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New CEO of Edinburgh Rape Crisis

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TheFleegleHasLanded · 03/05/2021 11:00

I struggled to even come up with a title for this thread as I am so enraged I know I will get deleted and even banned if I say what I really think.

twitter.com/EdinRapeCrisis/status/1389112490215288832?s=20

New CEO of Edinburgh Rape Crisis
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Leafstamp · 04/05/2021 18:27

@Mollyollydolly

I wish this could be challenged in the courts. I hope legal minds brighter than mine are working on it. It is so wrong. Just feel I should do something and feel helpless.
My sentiments exactly. I am optimistic, I don’t think this is going to be let go unchallenged.
Leafstamp · 04/05/2021 18:26

This is of interest:

twitter.com/Equality_FWS/status/1389603470601293825

FWS tweeting the Funder of the role asking for answers.

Mollyollydolly · 04/05/2021 18:24

I wish this could be challenged in the courts. I hope legal minds brighter than mine are working on it. It is so wrong. Just feel I should do something and feel helpless.

toffeebutterpopcorn · 04/05/2021 17:49

I should get my brother to do that. He is a bit... well someone who won’t ever let anything go and can get quite obsessed. He is a massive ‘fairplay’ person too and hates people who break rules.

They wouldn’t know what hit them.

Leafstamp · 04/05/2021 17:26

On that note, if anyone knows any men in Edinburgh who would have liked to have applied for the job and would be happy to write to them to ask why they have been discriminated against. I would love to see their response.

Leafstamp · 04/05/2021 17:24

@Tibtom

I predict that MW will not take up/continue in the post.

I think you underestimate them. Any objections will be considered 'transphobia' and what bigots raped and abused women are.

Maybe, I can see why you say that and maybe I'm naive.

I'm hoping they are bombarded with correspondence and have no choice but to think about about what they've done (i.e break the law).

WarriorN · 04/05/2021 17:13

Clearly doesn't see racism.

I hadn't seen the tweet when it was up previously; now all I see are RTs!

NiceGerbil · 04/05/2021 17:01

Taking it down because of a huge negative reaction, then putting it up same with no effort to even address the racism points is just so transparent. Why do orgs do this? They think no one has archived? That people have no memories? That people are stupid?

Or is it a calculated fuck you?

Tibtom · 04/05/2021 16:56

I predict that MW will not take up/continue in the post.

I think you underestimate them. Any objections will be considered 'transphobia' and what bigots raped and abused women are.

WarriorN · 04/05/2021 16:50

RT reaches a wider audience, bit of an own goal!

LostToucan · 04/05/2021 16:48

Apparently the first Tweet wasn’t garnering enough favourable replies.

colouringindoors · 04/05/2021 16:48

Utteely, utterly disgusted by this appointment. Fucking depressing too.

I see Edinburgh Rape crisis have now deleted yesterday's tweet announcing this, which had hundreds of critical replies. Today they've tweeted the same story and switched off replies.

You know what to do.

Leafstamp · 04/05/2021 16:48

@littlbrowndog

ERC took down first tweet

Then put up same tweet but turned off replies

Still included BAME women in the tweet

Jeez how racist they are

Their behaviour is disgusting.

I don't see how they will get away with it. I predict that MW will not take up/continue in the post.

toffeebutterpopcorn · 04/05/2021 16:42

Fingers in ears lalalalala. I love to see an organisation that is supposedly there to help people at their lowest ebb turn off communications and refuse to engage (unless I assume you are saying ‘you are so wonderful’).

Where are they funded from? They need to be scrapped and start again with grown ups.

SheldonesqueTheBstard · 04/05/2021 16:40

When you turn off replies you may as well say ‘we know our decision is questionable/wrong/idiotic but we don’t want to be told thanks’

Same difference.

Emperor’s new CEO.

littlbrowndog · 04/05/2021 16:37

ERC took down first tweet

Then put up same tweet but turned off replies

Still included BAME women in the tweet

Jeez how racist they are

Leafstamp · 04/05/2021 16:15

That is very interesting reading LostToucan, thanks for highlighting that.

If anyone is interested in email ERC direct, their email address is [email protected]

Alicethroughtheblackmirror · 04/05/2021 16:11

Some thoughts on the fact that Edinburgh Rape Crisis provide mixed sex services:

All victims of abuse should be able to access specialist services, and that includes men and boys. There is a question, though, whether women's services are the best option for them. Campaigners for abused men have highlighted how different the trauma reaction is in men.

This is a bit irrelevant here, however. Ed RC only provide services to young men and boys and those who do not identify as men - so transwomen and non-binary. I am struggling to understand why a young male who had been raped and sought help at this centre would be admitted or shown the door depending on pronouns. Because, unless I misunderstand, this is what they appear to be saying.

In which case, surely they are discriminating illegally? Non-binary is not legally defined.

They also say the female only times and spaces are open to all as identify as women. I cannot fathom how a rape crisis centre can be so wilfully cruel. I think trans people should be able to access services and I think groups like STA should put some of the chunks of money the gov throw at them towards starting services rather than leaning on the women's sector - maybe Mridul would be great at running services for them. But that isn't happening. Instead, vulnerable women are being chased out of spaces they desperately need.

toffeebutterpopcorn · 04/05/2021 15:29

People need to start being accountable. If heads start rolling - I cant see how this isn't gross misconduct. Breaking the law for starters is Very Naughty Indeed surely?

LostToucan · 04/05/2021 15:24

Not sure if this MN thread has been linked to:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/4071477-Mridul-Wadhwa-and-Rape-Crisis-Scotland

Which links to this Twitter thread:

twitter.com/hightreebud/status/1323965389144002562?s=20

Interesting reading.

toffeebutterpopcorn · 04/05/2021 15:21

Maybe - I'm trying to multitask just now so need to make myself a nice coffee, grab some chocolate and have a read.

SheldonesqueTheBstard · 04/05/2021 15:17

I’m not on fb - I can see the comments.

Some are absolute stotters.

stumbledin · 04/05/2021 15:16

I wonder if you aren't signed into facebook that you wont see all comments because individual posters may have set their posts to private of something.

stumbledin · 04/05/2021 15:15

I think the start of the comments are the lovefest. Have you clicked show all comments? There are around 690 in total, and most are critical.

vivariumvivariumsvivaria · 04/05/2021 15:13

That's an interesting FB thread, Stumble

First comment I saw was from Emma Walker, who stood for Lib Dems here and then bailed because she was treated to the most appalling sexism. I see that Mridwul has taught her how to "use" her trauma?

Weaponising her trauma - where did I hear that before? Oh yes, from what the TRAs said about JKR.

Noted.

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