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Reverend reported to anti-terror unit Prevent for telling pupils in a sermon they're allowed to disagree with LGBT teaching

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SuperShe · 09/05/2021 03:58

Just read this in the daily mail, about a Reverend who was sacked and reported to Prevent (counter terrorism and radicalisation agency) for a sermon he gave to pupils: (parts extracted from article)

“You should no more be told you have to accept LGBT ideology than you should be told you must be in favour of Brexit, or must be Muslim – to both of which I’m sure most of you would quite rightly object.

So I want to say to everyone, but especially to those who have been troubled, that you are not obliged to accept someone else’s ideology. You are perfectly at liberty to hear ideas out, and then think, ‘No, not for me’.

You are entitled, if you wish, to look at some of the claims made about gender identity and think that it is incoherent to say that, for example, gender is quite independent of any biological factor, but that a person’s physiology should be changed to match his or her claimed gender; or incoherent to say that gender identity is both a matter of individual determination and social conditioning at the same time, or incoherent to make claims about being non-binary or gender-fluid by both affirming and denying the gender stereotypes which exist in wider society.

Now when ideologies compete, we should not descend into abuse, we should respect the beliefs of others, even where we disagree. Above all, we need to treat each other with respect, not personal attacks – that’s what loving your neighbour as yourself means.

By all means discuss, have a reasoned debate about beliefs, but while it’s OK to try and persuade each other, no one should be told they must accept an ideology. Love the person, even where you profoundly dislike the ideas. Don’t denigrate a person simply for having opinions and beliefs which you don’t share.”

Here’s a link to the full article. www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9557845/School-reports-chaplain-telling-pupils-theyre-allowed-disagree-LGBT-teaching.html

I wholeheartedly agreed with everything the Reverend said and I am not even a Christian. I cannot believe how he was treated when he said nothing discriminatory or illegal. Yet it’s perfectly acceptable for LGBT activists and school teachers to chant “Smash heteronormativity" in the school.

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Manderleyagain · 09/05/2021 14:18

I agree with what ppl have said, that he has failed to note that the opinion on gay marriage is not held by all Christians or all c of e members. And the rather misleading thing he said about 'law of the land'. And that he didn't acknowledge that disagreeing with gay marriage actually does discriminate against gay ppl of you act on the belief.

But it is important that he was giving pupils permission to hold beliefs different to what they are taught at school. He was emphasising the right to hold different beliefs. It's such a core principle if we are to live happily together, and it is being lost with certain secular beliefs.

Obviously I don't know what else led tohim leaving, but on this reading I hope he wins.

This is an important point by a pp This man is being persecuted for verbalising what is the classic position on tolerance and freedom of thought.

LibertyMole · 09/05/2021 13:38

Some religious groups have done gay marriages in the past. The Quakers offered gay marriages but they weren’t legally recognised as marriages until civil gay marriage came into being.

There wasn’t a conflict between those groups and those wanting gay marriage.

The dispute was between religious groups who are opposed to gay marriage and people who advocated for it. The Quakers were already carrying out gay marriages so were not opposed to them.

People have marriage ceremonies all the time that are not legally recognised by the state and always will do. Neither the state nor the major denominations can prevent people from holding any kind of marriage ceremony with no legal status.

ErrolTheDragon · 09/05/2021 12:00

There is a conflict between LGB rights and religion. The compromise that has been reached is civil marriages for LGB people.

The compromise is actually that religious groups who want to do gay marriages can (Quakers, the URC afaik) and those which don't want to dont have to ... and that the CofE can't, the Gordian Knot master stroke in bringing in the gay marriage legislation, as the different wings of the CofE would otherwise have been infighting till the apocalypse.

MrsWooster · 09/05/2021 11:59

This seems to be another reason not to conflate gender ideology with issues of sexual orientation.

WomaninBoots · 09/05/2021 11:56

This is a real problem... the idea that this man could be described as a "terrorist". It completely devalues the seriousness of using that word.

There are echos of this across all of Woke Kingdom. Words that used to mean truly heinous things being thrown around like confetti with no serious consideration before they are invoked.

It's really quite gross and disrespectful.

CuriousaboutSamphire · 09/05/2021 11:49

Great! A man of faith stands up and says we should all be allowed to question the faith and ideology of others but should still remain respectful of the person and some here want to quibble that he has fucking personal faith.

