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He. These are not our crimes.

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Ravenclawsome · 12/04/2021 12:39

Though I wonder if the Facebook person is a secret terf as it makes it clearer this is a male despite the female pronouns.

www.thecourier.co.uk/fp/news/local/dundee/2125153/breaking-dundee-teenager-denan-anderson-walks-free-from-court-after-baby-rape-video-conviction/

He. These are not our crimes.
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RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 13/04/2021 23:02

@Mugginyouleftrightandcentre

You've confused 2 different things there. No one takes offence when using the words "girl" and "woman" unless you are talking to or about a group of people that includes, or may include trans men and non-binary people, in which case, it can be helpful to use more inclusive language.

Well do you know what, I fucking take offence when people use the word 'girl' or 'woman' for a male, yes A MALE, A MAN, who downloads images of babies being raped and I think it would be 'helpful' to use factually correct language. But no one gives a shit about that do they? No one is falling over themselves not to offend me? Why not?

This is just such fucking horseshit, I can't even believe my eyes sometimes.

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Mugginyouleftrightandcentre · 13/04/2021 22:41

You've confused 2 different things there. No one takes offence when using the words "girl" and "woman" unless you are talking to or about a group of people that includes, or may include trans men and non-binary people, in which case, it can be helpful to use more inclusive language.

Well do you know what, I fucking take offence when people use the word 'girl' or 'woman' for a male, yes A MALE, A MAN, who downloads images of babies being raped and I think it would be 'helpful' to use factually correct language. But no one gives a shit about that do they? No one is falling over themselves not to offend me? Why not?

This is just such fucking horseshit, I can't even believe my eyes sometimes.

NotTerfNorCis · 13/04/2021 19:46

No one takes offence when using the words "girl" and "woman" unless you are talking to or about a group of people that includes, or may include trans men and non-binary people, in which case, it can be helpful to use more inclusive language.

They do if those words are applied to a predatory male. It's not just denying reality, it's insulting to all the women who've been victims of male predators in the past.

Handsnotwands · 13/04/2021 18:46

here’s another admittedly clearly vulnerable but born a man, found guilty of breaching a SPHO having been found guilty of viewing images of child abuse and spared jail 🤷🏼‍♀️

KeepPrisonsSingleSex · 13/04/2021 18:44

This is why language matters when we are talking about crime and convicted offenders:

www.keep-prisons-single-sex.org.uk/use-of-language

Leafstamp · 13/04/2021 18:32

FPFW are doing some work in this area:

fairplayforwomen.com/ipso/

I just hope they get results. And soon.

HermitsLife · 13/04/2021 18:27

"Penis person who specifically used their penis to commit the most heinous act possible" That seems like a fair compromise.

WoolOfBat · 13/04/2021 18:19

HermitsLife , how about “teenaged person with a penis who downloaded”?

In the spirit of menstruators and ovary owners etc?

WoolOfBat · 13/04/2021 18:16

I wonder if it would be ok to refer to certain people as “penis people” or “penis person” if we want to avoid the word woman in these contexts?

I feel quite relaxed about the pronouns as long as it is clear that it refers to a person with a penis. It seems to be ok for the NHS to avoid sex/gender and just refer to sexual organs so maybe this would be the solution everyone on this thread could be happy with?

HermitsLife · 13/04/2021 17:58

I'd like to know what type of a crime a person living under a different identity would need to commit before this whole shambles starts to be taken seriously. Would they need to be in the John Worboys / Jimmy Saville / Steve Wright territory before people in authority realise what everyone else with an ounce of sense can see with their own two eyes?

GNCQ · 13/04/2021 17:39

[quote LiveLuvLaugh]@GNCQ I think the "pregnant people, uterus haver" brigade advocate these as collective terms not to be used when talking to or about individuals. [/quote]
Right.
So the rules are, in PSHE, health (etc) you're supposed to refer to groups of people as "people with a penis" or "people with a vagina" rather than man/woman/girl/boy.

Then when an individual gets referred to as a "person with a penis" or even the reducted version- "person" suddenly this is all terrible and against the rules.

Of course. All very clear

(By the way my comment is in no way aimed at you directly LiveLoveLaugh I just picked it up because I'm sure we're both trying to work out "the rules").

R0wantrees · 13/04/2021 12:37

You've confused 2 different things there. No one takes offence when using the words "girl" and "woman" unless you are talking to or about a group of people that includes, or may include trans men and non-binary people, in which case, it can be helpful to use more inclusive language.

