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Can we have a 'back-to-basics' thread about trans issue please?

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Aspiringmatriarch · 21/03/2021 17:22

I hope it's ok to start a thread potentially covering a lot of well-trodden ground on FWR which is probably therefore a bit tedious, but I lurk and read a huge amount on here (and more widely) and I've struggled to come to firm conclusions. My sympathies are more on the 'GC' side which seems pretty common sense to me, but then I step outside this forum and obviously there is a whole different perspective and in fact contradictory information being presented. So I'm left wondering who has what agenda, how reliable all the research and polls and statistics etc actually are, and what to make of it all really.

An example - I've seen posts on here that the widely cited statistics about suicide attempts in young people who are trans or have gender dysphoria, are basically false and scaremongering parents into a medical pathway. Could anyone point me towards information about this?

I see the word ideology bandied about a lot online - 'trans ideology' obviously but also another 'T' ideology I won't post on here (hopefully that's clear!) So essentially there are two competing claims that the other side are antiscience, dogmatic, advancing a quasi-religious belief rather than material reality. As a non-scientist I feel at a disadvantage wading through all the literature as I can't really know if what I'm reading has much good science behind it.

An example - the pink brain/blue brain stuff. I don't feel I have a 'lady brain' and would certainly reject the terminology, but I believe it's the case that there are certain structural differences between male and female brains. Has this been debunked or is it irrelevant to the trans issue? And what's the evidence for the role of hormones in utero? It sounds potentially credible to me but I know gets short shrift on here because it sounds dangerously close to saying women can't do x y z or are 'naturally better' at doing all the low status boring stuff. Which I disagree with obviously but there is some evidence for certain strengths/ areas of interest on average isn't there? Possibly I'm dragging in a whole separate issue but it comes up in the trans discussion as the argument is presumably that trans people are just gnc and have bought into the idea that they're in the wrong body somehow. So the idea of having a gender identity is just sexism. I kind of get that but I'm not sure if explains the dysphoria aspect and things like brain scans showing similar activity in mtf trans and female subjects. I know the concept of being trans has moved away from dysphoria anyway, which leaves me even more perplexed.

I actually have far too many questions for an already overly long post, and a lot more on the political side of things (GRA reform, Keira Bell case etc) but if anyone feels inclined to respond I'd really appreciate it!

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merrymouse · 22/03/2021 22:19

Gender: Social and cultural expectations linked to sex - e.g. that women will put up with any old nonsense.

Shizuku · 22/03/2021 22:18

@OldCrone

Gender identity is similar - we don't know exactly how to see it in the brain, and how it relates to brain features that we know are to some extent sexually dimorphic, but the work is ongoing.

So it follows from this that it would be absurd to allow males into female only spaces on the grounds that they have a ladybrain.

I've always found it odd that they argue for access on the basis of a self declared brain condition anyway, since the segregation of male and female spaces is due to body differences, not brain differences.

Good to see that you agree with keeping males out of female only spaces, Shizuku.

Trans women aren't males though.
Shizuku · 22/03/2021 22:16

[quote OldCrone]More misinformation from Shizuku.

Well, you need to ask yourself if all the doctors and scientists across the world who talk about suicidality in young trans people are likely to be all secretly working together in order to put out false statistics in an attempt to scaremonger patients on to a medical pathway.

On this page GIDS say that suicide is extremely rare amongst the children who are referred to them as long as they are supported by their families and receiving psychological support.

gids.nhs.uk/evidence-base[/quote]
They are referencing this paper:

www.jahonline.org/article/S1054-139X(15)00159-7/fulltext

"For several informants, a reason to use puberty suppression was the fear of increased suicidality in untreated adolescents with GD. Research shows that transgender youth are at higher risk of suicidal ideation and suicidal attempts [3, 36]. Nevertheless, caution is needed when interpreting these data because they do not show causality or directionality."

You see - they are not saying that there is no suicide risk, they are only saying that caution is needed when interpreting the results. Other papers have found clear links.

