This again - this fundamentally false claim that wanting to be able to “believe in” (I.e. accept) and live by reality is “anti-trans” or somehow to do with wanting to hurt people’s feelings and discriminate against them for the sake of it.
I have always known that sex exists in humans, is functionally binary, is important in some situations and cannot be literally changed. It never for a second occurred to me to even think about trans issues much at all let alone in a negative way, until some trans activists started demanding that I literally believe a man is a woman, that all you have to do make it so is to say so, and that I can’t have my own reality-based opinions on the matter on pain of being sacked. That behaviour is discriminatory and attacking - believing sex exists isn’t.
I don’t feel unable to cope with the fact that some people have different beliefs from me or feel attacked by it. Because some trans people and their allies do, they’re attempting to make society have only one belief, one that’s counter to a biological reality we all actually have to live by.
If we can’t stand up against that then we’re basically heading for a totalitarian, thought-policing, faith-based state. Not wanting that is nothing to do with hating trans people. Lots of trans people agree with what I say here themselves. Even the ones who are trying to push this idiocy, I don’t hate, I don’t mind them identifying as trans, I think they should have the same protections as anyone else.
But no other group is protected from having to listen to people talking about reality because it hurts their feelings.