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Pro-porn Childline film encouraging kids to google BDSM etc

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Sunkisses · 07/04/2021 16:20

Jeez, just seen this from the Safe Schools Alliance UK on twitter. Six years ago Childline produced this pro-porn film which is basically an advert for PornHub masquerading as a child protection resource. It tells children that porn is "fun" & recommends genres like BDSM to google. It's had over 3 million views in the last 6 years, and goodness knows how much it has contributed to the rape culture we are now seeing in schools. It is illegal for under 18s to view porn, and children should be taught this and the harms of pornography, not encouraged to view it with a nod, nod, wink, wink attitude.

You can view the Safe Schools Alliance UK tweet here: twitter.com/SafeSchools_UK/status/1379528765261381634

SSAUK are calling on Childline and the NSPCC (who run Childline) to take this film down.

The Government should bring in age-verification for online porn ASAP to prevent children having easy access to online porn. All the laws have been passed, and the regulatory framework is in place. The Government bottled it at the last minute in 2019 after facing pressure from the powerful porn industry. Our children deserve better.

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ScrollingLeaves · 09/04/2021 11:05

Sorry, I was not clear. I had been responding to this:

GoingThruTheMotions

However, I'd much rather a young person in that situation watch this then find dangerous pornography.

It's not an either or situation though, is it? The signposting of types here actually guarantees exposure to those types

Thelnebriati · 09/04/2021 11:00

Yes, we get that.
If you cant see problems you cant respond to them. Even if you've had safeguarding training its never a bad idea to do a refresher, and to review the safeguarding procedures where you work.

ScrollingLeaves · 09/04/2021 10:58

GoingThruTheMotions

“However, I'd much rather a young person in that situation watch this then find dangerous pornography.” (Written by Asuggar)

Absolutely. I too did not know many of these variations of porn and was especially confused by Swan dancing porn.

Of course children would look it up. Just think of those girls and some boys who love dancing. Think of the beauty of Swan Lake.
Now think of the horror of what they’ll find - immediately:

Without opening links I just found lots of porn sites look linked to Swan Lake.

Pointing the way to finding this- which in my opinion the video does- epitomises the meaning of corruption.

Pro-porn Childline film encouraging kids to google BDSM etc
ASugarr · 09/04/2021 10:55

I mean I don't see any issues really with the video so.

GoingThruTheMotions · 09/04/2021 10:39

Personally I find there's a vast difference in quality both of training received and the type of adults involved with children.
I have experience in primary, secondary and youth work. Very few primary colleagues are not up to scratch with child protection. I've come across the occasional TA with funny ideas, but they tend to be on the stricter lines anyway (like one ta who told me male teachers should not teach girls pe in ks1 and 2 because they might see them changing).
In secondary and especially youth work I have seen many red flags. Ranging from down with the kids naivety to really troubling stuff. I'm not saying you don't get dodgy people in primary, but they are definitely vetted better.

Helleofabore · 09/04/2021 10:35

@ASugarr

If that's how you view child line then fine, however I wouldn't agree that they aren't a reliable charity and source of support for young people.
So, are you simply damping down the bits of this video you are uncomfortable with then?

Because of Childline’s involvement?

Helleofabore · 09/04/2021 10:34

@GoingThruTheMotions

^However, I'd much rather a young person in that situation watch this then find dangerous pornography.^ It's not an either or situation though, is it? The signposting of types here actually guarantees exposure to those types, of course curiousity is going to mean they'll look it up. I'm a grown adult and I don't know the swan thing. The only thing stopping me from looking it up is the knowledge that no good can come from that. Children don't check their impulses in that way. If as you say, "Children will look at porn anyway" then it's doubly important a clear message comes from adults not affirming nonsense.
This was me too. My reaction was later remembering and thinking ... I want to look that up.

The fast pace of this delivery means so much of the information is left simmering to pop up later.

This also makes it a fail for discussions as it mentions SO much that you cannot give it adequate attention in one session. So they are going to look it up for themselves.

Thelnebriati · 09/04/2021 10:33

Why do adults involved in the sex education of young children believe they need to be told in detail about different kinds of pornography? Adults working with vulnerable children shouldn't be desperate to be seen as cool. It creates an unhealthy dynamic.

ASugarr · 09/04/2021 10:33

If that's how you view child line then fine, however I wouldn't agree that they aren't a reliable charity and source of support for young people.