Girl and woman are inclusive terms for all human beings who are female, whether children or adults and irrespective of their gender identity (or lack thereof).

Shizuku · 13/04/2021 11:33

"It's fucking ridiculous, people tie themselves up in knots to avoid using the words 'girl/woman' for fear of offense..... Except when talking about a male wanting to rape babies, then the word 'girl' is perfectly appropriate?"

You've confused 2 different things there. No one takes offence when using the words "girl" and "woman" unless you are talking to or about a group of people that includes, or may include trans men and non-binary people, in which case, it can be helpful to use more inclusive language.

HermitsLife · 13/04/2021 11:24

@GNCQ

A teenage girl who downloaded a toddler rape video and researched murdering babies has been allowed to walk free from court.

Sorry, but no.

We're supposed to be "pregnant people" these days. Surely this title should be "teenaged person who downloaded..."

Sorry I'm not having it.

Agree, you can't have it all ways
Ravenclawsome · 13/04/2021 11:00

This - from the head of the paper's courts team (according to his bio) - is telling. Suggests they want to report the sex but can't unless the judge specifically states the fact in court

He. These are not our crimes.
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LiveLuvLaugh · 13/04/2021 08:40

@GNCQ I think the "pregnant people, uterus haver" brigade advocate these as collective terms not to be used when talking to or about individuals.

SciFiScream · 12/04/2021 22:04

Why are people tagging someone who hasn't made a comment in this thread?

Mugginyouleftrightandcentre · 12/04/2021 21:21

@GNCQ

A teenage girl who downloaded a toddler rape video and researched murdering babies has been allowed to walk free from court.

Sorry, but no.

We're supposed to be "pregnant people" these days. Surely this title should be "teenaged person who downloaded..."

Sorry I'm not having it.

Also, this.

It's fucking ridiculous, people tie themselves up in knots to avoid using the words 'girl/woman' for fear of offense..... Except when talking about a male wanting to rape babies, then the word 'girl' is perfectly appropriate?

Fuck off.

Mugginyouleftrightandcentre · 12/04/2021 21:18

@Shizuku what's your point? That women do it too? Yes we know women do it too, we can see this when we look at the statistics. The statistics that say that over 98% of sexual crime is perpetrated by males and just under 2% is perpetrated by females, with nearly all of these involving a male as well (Colin Blanchard being 'the hub of the paedophile wheel' in the Plymouth case).

Yes, women do it too, Vanessa George and Angela Allen come into that 2% category. Which category does Denen Anderson come into?

AdHominemNonSequitur · 12/04/2021 20:42

@shizuku. How do you know she is female?

Shizuku · 12/04/2021 20:22

@Wandawomble

Posted too soon, I’ll try again - as words and the meaning of then DO matter. *@Shizuku* do you think we should call this person who wants to rape babies, a teenage girl?
Yes, just as you should call Angela Allen and Vanessa George women.

www.plymouthherald.co.uk/news/plymouth-news/paedophile-woman-who-shared-vile-3700779

Clymene · 12/04/2021 20:12

@Ravenclawsome

Unfortunately the issue seems to be the IPSO guidelines. Individual news sites don't seem to have a choice in this. It needs folk to challenge IPSO on this.
The IPSO guidelines are not fit for purpose.

It's absolutely absurd to let criminals dictate how they're referred to. And I know it's supposed to be about relevance but this is absolutely relevant. As is any behaviour which is sexually motivated.

It's just as relevant when for example a transwoman is complaining about not being able to access sex shops on the train WiFi. This is male behaviour and it has nothing to do with women. It don't have to be crime far; it's about misleading the public about male and female behaviour patterns.

The only time I can see it's irrelevant is if the news story is about who grew the biggest dahlias or won the prize for the best cake in the village show. Or being a victim of a burglary or something.

Ravenclawsome · 12/04/2021 19:54

Unfortunately the issue seems to be the IPSO guidelines. Individual news sites don't seem to have a choice in this.

It needs folk to challenge IPSO on this.

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GNCQ · 12/04/2021 19:47

Yes unfortunately it's Scotland isn't it. Our equivalent of woke r us Canada.

UnderHisAye · 12/04/2021 19:27

I've emailed the editor to ask on what basis they're reporting this person to be female, as they clearly have no GRC and are male. I'm interested to see the response, although I assume it'll be some whitewash crap.

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