Ok I’ll bite
This is an important feminist point.
A. No it’s not
It is not feminist to support every evil.
A. Who said it was?
Feminism is not about freeing women to commit evil.
A. Who says it is?
Just as no decent person wants every man to support evil.
A. Agreed ... but do you mean any rather than every?
It is not feminist to support abuse and violence and bullying.
A. Who says it is?
Feminism is not about people supporting abusers,
A. Who said it is?
It is not feminist to fancy evil people.
A. Who said it is?
I think people who are attracted to evil are evil.
A. Bit harsh and victim-blamey IMHO
If someone supports evil then they are evil.
A. Ok
I am fed up hearing people boast about their sexual attraction to abusive evil men, as if it is something to be proud of.
A. You need new friends
People who fancy evil people are so smug about supporting abusive men, as if it is a cheeky fetish. It is not a cheeky fetish. It is supporting evil. It is making evil people win.
A. Again, new friends
You cannot be a good feminist if you attracted to abusers,
bullies, rapists, gangsters, child abusers and domestic abusers.
A. We could argue about the nuance between ‘attracted to’ and supportive of but in general I agree
Abusers are evil and can wreck lives with mental illness and trauma.
A. Yes
It is depraved, warped, twisted, trite, smug, narcissistic and selfish to be attracted to evil people.
A. Again, difference between ‘attracted to’ and supportive of
I read someone suggest that no one should be shamed for their sexual, preferences. But I disagree with that.
A. It depends on what it is.
There is nothing wrong with being gay or lesbian.
A. Agreed
But people should be ashamed to be sexually attracted to evil people, as in abusers.
A. Again difference between ‘attracted to’ and supportive of
Supporting rapists and murderers is on the same level as being sexually attracted to child abuse.
A. I don’t like grading and comparing different types of abuse but all those behaviours are abhorrent
People should be shamed for their sexual preferences if their sexual preferences make them support abusive people, out of a sexual desire for evil people.
A. Not convinced shame is helpful in preventing illegal actions
Sexual attraction is a powerful emotion.
A. Agreed
If someone is sexually attracted to evil, then they are fundamentally evil people for finding evil sexually attractive.
A. But but if it’s so powerful, maybe they can’t help it and attraction/supportive difference again.
They are no different to child abusers, or bullies or domestic abusers.
A. Incorrect
If someone supports evil then they are evil.
A. Yes
To fancy someone for doing evil, gives support to that evil person, it humiliates the victim. It makes the evil person win.
A. Fancying someone is not the same as supporting them
It is not brave, or profound or mysterious to support evil abusive people.
A. Ok
It is cowardly, weak-minded, cliched, creepy and depraved to fancy people for abusing others.
A. Fancying is different to supporting
I think many people stay with wife beaters because they are brought up to see abusive violent men as manly and sexy. That is utterly sick.
A. I think you’ll find it’s a lot more complex and again I don’t think it’s helpful to blame the victim.
We need to stop people seeing evil as manly and sexy.
A. Who are these people?
Also films that support rape are evil.
A. Which films?
Films that glamorize or support rape should be banned.
A. Personally I agree
Anyone who supports rape is dangerous.
A. This is FWR I don’t think anyone will disagree with you.
I remember as a child being driven at by a young man, who was accompanied by two laughing girls, as he tried to run me over.
A. That’s a sad story.
There are tones of examples of people support their bully doing bullying.
A. Ok
Sexual attraction to evil is not romantic it is weak minded and creepy,
A. Ok
There are people who fancy abusive dangerous men, and still think they can see themselves as the voice of common sense.
A. Who are you referring to?
If you fancy abusive people, then you are motivated to support abuse and punish their victims.
A. Again, difference between fancying and supporting
I hope my view does not cause anyone any offence.
A. Not offended, just confused
I am interested to see people's replies.
A. I hope you like mine
What do you think of my view.
A. I think you need to tighten your argument and define your terms. Possibly do some research on domestic abuse and why women stay with abusive men.
Should people be free to support abuse?
A. Yes - but they should face consequences for doing so.