Helleofabore · 09/04/2021 10:30

@ASugarr

I've got friends who are youtubers who have done work like this and this is how the procedure goes. Especially with big organizations such as Childline.
And you missed my point about how decisions are signed off in the department.

Considering the track history of the NSPCC over the past five years, and Childline is part of this, there is little credibility here.

Are you are willing to accept this despite your own misgivings because you believe that Childline is infallible?

GoingThruTheMotions · 09/04/2021 10:25

^However, I'd much rather a young person in that situation watch this then find dangerous pornography.^
It's not an either or situation though, is it? The signposting of types here actually guarantees exposure to those types, of course curiousity is going to mean they'll look it up. I'm a grown adult and I don't know the swan thing. The only thing stopping me from looking it up is the knowledge that no good can come from that. Children don't check their impulses in that way.
If as you say, "Children will look at porn anyway" then it's doubly important a clear message comes from adults not affirming nonsense.

GoingThruTheMotions · 09/04/2021 10:20

@Helleofabore

I have added to the list as those supporting use of the video seem to feel that it doesn’t encourage children to search for the porn types and other information on line. I would like to know why posters think this.

Why do they think bringing attention to unusual and strange sounding porn types would NOT be sticking in any persons mind compelling them to find out what it was?

Please show us what we are missing that you are seeing in the messaging of this video?

Again, this is an open invitation to anyone who supports this video being used by ChildLine in discussing the negative risks of watching porn under the age of 18

So far we have raised (this is not an exhaustive list by any means). And also remember we are discussing under 18s:

-The opening and closing messages that your yourself interpreted as ‘porn is fun and fine’.

-The breezy fling back from serious negative issues to joking completely negates the seriousness of the issues.

-The age restrictions being treated as a joke. And one that included a very young voice. And if someone is being encouraged to treat an age restriction as a joke, not to be taken seriously, what other recommendations, or advice should also be treated as a joke? The bit about not strangling your sex partner, the bit about not coercing any aspect of sex?

-The reinforcement that it is not illegal to watch it under 18, but no qualification of the very negative and serious long term mental health effects.

- The negating of the message around body expectations. A very serious aspect where again the message is left with a joke about wanting to have a porn star body anyway. More mixed messaging.

- The 'fun' aspect reinforced by the 'fun' graphics. (These styles of graphics only work if there is a consistent targeted message about risk. Such as youtu.be/IJNR2EpS0jw .) Clear, consistent message about risk despite the humour and the 'fun' graphics.

-The reinforcement of the dehumanising/detached use of hypersexualised words like ‘pussibities’ in a video aimed at people under 18 years of age while discussing topics like how desensitising and addictive the use of porn can be. What message does this convey?

-How does reducing porn to 'chicken nuggets' support the seriousness of the negative aspects of porn for under 18s. Is this not trivialising those negative aspects of how porn is produced? Like, ew.... fun to eat/watch but you really don't want to know how it is made.....

-The mention of very uncommon types of porn has the effect of increasing curiosity. This is a very deliberate tactic used by marketing to hook people’s interest. It had been used here and will have the effect of children googling the terms, if not immediately, then eventually. Anyone watching will be both curious and, maybe, embarrassed that they didn’t know what it was.

Care to address any of the issues?
ScrollingLeaves · 09/04/2021 10:16

Helleofabore- Thank you for your posts.

ASugarr · 09/04/2021 10:14

As someone who was from a dysfunctional family I understand the concern. However, I'd much rather a young person in that situation watch this then find dangerous pornography.
If the child has parents then it is their responsibility. If not then that's where youth workers, social workers, teachers and more can try to help.

Datun · 09/04/2021 10:12

From SSA Twitter

"WTF is Porn’ is aimed at young people, although there is no age specified. It tells children that “porn is great to watch” and gives impressionable and vulnerable children sexist, misogynistic, homophobic and racist porn categories to google, including:

Softcore, Hardcore Lesbian, Thespian, Interracial, Facial, Alternative, Conservative, Hentai, Far Cry, BDSM, NEDM, Amateur, Mature and Swan Disco.

This is despite the director of ChildLine at the time, Peter Liver, saying six days before this video was put up, that:

“children are telling us very clearly that [porn] is having a damaging and upsetting effect on them.”

Ffs.

