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Kathleen Stock OBE: Trans Women Aren't Women : A discussion

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Childrenofthestones · 23/05/2021 13:57

It's a view held by most people, so why has it become so controversial to state that trans women aren't women? On this episode of "So What You're Saying Is..." (#SWYI) we are joined by Prof. Kathleen Stock OBE, professor of philosophy at the University of Sussex and author of the best-selling book: "Material Girls: Why Reality Matters for Feminism".

Prof. Stock discusses the issues of sex vs. gender and gender identity, and explains how trans activists, arguing that gender is psychological not physical, now claim that womanhood & manhood are genders in a social, rather than biological, sense.

She discusses the possible motives for Stonewall's decision to become so actively involved in trans rights, as well as the vilification of its outspoken critics such as Germaine Greer and Julie Bindell. Prof. Stock has herself been the target of campaigns to silence, cancel and no platform.

Prof. Stock also discusses the negative impact the more extreme trans rights positions are having on women (changing rooms, public toilets, prisons etc.) as well as the young, and gays & lesbians.

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RufustheBadgeringReindeer · 25/05/2021 21:30

Cross post

RufustheBadgeringReindeer · 25/05/2021 21:30

I agreed as well delph and got told i was slurring and stuff 😩

BilindaB · 25/05/2021 21:29

Responding to Waitwhat23 there to be clear.

Imasoulman · 25/05/2021 21:28

@Delphinium20

Fourth post tonight to deliberately twist what I have said

I copied your words exactly. How is it twisted? I AGREED with you that Joe Public may think boobs and a hole make one a woman.

I pointed out how this is misogyny. I'm a woman, so it's easier for me to spot it Wink

I apologise, I'm tired and misread /misunderstood what you had written. Sincerely sorry I didn't mean to offend. Best if I call it a night
BilindaB · 25/05/2021 21:28

I was picking the bits pertinent to what has been said in this thread. It does refute several statements made here, such as the first sentence: 'It's a view held by most people, so why has it become so controversial to state that trans women aren't women?' and the idea that men would be more accepting of trans people being the gender they say they are than women.

RufustheBadgeringReindeer · 25/05/2021 21:26

Flounce

Kathleen Stock OBE: Trans Women Aren't Women  :  A discussion
Delphinium20 · 25/05/2021 21:26

I'm a feminist and I didn't think "flounce" meant something bad. From context, it appears a British slang to "jump away" or "leave."

I'd equate it to American slang, "leave in a huff."

RufustheBadgeringReindeer · 25/05/2021 21:26

Flounce?

Okaaay

Its a very well known MN word...there is even a board for it

Imasoulman · 25/05/2021 21:23

@RufustheBadgeringReindeer

Oh don’t flounce when im agreeing with you!
Such a sexist and degrading slur, I am surprised to hear a Feminist using it.
Waitwhat23 · 25/05/2021 21:21

That YouGov survey is fairly disingenuous for a few reasons. Firstly, it talks about self identifying into a new gender, which on the face of it seems reasonable, however it doesn't make it clear that this means that the transgender person will then be using services which are separated by sex. I suspect if the wording reflected that, the answers would be considerably different.
Secondly, if you read the full survey results, the answers are very different when it is clarified that the transgender person has not been through a 'sex change'. Given that some 80% of transgender people do not go through surgical transition and many of the general public are unaware of this fact, to say people are 'generally accepting of transgender people using the facilities which correspond with their gender' is really not the true picture.

Delphinium20 · 25/05/2021 21:19

Fourth post tonight to deliberately twist what I have said

I copied your words exactly. How is it twisted? I AGREED with you that Joe Public may think boobs and a hole make one a woman.

I pointed out how this is misogyny. I'm a woman, so it's easier for me to spot it Wink

Imasoulman · 25/05/2021 21:18

@RufustheBadgeringReindeer

My dad thought that man who had his penis removed was a woman

I asked if he was saying that if he lost his penis in a tragic accident he would be a woman

He said no obviously

People don’t think things through

Clearly not
Imasoulman · 25/05/2021 21:14

@BernardBlackMissesLangCleg

I'm fed up having my words twisted and taken out of context to suit your own agendas

or analysed and understood

happy flounce!

Sorry I don't flounce anywhere.

I realise you may struggle to understand, but its all there in my post for everyone to read.
Maybe someone can explain it for you.

RufustheBadgeringReindeer · 25/05/2021 21:12

Oh don’t flounce when im agreeing with you!

RufustheBadgeringReindeer · 25/05/2021 21:11

My dad thought that man who had his penis removed was a woman

I asked if he was saying that if he lost his penis in a tragic accident he would be a woman

He said no obviously

People don’t think things through

BernardBlackMissesLangCleg · 25/05/2021 21:09

I'm fed up having my words twisted and taken out of context to suit your own agendas

or analysed and understood

happy flounce!

