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This actually made me laugh out loud, but ironically

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Pudmyboy · 18/04/2021 16:33

"To be the parent of a trans person now, in Britain, is also to witness a regular assault of distortions and half-truths. We hear that trans people can access medical treatment with dangerous ease, when they in fact face monstrous waiting times, or that there is a powerful trans lobby trampling on the rights of others when anti-trans groups are significantly better resourced." amp.theguardian.com/society/2021/apr/18/being-trans-transgender-rights-issues-rowan-moore-felix-moore

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MondayYogurt · 18/04/2021 21:41

I think this thread title should be made clearer to avoid duplicates

AlwaysTawnyOwl · 18/04/2021 21:01

more than that she said that “sex is real”.

This always leaves me speechless. How do they think babies are made?

Biscuitsanddoombar · 18/04/2021 20:57

It’s just the standard fact free appeal to emotion that is churned out by the guardian because they can’t argue it on a factual basis

AlwaysTawnyOwl · 18/04/2021 20:53

This whole article contains distortions and untruths. Notable is what ISNT in it. There is a lot about the difficulty of obtaining PBs, cross sex hormones but nothing about the two NHS NICE reports recently published which find no evidence that either of these treatments work. Nor is there mention of the Tavistock study which found that PBs did not improve psychological wellbeing. Both Stonewall and Mermaids have totally ignored these studies - they are not interested in evidence.

ThePonderer · 18/04/2021 20:31

Referring to attacks in women's loos I note the downgrade from "this never happens" to "it is hard to find reported examples".

The whole article is free of any coherent argument.

"It should go without saying that trans people don't want cisgender women and girls to be fearful in bathrooms." But apparently because we're not discussing the problem in the 'right way' there's nothing at all anybody can possibly do about this. Hmm

StillWeRise · 18/04/2021 20:30

@AngelicInnocent

Sorry but what does DARVO mean?
deny, attack, reverse victim and offender usually in the context of domestic abuse- I never did it how dare you say that, bitch ....you know what, she started it, she's always doing it, I'm the victim here
Rubidium · 18/04/2021 20:29

The moaning about the wait for assessment or treatment drives me crazy. Try having any child with a MH condition, or adult for that matter.

Or try having an elderly parent, living in constant pain from arthritis, who has just been told by the doctor that there's a two year waiting list for joint replacement surgery.

Misiecle · 18/04/2021 20:28

@WinstonsWeirdVole

I've complained to the Observer: feel this breaches parts 1 and 2 of their code of conduct (accuracy and opportunity to reply).

I might actually do this too. Can’t believe a once-reputable paper is publishing such blatantly false, gaslighting, wilfully blind tripe.

Oh, please do. That's why I've posted this here - back posting on Mumsnet after a decade because I just can't sit in silence any more. If I've persuaded anyone to take action then it was the right thing to do.
RoyalCorgi · 18/04/2021 19:52

This is a shame. The Observer is usually better than the Guardian but Rowan Moore is a staff writer so I suppose they let him write what he wants. No excuse for not fact checking, though.

WinstonsWeirdVole · 18/04/2021 18:53

I've complained to the Observer: feel this breaches parts 1 and 2 of their code of conduct (accuracy and opportunity to reply).

I might actually do this too. Can’t believe a once-reputable paper is publishing such blatantly false, gaslighting, wilfully blind tripe.

Misiecle · 18/04/2021 18:34

@WhoNeedsaManOfTheWorld

The moaning about the wait for assessment or treatment drives me crazy. Try having any child with a MH condition, or adult for that matter. ASD in my area you are lucky to even get the Ax and diagnosis and there is nothing after that FASD which, imo, is huge in this country is even worse. No understanding in education and, it seems, no wish to understand. Little chance of diagnosis and nothing afterwards if you get the diagnosis Although given the pigs ear they have made of treating dysphoria perhaps we are safer going it alone
Totally agree with this. Having had anorexia and anxiety disorders in the family and seen MH services for children hacked off at the knees, I sort of want to say, what makes you so special? Which probably is an unkind and unhelpful thing to say but, you know, we're not playing adolescent disorder top trumps here (yes Jameela Jamil I'm looking at you and the 'most oppressed in the world' narrative). Why does dysphoria deserve the exceptionalism it's getting?
Misiecle · 18/04/2021 18:24