He was reported as a terrorist and you want to moan about his being a Christian, not every Christian?

Madness!

SirVixofVixHall · 09/05/2021 11:38

@sunshineandhappy

His sermon is calm, measured and thoughtful. The schools response is frightening. I hope parents of pupils at this school are aware of the views their children are being taught to follow, without the ability to question them, and react. If my child were a pupil I would be withdrawing them from this school. Education used to be about considering all views and using evidence, facts and debate to reach a conclusion. Not being told what to think.
This. A generation being taught to blindly follow an ideology never goes well.
LibertyMole · 09/05/2021 10:16

‘...he’s setting this up as THE Christian view and asserting that being a Christian will inevitably bring you into conflict with LGBT rights.’

Surely it is the belief of the Anglican Church and the Catholic Church, who make up the vast majority of Christians in this country?

There is a conflict between LGB rights and religion. The compromise that has been reached is civil marriages for LGB people.

Thecatonthemat · 09/05/2021 10:06

I am so fed up of us all being lumped together as LGBT. I as a lesbian have nothing in common with the T and very little to do with the G or B. We are not the same.

Imnobody4 · 09/05/2021 10:03

I think this is the point - there are 2 different things - laws and practices at a societal level and individual beliefs. If you believe (which I don't) that abortion is unethical, then you have to be allowed to argue that in the public sphere, the law arises from democratic consensus but that isn't a winner takes all kind of ideological 'genocide' (hyperbole.)

We are all entitled to say we don't agree with same sex marriage, abortion, gender ideology etc, etc. Just as we are entitled to argue for the death penalty and strengthening women's sex based rights.

The problem with gender ideology is that it's completely circumvented the demoratic consensus building process which depends on reason and evidence and is trying to institute a reign of terror.

Zinco · 09/05/2021 09:49

"and once I fought against Section 28 and fully supported LBG rights"

Presumably the conservative view (section 28) was that you can't trust (all) teachers to teach this stuff responsibly, and you need legal limits to stop them giving one-sided propaganda to kids.

And I think that's a legitimate fear.

everythingthelighttouches · 09/05/2021 09:39

justawoman
I saw the same points you highlight in your first post.

I think what is missing in the sermon is an open acceptance that if you follow that Christian belief portrayed (and not all Christian’s agree but it is a widely held belief of many Christians), it is discriminatory against anyone who is gay.

Because while straight people can have sex but only in marriage, this option is not open to gay people in a framework where gay marriage is impossible.

It is also perfectly legal in the U.K. for gay people to marry.

Now to the tricky part and where I think the trans activists have played such a blinder in aligning so closely to LGB.....

If I accept the right of any individual to not believe in trans ideology, do I also accept their right to believe that sex outside of heterosexual marriage is wrong??

Like most of us on here, I personally am gender critical and don’t subscribe to trans ideology but I absolutely do believe in people’s right to gay marriage.

However, I accept anyone else’s right to believe whatever they want.

OvaHere · 09/05/2021 09:38

*column inches. Bloody autocorrect!

Campervan69 · 09/05/2021 09:37

I hope he wins. He is entitled to his views and I agree with most of what he said. I do think there will be a backlash against the rabid LGBT lot unfortunately. Mainly because of the T. But also because their most vocal supporters are so awful to other people online. Its a bit like Labour councillors and supporters calling everyone awful bigots, just turns people against the whole party.

Shedbuilder · 09/05/2021 09:36

I'm a lesbian and a long-time active member of the LGB community and my heart sinks whenever LGBTQ+ is invoked, because LGB and the TQ+ are two separate communities and issues. LGB is about same-sex relationships, TQ+ is about gender identity. They are not the same and I curse Stonewall for conflating them.

When the TQ+ gets the pushback it so richly deserves, those of us who are LGB are braced for it too. Please, please, anyone reading this, help fight the problem by writing and saying LGB and TQ+ — making it clear that the two are separate and different. If it encourages debate with your friends and colleagues, so much the better. Say a lesbian asked you to do it.

OvaHere · 09/05/2021 09:36

This is a huge article for the Mail, the most column issues I think I've ever seen them devote to clashes of rights that involve gender ideology.

