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NHS staff invitation to menopause workshop to people who menstruate!

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sunshineandhappy · 14/04/2021 14:22

I received a generic email from the well being team at the nhs trust I am employed by inviting me to a managing menopause workshop which was open to 'people who menstruate or people who will go through the menopause'.
This was my reply I was disappointed to see the following phrase ‘those who menstruate or those who will go through the menopause ‘ in the below email. The correct phrase for the target audience should surely include the word women, even if the other phrasing needs to be used as well, as this clumsy phrasing, whilst appearing to be inclusive to a minority, is actually exclusive to the way the vast majority of the target audience for this seminar may feel. I do not want to be reduced to being a person who menstruates or a person who will go through the menopause, I am a woman, an adult human female. I hope my opinion will be considered in the spirit in which it is meant, as all groups matter, and all relevant individuals should be considered when generic emails are being sent to a large number of staff.'
We will wait to see whether I receive any response

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Cagedbirdsinging · 01/05/2021 00:23
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Melroses · 27/04/2021 21:43
Flowers

Thank you

It is people like you who are making a difference.

weewitch · 27/04/2021 19:39

Well done Op - that's great news!

persistentwoman · 27/04/2021 19:16

Well done sunshine. Women shouldn't have to be standing up to stop our sex based language being erased - but here we are. So congratulations. Small steps. Flowers

Sophoclesthefox · 27/04/2021 19:08

That’s fab, well done for calmly and firmly standing up for inclusion, sunshine!

HecatesCatsInFancyHats · 27/04/2021 19:07

@sunshineandhappy

UDATE 😊😊 whilst I have had no acknowledgement from the head of equality diversity and inclusion, I have received the latest bulletin from the well-being team and the target audience is now 'women and those menstruate' A small victory, but my well-being has definitely been boosted just by receiving that info 😊
Great work op! Thank you
Ereshkigalangcleg · 27/04/2021 17:42

Well done OP Thanks

334bu · 27/04/2021 17:38

Star👏👏👏

sunshineandhappy · 27/04/2021 17:35

Thanks everyone. It's so important to me that our voices are heard, hopefully we won't have to keep on having to try so hard. Thanks for all the support and wise words 😊

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FannyCann · 27/04/2021 17:17

Brilliant. Star

I need Ro's archiving skills to keep this thread somewhere safe and handy to follow OP's example should the need arise.

Ifyourefeelingsinister · 27/04/2021 16:18

Well done!

EyesOpening · 27/04/2021 16:16

@sunshineandhappy

UDATE 😊😊 whilst I have had no acknowledgement from the head of equality diversity and inclusion, I have received the latest bulletin from the well-being team and the target audience is now 'women and those menstruate' A small victory, but my well-being has definitely been boosted just by receiving that info 😊
Excellent! Well done!
UppityPuppity · 27/04/2021 16:11

UDATE 😊😊 whilst I have had no acknowledgement from the head of equality diversity and inclusion, I have received the latest bulletin from the well-being team and the target audience is now 'women and those menstruate'
A small victory, but my well-being has definitely been boosted just by receiving that info 😊

No small victory. Instead I would describe it as truly awesome. Very well done!!

Ringsender2 · 27/04/2021 14:29

@sunshineandhappy 'And she persisted' - well done you missus.

RedDogsBeg · 27/04/2021 14:17

I think that's what's called a quiet climbdown! Well done OP, they knew full well they were in the wrong.

Kit19 · 27/04/2021 14:16

woohooo well done OP!!!

TartrazineCustard · 27/04/2021 14:15

Excellent news!

AllThatisSolid · 27/04/2021 14:12

Congratulations, @sunshineandhappy

Now that is inclusive!

WhatyoutalkingaboutWillis · 27/04/2021 14:11
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FrancesGumm · 27/04/2021 13:45

Well done OP !!!

Waitwhat23 · 27/04/2021 13:32

Brilliant - well done OP.

Notagain20 · 27/04/2021 13:19

Well done! An inspiring thread

AssassinatedBeauty · 27/04/2021 13:17

An excellent update indeed. Brill.

sunshineandhappy · 27/04/2021 13:12

UDATE 😊😊 whilst I have had no acknowledgement from the head of equality diversity and inclusion, I have received the latest bulletin from the well-being team and the target audience is now 'women and those menstruate'
A small victory, but my well-being has definitely been boosted just by receiving that info 😊

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EyesOpening · 20/04/2021 22:12

Beautiful reply! Well done