OldCrone · 22/03/2021 22:04

Gender identity is similar - we don't know exactly how to see it in the brain, and how it relates to brain features that we know are to some extent sexually dimorphic, but the work is ongoing.

So it follows from this that it would be absurd to allow males into female only spaces on the grounds that they have a ladybrain.

I've always found it odd that they argue for access on the basis of a self declared brain condition anyway, since the segregation of male and female spaces is due to body differences, not brain differences.

Good to see that you agree with keeping males out of female only spaces, Shizuku.

OldCrone · 22/03/2021 21:45

More misinformation from Shizuku.

Well, you need to ask yourself if all the doctors and scientists across the world who talk about suicidality in young trans people are likely to be all secretly working together in order to put out false statistics in an attempt to scaremonger patients on to a medical pathway.

On this page GIDS say that suicide is extremely rare amongst the children who are referred to them as long as they are supported by their families and receiving psychological support.

gids.nhs.uk/evidence-base

merrymouse · 22/03/2021 21:45

The first thing to say is that you've come to the wrong place. Asking about trans issues here is like going to the Catholic church to ask about homosexuality, but I'll answer some of your questions for you:

No. It’s just a website that largely deals with the unavoidable consequences of sex. Its striking that people don’t recognise the reasons why they might get push back on this issue on this particular site, but I suppose that’s sexism.

Well, you need to ask yourself if all the doctors and scientists across the world who talk about suicidality in young trans people are likely to be all secretly working together in order to put out false statistics in an attempt to scaremonger patients on to a medical pathway. Sounds like a crazy conspiracy theory doesn't it? That's because it is.

What statistics? There is little research in this area.

Gender identity is similar - we don't know exactly how to see it in the brain, and how it relates to brain features that we know are to some extent sexually dimorphic, but the work is ongoing.

All completely and utterly irrelevant to the reasons why women need sex based rights.

Shizuku · 22/03/2021 21:32

@Aspiringmatriarch

I hope it's ok to start a thread potentially covering a lot of well-trodden ground on FWR which is probably therefore a bit tedious, but I lurk and read a huge amount on here (and more widely) and I've struggled to come to firm conclusions. My sympathies are more on the 'GC' side which seems pretty common sense to me, but then I step outside this forum and obviously there is a whole different perspective and in fact contradictory information being presented. So I'm left wondering who has what agenda, how reliable all the research and polls and statistics etc actually are, and what to make of it all really.

An example - I've seen posts on here that the widely cited statistics about suicide attempts in young people who are trans or have gender dysphoria, are basically false and scaremongering parents into a medical pathway. Could anyone point me towards information about this?

I see the word ideology bandied about a lot online - 'trans ideology' obviously but also another 'T' ideology I won't post on here (hopefully that's clear!) So essentially there are two competing claims that the other side are antiscience, dogmatic, advancing a quasi-religious belief rather than material reality. As a non-scientist I feel at a disadvantage wading through all the literature as I can't really know if what I'm reading has much good science behind it.

An example - the pink brain/blue brain stuff. I don't feel I have a 'lady brain' and would certainly reject the terminology, but I believe it's the case that there are certain structural differences between male and female brains. Has this been debunked or is it irrelevant to the trans issue? And what's the evidence for the role of hormones in utero? It sounds potentially credible to me but I know gets short shrift on here because it sounds dangerously close to saying women can't do x y z or are 'naturally better' at doing all the low status boring stuff. Which I disagree with obviously but there is some evidence for certain strengths/ areas of interest on average isn't there? Possibly I'm dragging in a whole separate issue but it comes up in the trans discussion as the argument is presumably that trans people are just gnc and have bought into the idea that they're in the wrong body somehow. So the idea of having a gender identity is just sexism. I kind of get that but I'm not sure if explains the dysphoria aspect and things like brain scans showing similar activity in mtf trans and female subjects. I know the concept of being trans has moved away from dysphoria anyway, which leaves me even more perplexed.

I actually have far too many questions for an already overly long post, and a lot more on the political side of things (GRA reform, Keira Bell case etc) but if anyone feels inclined to respond I'd really appreciate it!