Deliriumoftheendless · 09/04/2021 10:11

@ASugarr

I would like to point out, as I'm unsure if others understand this or not. Kids shouldn't be on YouTube. They should be using YouTube kids until they are 11 years old. This video wouldn't be allowed to appear in YouTube kids (obviously). So if a child sees this at a younger age then 11 then that's not on the YouTubers fault. That is a parenting fault. Additionally, this is for TomSkas target audience of young teenagers and up. Meaning it should only be shown to those ages. You can agree ore disagree if that's still not appropriate however I thought it was an important point to make.
And where does this leave children from dysfunctional families, who have parents who don’t or can’t parent?

I’ve worked with some very damaged kids- from families who have let young kids watch porn, mistreated and abused them in all manner of ways. The exact kids Childline and the NSPCC are for. Whilst I absolutely agree it’s up to parents to steer their children safely through the world what about the ones who don’t have safe homes? Saying “oh that kid shouldn’t have watched that” doesn’t really help a child with no boundaries in place does it? Schools and children’s charities have to pick up the pieces not encourage shit behaviour.

ASugarr · 09/04/2021 10:09

I've got friends who are youtubers who have done work like this and this is how the procedure goes. Especially with big organizations such as Childline.

Helleofabore · 09/04/2021 09:58

I notice that none of the actual points of concern we have raised has been addressed.

Lots of distraction though.

Sunkisses · 09/04/2021 09:56

Just to let people know that Safe Schools Alliance UK have set up a petition about this. Please share far and wide and let's get this horrible film taken down
www.ipetitions.com/petition/open-letter-to-childline-stop-normalising-the-use

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Helleofabore · 09/04/2021 09:56

Ahhh. I cross posted with Datun.

Yes, just another ‘event’ involving this and the main organization.

Helleofabore · 09/04/2021 09:54

@ASugarr

It's quite simple how YouTube sponsorships work. They would have sent him a brief with a rough script, he would have filmed and edited. He would have sent that over. Any changes to language and the video itself would be sent over for him to refilm. This would happen over and over until done correctly and then it would be signed off and posted.
How do you know this?

I have been involved in both sides, do you know that is how it worked? He had released this information?

Helleofabore · 09/04/2021 09:52

@ASugarr

Actually from my knowledge TomSka is a child abuse survivor so he does a lot if work with charities like childline to help young people.
I am sorry to hear that he is a csa survivor, and that you are too.

However, history has shown us that even survivors can be involved in delivering the wrong messages.

They should always be listened to, and always be considered and their rights should definitely be upheld and strengthened (but never at the expense of other groups).

Helleofabore · 09/04/2021 09:49

@ASugarr

However if this is in collaboration with child line then they would have approved this meaning it is okay to post.
Just a point about this type of ‘campaign’.

When a major advertising campaign or brand change is done, large organisations will generally do some testing to ensure the messaging is clear. That the person seeing the message doesn’t have a negative reaction.

This was a sponsorship deal, I doubt that it was scripted by experts in child safeguarding or sex education. Sponsorship deals (and not all but most) are where the content provider will use their own ‘voice’ to get the message across. It must be authentic to work for either of the parties involved. Sometimes, there is little involvement from the owner of the brand at all.

Having been on both sides of these deals, I would have serious doubts that this content was in fact put through any focus groups (or with any rigour), I doubt there would be the budget and it may not be done because it was a sponsorship deal not an advertisement.

And at board level, don’t assume that even the trustees have seen it beyond a quick review. They will be looking at top level results.

No. I don’t think an appeal to authority is going to convince me.

Particularly in light of the rubber suit issue of the umbrella organization. Where is the credibility that you are appealing to?

Datun · 09/04/2021 09:47

However he is sponsored by child line and as professionals they deemed his language to be appropriate.

They also hired a well known LGBT representative who poses for playboy and encouraged minors to contact them in DMs. The person responsible for this hiring decision filmed themself, at work, in a porn film and uploaded it to social media. Quite openly. And was defended by the NSPCC.

One reason, among many, that your appeal to authority, especially this 'authority' are misplaced.

ASugarr · 09/04/2021 09:43

It's quite simple how YouTube sponsorships work. They would have sent him a brief with a rough script, he would have filmed and edited. He would have sent that over. Any changes to language and the video itself would be sent over for him to refilm. This would happen over and over until done correctly and then it would be signed off and posted.

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