Imasoulman · 25/05/2021 21:07

@Delphinium20

Not at all ludicrous for anyone with an open mind, I still maintain that Joe Public would consider a male who has grown breasts and had a vagina created (I know there is more to being a woman before I get shot down in flames, but for the purpose of this discussion lets keep it simple) would consider that said male was now for all intents and purposes female

Of course "Joe" Public might agree...but a large part of the public see women as no more than a hole to f$ck and boobs to view. This is the ugliest bit of your misogyny... that the simplest way to become a woman is 2 surgical parts with zero biological function, but may "appear" female for only the basest of male desires.

Female breasts and vaginas are designed to grow because of our childbearing function of sex. Nothing more. Thank god for feminism and birth control, abortion and economic opportunities because many women no longer need to be chained to this function against our wishes.

It is not an open mind you seek, but a misogynistic mind. Sadly, Joe Public will provide you many.

Fourth post tonight to deliberately twist what I have said.

Carry on having a "discussion" amongst yourselves.

I'm fed up having my words twisted and taken out of context to suit your own agendas.

Pathetic!

BernardBlackMissesLangCleg · 25/05/2021 21:06

@Delphinium20said it better, but I'm struggling to understand what other contexts there are to Joe Public would consider a male who has grown breasts and had a vagina created (I know there is more to being a woman before I get shot down in flames, but for the purpose of this discussion lets keep it simple) would consider that said male was now for all intents and purposes female

having silicone implanted in your chest and a surgically created cavity does not make males female

men who are not generally used to risk assessing males in the way women are may think such cosmetic changes render a man indistinguishable from a woman, but from the point of view of women they'd be quite wrong

in addition, you've glossed over how fucking offensive it is to reduce womanhood to tits and a hole. it's still fucking offensive though.

you are writing from a male perspective

Delphinium20 · 25/05/2021 20:53

Not at all ludicrous for anyone with an open mind, I still maintain that Joe Public would consider a male who has grown breasts and had a vagina created (I know there is more to being a woman before I get shot down in flames, but for the purpose of this discussion lets keep it simple) would consider that said male was now for all intents and purposes female

Of course "Joe" Public might agree...but a large part of the public see women as no more than a hole to f$ck and boobs to view. This is the ugliest bit of your misogyny... that the simplest way to become a woman is 2 surgical parts with zero biological function, but may "appear" female for only the basest of male desires.

Female breasts and vaginas are designed to grow because of our childbearing function of sex. Nothing more. Thank god for feminism and birth control, abortion and economic opportunities because many women no longer need to be chained to this function against our wishes.

It is not an open mind you seek, but a misogynistic mind. Sadly, Joe Public will provide you many.

BilindaB · 25/05/2021 20:39

YouGov:

''when the YouGov survey asked whether or not Britons themselves consider a transgender person to be the new gender identity they have adopted, four in ten Britons (40-41%) believe they are, compared to 36% who disagree.'

yougov.co.uk/topics/politics/articles-reports/2020/07/16/where-does-british-public-stand-transgender-rights

''Joe Public might think that (although I expect not for all intents and purposes). Josephine Public may well disagree.''

Follow the link, women are significantly more likely to agree that 'a transwoman is a woman and a transman is a man' than men - 49% of women agree, 29% disagree.

Imasoulman · 25/05/2021 20:19

@PearPickingPorky

I still maintain that Joe Public would consider a male who has grown breasts and had a vagina created [...] would consider that said male was now for all intents and purposes female.

"Breasts and had a vagina created [...] purposes [...] female."

Very male perspective that.

A tube has been fashioned out of some tissue, which you consider meets the requirements of the purpose of the female body.

Quite telling.

Don't be ridiculous, you are editing what I wrote. You realise people can read my post and see what you are doing
RockPainting · 25/05/2021 20:11

Just watched the video in full with my DH. She is brilliant.

PearPickingPorky · 25/05/2021 20:08

I still maintain that Joe Public would consider a male who has grown breasts and had a vagina created [...] would consider that said male was now for all intents and purposes female.

"Breasts and had a vagina created [...] purposes [...] female."

Very male perspective that.

A tube has been fashioned out of some tissue, which you consider meets the requirements of the purpose of the female body.

Quite telling.

Imasoulman · 25/05/2021 20:07

@HipTightOnions

I still maintain that Joe Public would consider a male who has grown breasts and had a vagina created (I know there is more to being a woman before I get shot down in flames, but for the purpose of this discussion lets keep it simple) would consider that said male was now for all intents and purposes female

Joe Public might think that (although I expect not for all intents and purposes). Josephine Public may well disagree.

Touche Smile
Imasoulman · 25/05/2021 20:05

@BernardBlackMissesLangCleg

The damage is done, short of turning the clock back there is no happy compromise for Trans people

suck it up ladies! a happy solution for trans people trumps your needs for privacy, dignity and safety!

Oh look you have done it again, taken one sentence completely out of context and rather pathetically posted it to make out I was saying something completely different.

Why don't you try having a thought of your own and join in the discussion instead of trying to score points.

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