The first thing to say is that you've come to the wrong place. Asking about trans issues here is like going to the Catholic church to ask about homosexuality, but I'll answer some of your questions for you:

"I've seen posts on here that the widely cited statistics about suicide attempts in young people who are trans or have gender dysphoria, are basically false and scaremongering parents into a medical pathway. Could anyone point me towards information about this?"

Well, you need to ask yourself if all the doctors and scientists across the world who talk about suicidality in young trans people are likely to be all secretly working together in order to put out false statistics in an attempt to scaremonger patients on to a medical pathway. Sounds like a crazy conspiracy theory doesn't it? That's because it is.

"I see the word ideology bandied about a lot online - 'trans ideology' obviously but also another 'T' ideology I won't post on here (hopefully that's clear!) So essentially there are two competing claims that the other side are antiscience, dogmatic, advancing a quasi-religious belief rather than material reality."

Ask yourself which group is more likely to be involved in an ideology:

  1. A group of people with a recognised medical condition with a range of biological markers, being helped by doctors and scientists all over the world who study their condition, it's causes, effects and treatments, and publish their findings in peer-reviewed scientific journals.
  1. A group of people who don't have that medical condition, who are not involved in research, treatment or studies of that condition, but who belong to a political group who have some ideas that are brought into question by the existence of the people with the medical condition.

"the pink brain/blue brain stuff."

We know that there are some male/female brain differences, but we also know that there is a huge overlap so almost everybody has a mixture of characteristics that are typical of their sex and less typical of their sex. We also know that trans brains are different to cis brains, and we also have to ask what are the things we don't know how to look for yet? For example, sexual attraction happens in your brain and is a big part of many people's lives, but most women are attracted to men, and most men are attracted to women so there is a clear brain sex difference. Where is that in the brain? To what extent can we see it in scans etc? Can a neurologist scan your brain and tell you with 100% certainty what you sexuality is? Gender identity is similar - we don't know exactly how to see it in the brain, and how it relates to brain features that we know are to some extent sexually dimorphic, but the work is ongoing.

Datun · 22/03/2021 19:23

OP, this link should also make things a lot clearer for you. This is women talking, from the coalface.

www.transwidowsvoices.org/

merrymouse · 22/03/2021 19:02

"Person who has a vagina," seems to be slipping in as the easy call for that since modern society has concluded that not everyone with a vag is a woman and not every woman has a vag.

This is breathtakingly regressive.

There is no need to pigeon hole any human being according to their identity

You cannot protect women’s rights if you ignore sex, regardless of how a woman identifies.

Aspiringmatriarch · 22/03/2021 18:37

Thank you very much for all the links. I'm going to read/ watch and hopefully make sense of things.

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HopeClearwater · 22/03/2021 18:06

Or maybe 10 or 20 years ago, in a different time, those adults would also have been reaching for puberty blockers and elective surgeries

They’d have linked their inner unease to another cause and requested Prozac.

NecessaryScene1 · 22/03/2021 17:51

I don't think anyone's mentioned one of the seminal presentations on the subject:

That's looking at the philosophical end, which I think is necessary as the discussion has come unmoored from the actual medical reality - mental health issues, diagnosies of dysphoria, how to treat that - and is now in the metaphysical realm of "gender identity" (or "lady brain"). And it no longer makes sense as a result.

Mumofgirlswholiketoplaywithmud · 22/03/2021 17:22

@Aspiringmatriarch

I hope it's ok to start a thread potentially covering a lot of well-trodden ground on FWR which is probably therefore a bit tedious, but I lurk and read a huge amount on here (and more widely) and I've struggled to come to firm conclusions. My sympathies are more on the 'GC' side which seems pretty common sense to me, but then I step outside this forum and obviously there is a whole different perspective and in fact contradictory information being presented. So I'm left wondering who has what agenda, how reliable all the research and polls and statistics etc actually are, and what to make of it all really.

An example - I've seen posts on here that the widely cited statistics about suicide attempts in young people who are trans or have gender dysphoria, are basically false and scaremongering parents into a medical pathway. Could anyone point me towards information about this?