My answer to the issue would be to make all educational institutions secular and not promote any faith based ideologies whether that's transubstantiation or transgenderism!

Imnobody4 · 09/05/2021 09:31

My head is starting to explode.
The Secular Society is campaigning to get religion out of schools (a view I sympathized with) but now the spreading of fundamentalist dogma is coming from LBGT activists who have free rein and are given the same status as holy men and prophets ( and once I fought against Section 28 and fully supported LBG rights).

The Dept of Education has to get a grip. This man is being persecuted for verbalising what is the classic position on tolerance and freedom of thought. That's where I stand and I hope he not only wins but is awarded substantial damages.

Igmum · 09/05/2021 08:58

I read it as rather more nuanced than that and as supportive of LBG marriage. Either way, something to discuss and debate, not to report to the Police for terrorism and sack the speaker. Totalitarian indeed

sanluca · 09/05/2021 08:35

but that he’s setting this up as THE Christian view

Agree. But at least he is saying he is open to debate, discuss, argue his point and your point and he will still love and respect you even if you never agree with each other.

This is what has always been my concern, that transactivists who are so extreme in their cancel culture, create a massive backlash against LBG.

Grimbelina · 09/05/2021 08:35

I think the problem is not that he’s expressing a particular conservative view of relationships and sexuality, but that he’s setting this up as THE Christian view and asserting that being a Christian will inevitably bring you into conflict with LGBT rights

Yes, he is doing this, but from a very measured position and one which is Christian as Tibtom says. He is saying there is a conflict between Christianity and LGBT sexual activity and ideas (rather than rights I would add), just as there is a conflict between Christianity and extra-marital sexual activity.

I think it is of huge value that someone in a position of power at the school has told the pupils they don't have to agree with anyone (presumably including him).

thinkingaboutLangCleg · 09/05/2021 08:27

To put this on par with attacks in London, Manchester, and even the Twin Towers is offensive in the extreme. Terrorist is not a label to throw around lightly.

I agree. But this wild overreaction is normal to people who demand #nodebate and claim they are being “literally killed” by hearing different opinions.

Tibtom · 09/05/2021 08:19

but that he’s setting this up as THE Christian view

That is a criticism is his belief. For him it is the Christian view. There are lots of christian denominations, some of them differ on fundamental aspects of faith such that others would disagree they are actually christian at all. The reverand preached what is his understanding of Christian teaching - in line with the bible. It is certainly the view of the Roman Catholic Church which make up 1.2 billion people and half of the world's Christians.

ErrolTheDragon · 09/05/2021 07:49

Ah, I wasn't aware of those, meditrina - I'm curious now as to what those prosecutions entailed.

meditrina · 09/05/2021 07:27

@ErrolTheDragon

Christians have lost a who slew of court cases in regards to stance on homosexuality.

Not for their 'stance' in terms of beliefs or just words though; the cases have involved discriminatory actions arising from those beliefs.

This is not entirely true.

As well as the higher profile cases, which have been about services, there have been a number of successful prosecutions, going back to at least 2001 (that one used the Public Order Act 1986, so there may be earlier examples)

justawoman · 09/05/2021 07:23

@UnkindlyMay

Interesting, Justawoman, and a reminder to me to read things in full and not just extracts. Having read the whole thing though, he seems to me to be saying that students are to be allowed to hold the views that marriage within their faith is opposite sex marriage, that sexual relationships outside marriage go against the morals of their faith, and that sex exists. He is not saying that they should or must believe those things, but that to believe so as part of their faith is legitimate.

(Takes me back to earnest discussions with my more evangelical school friends who were opposed to same-sex relationships not for their own sake but on the grounds that sex should be reserved only for marriage. Somehow we all still got on.)

Oh, I agree. I think the problem is not that he’s expressing a particular conservative view of relationships and sexuality, but that he’s setting this up as THE Christian view and asserting that being a Christian will inevitably bring you into conflict with LGBT rights. As well as the sleight of hand arguments I’ve highlighted above. Of course, again, he has a right to his opinion and his view of his faith. However, he’s here arguing from a position of considerable power (as chaplain/teacher to a load of school kids) so I’d argue it’s in no way the same as a student arguing with a mate who’s a member of the Christian Union either (an experience I’ve also had in spades!)