita. You obviously have your feet firmly in the sky.

NonnyMouse1337 · 23/08/2021 09:38

@ArabellaScott

So, you've managed to be incredibly rude about Scottish people, women and Muslims so far, Margarita. Want to quit now, or are you going for the full 9 protected characteristics?
Grin
ErsatzGreg · 23/08/2021 09:37

@MargaritaPie

Just read this on Twitter:

"It wasn't too long ago people were putting fliers through Eastern Europeans people's doors telling them to go home."

Is that acceptable? But they're just pieces of paper and those people are just campaigning? Right?

Are you comparing this to men being asked to stay out of womens spaces?
KittenKong · 23/08/2021 09:32

So I’m Scottish and have worked with allsorts of people from all works of life, including royalty - and I’m an effing delight to work with. I have managed not to swear at, abuse, threaten or headbut any colleagues or clients.

Am I ‘scottishing’ all wrong then?

SageHoney · 23/08/2021 09:29

MargaritaPie: I don't know I'm not from Scotland.
And absolutely WILL NOT WILL NOT WILL NOT listen to anyone who is. That about sums up your contributions on this thread. (Also bore off with the "Eastern European" shite; we're not a monolith either.)

ArabellaScott · 23/08/2021 09:28

So, you've managed to be incredibly rude about Scottish people, women and Muslims so far, Margarita. Want to quit now, or are you going for the full 9 protected characteristics?

ScreamingMeMe · 23/08/2021 09:26

@MargaritaPie

"Margarita, the T word you've used and capitalised there is a slur, and not allowed on Mumsnet."*

I didn't actually "use it", just trying to clarify if that was indeed the word that was being referred to.

It does appear intentionally misgendering someone is allowed on Mumsnet. If one does that on Twitter it can be removed for breach of the rules.

It's not, actually.

If you're taking about the bar worker,they refer to themselves as male.

littlbrowndog · 23/08/2021 09:26

He says he is male on his bio

MargaritaPie · 23/08/2021 09:25

"Margarita, the T word you've used and capitalised there is a slur, and not allowed on Mumsnet."*

I didn't actually "use it", just trying to clarify if that was indeed the word that was being referred to.

It does appear intentionally misgendering someone is allowed on Mumsnet. If one does that on Twitter it can be removed for breach of the rules.

littlbrowndog · 23/08/2021 09:25

Imagine the fringe performers getting the army set on them

They are like leaflet central. Everywhere you go in Edinburgh leaflets posters

Get the army out 🙌🏽🙌🏽

ScreamingMeMe · 23/08/2021 09:24

@MargaritaPie

"You think all Scottish people act this aggressively "

I don't mean "aggressive".

I do. Smile
JustcameoutGC · 23/08/2021 09:21

Wow, so @MargaritaPie, being trans And Scottish gives you a whole new level of amazingness. I can imagine the internal enquiry.

Q Did you or did you not call customers cunts on social media where your employer was easily identified

A Aye, I did,

Q you do realise that breaks pretty much every one of our social media guidelines that are in your contract of employment

A Aye. I ken, but since I am frae Scotland and happen to have a trans cloak of untouchability, I believe such things do not apply to amazing individuals such as myself.

ArabellaScott · 23/08/2021 09:21

Yes the bartender/manager certainly doesn't mince her words or hold back. This is a Scottish thing I believe?

I won't be rude to you, because I try not to be, but that is a very offensively xenophobic stereotype to apply to Scots. Stop.

Is that acceptable? But they're just pieces of paper and those people are just campaigning? Right?

Well, I've already agreed that distributing leaflets, fliers and other printed material are serious enough crimes to warrant the army coming in to sort things out.

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