I've complained to the Observer: feel this breaches parts 1 and 2 of their code of conduct (accuracy and opportunity to reply).
Apart from the Forstater stuff, which was just nasty, easily disprovable, and a really interesting bait and switch from the real question, which was about JK Rowling, I was incandescent at the dismissal of the census issue as 'banal' and looked up uses of 'pregnant person' (supposedly the 'accepted usage' now) as opposed to pregnant woman - absolutely complete tosh, whether you're looking at Google trends or on the UK legislation website.
It's the second time I've complained on a trans-related story in the last month - I'm going to have to cancel my subscription soon. (The last was the awful Eddie Izzard piece, featured on the same page as dead women.) Now there is a bloke who feels he can put his identity on and off.

JustTurtlesAllTheWayDown · 18/04/2021 18:00

I saw this earlier and was mightily pissed off. Its such a dishonest representation of pretty much everything.
Clearly, no one at the Guardian bothered to fact check.
I'm surprised it made it past their lawyers.
Maya Forstater has tweeted about it because she hasnt said the things they've claimed she has.
Of course, if they represented her beliefs honestly, there isn't much drama to be made out of it.
mobile.twitter.com/MForstater/status/1383719178977243140
There's also a link in the comments of that twitter thread as to where you can put in an official complaint.
If JKR sees it, I'm hoping she sues the arses off of them.

AngelicInnocent · 18/04/2021 17:53

Thank you Errol

Nellodee · 18/04/2021 17:50

As someone whose self esteem was badly affected by hirsutism during my twenties, and was told it was just a cosmetic issue, and that there was zero help available on the nhs, they can just fuck off, to be quite honest.

Has this changed, or is it still only natal men who can get treatment to remove unwanted facial hair?

WhoNeedsaManOfTheWorld · 18/04/2021 17:45

The moaning about the wait for assessment or treatment drives me crazy. Try having any child with a MH condition, or adult for that matter. ASD in my area you are lucky to even get the Ax and diagnosis and there is nothing after that
FASD which, imo, is huge in this country is even worse. No understanding in education and, it seems, no wish to understand. Little chance of diagnosis and nothing afterwards if you get the diagnosis
Although given the pigs ear they have made of treating dysphoria perhaps we are safer going it alone

GreyhoundG1rl · 18/04/2021 17:42

anti-trans groups are significantly better resourced
Confused Confused Confused

ErrolTheDragon · 18/04/2021 17:40

@AngelicInnocent

Sorry but what does DARVO mean?
Defend, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender.
AngelicInnocent · 18/04/2021 17:39

Sorry but what does DARVO mean?

StillWeRise · 18/04/2021 17:38

yes, this arrived on my breakfast table this morning, DP read it first, with many exclamations, 'you're not going to BELIEVE this' 'its just not true' 'fucking bollocks' etc etc told him, oh yes I'll believe it all right ....nothing surprised me anymore!

ErrolTheDragon · 18/04/2021 17:37

Well... the definition of 'banal' is 'boring, ordinary, and not original'. But the thing is, sometimes reality and scientific truth, is like that. Yes, humans being unchangeably dimorphic is boring, ordinary and unoriginal. Yes, men as a class are stronger and more violent than women.... etc .... yawn.

Hmm
Pudmyboy · 18/04/2021 17:35

I meant to highlight that there is a powerful trans lobby trampling on the rights of others when anti-trans groups are significantly better resourced. Also noticed the singling out of JKR for a verbal kicking, again.

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FFSFFSFFS · 18/04/2021 17:34

Wonder if they'd want Felix to be in a woman's or men's prison?

I can hazard a guess.

GrimDamnFanjo · 18/04/2021 17:34

The comments about JK were astonishing....
Focussed on bathrooms and ignoring the wider implications for replacing sex with gender.

BlueLipstickRocks · 18/04/2021 17:32

Obtaining hormones can be done via a number of routes.

Firstly is the NHS and this is indeed a lengthy process through a GIC however what many people don't realise is that due to the long waits a patients GP may prescribe bridging hormones whilst a patient is waiting.
Secondly there are private services such as Gender GP operating from Spain and through this method I believe its about 4 to 6 weeks.
Thirdly is simply self medicating and its remarkable easy to buy the drugs online without prescription.

If someone really wants hormones they will get them.