I see the word ideology bandied about a lot online - 'trans ideology' obviously but also another 'T' ideology I won't post on here (hopefully that's clear!) So essentially there are two competing claims that the other side are antiscience, dogmatic, advancing a quasi-religious belief rather than material reality. As a non-scientist I feel at a disadvantage wading through all the literature as I can't really know if what I'm reading has much good science behind it.

An example - the pink brain/blue brain stuff. I don't feel I have a 'lady brain' and would certainly reject the terminology, but I believe it's the case that there are certain structural differences between male and female brains. Has this been debunked or is it irrelevant to the trans issue? And what's the evidence for the role of hormones in utero? It sounds potentially credible to me but I know gets short shrift on here because it sounds dangerously close to saying women can't do x y z or are 'naturally better' at doing all the low status boring stuff. Which I disagree with obviously but there is some evidence for certain strengths/ areas of interest on average isn't there? Possibly I'm dragging in a whole separate issue but it comes up in the trans discussion as the argument is presumably that trans people are just gnc and have bought into the idea that they're in the wrong body somehow. So the idea of having a gender identity is just sexism. I kind of get that but I'm not sure if explains the dysphoria aspect and things like brain scans showing similar activity in mtf trans and female subjects. I know the concept of being trans has moved away from dysphoria anyway, which leaves me even more perplexed.

I actually have far too many questions for an already overly long post, and a lot more on the political side of things (GRA reform, Keira Bell case etc) but if anyone feels inclined to respond I'd really appreciate it!

This covers it from a medical perspective: www.cambridge.org/core/journals/bjpsych-bulletin/article/sex-gender-and-gender-identity-a-reevaluation-of-the-evidence/76A3DC54F3BD91E8D631B93397698B1A
NiceGerbil · 22/03/2021 17:02

'. expectant mothers, pregnant women'

Yes I get that.

In this case though women sometimes means people with vaginas (which is the common use in society) and sometimes means people with vaginas and people with penises. Which are totally different and most readers do not ever read the second when they read women.

adviceseekingnamechanger · 22/03/2021 13:01

I always find it interesting that misgendering someone is 'literal violence' and in some countries, a hate crime.

But denying women the correct definition of the word 'woman' and insisting they're all cis (especially when so many of us do not have a gender identity) is not only acceptable but necessary.

The power of words only works in one direction, it seems.

Aspiringmatriarch · 22/03/2021 12:55

why as something that is biologically based and that you will clearly not be able to become, just simulate via drugs and surgery when there are other options. That is part of the dissonance I feel.

Do you mean why medically transition? Isn't that part of the issue that people can then identify into something without going through anything we'd recognise as a transition? If you mean, why not just accept that we may have different gender identities and that's valid but when it comes to legal or medical issues it goes back to your basic biology - that makes sense to me. But obviously wouldn't alleviate dysphoria and may cause other problems.

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Helleofabore · 22/03/2021 12:42

I think OP, it is also important to try to get your head around the fact that there is a significant issue where someone feels that they are NOT the sex there body is, but the only alternative is the opposite sex. So, there is going to be those who are pressured into identifying as the opposite sex because of limited options.

Those who then talk about gender identity also seem to miss that there seems to be lots of other gender options, but seem to focus on either woman or man.

It is hard in my mind to reconcile this. If identify as having a gender identity, why as something that is biologically based and that you will clearly not be able to become, just simulate via drugs and surgery when there are other options. That is part of the dissonance I feel.

ArabellaScott · 22/03/2021 12:41

A gender identity is apparently a feeling. An inner sense.

I don't have one. I can accept others feel they have one.

I don't accept we can legislate or base policy on this indefinable, unquantifiable inner sense.

Aspiringmatriarch · 22/03/2021 12:34

NiceGerbil thank you for the explanation.
Where is the clarity and consistency? People are expected to assume what sort of women are being referred to by the context which means different people will take different meanings from the same text.
I would say this is quite normal - to use different words depending on context.
E.g. expectant mothers, pregnant women. Both mean the same and would be easily understood. However, neither sounds weird which 'people with vaginas' does to me - as if you're carrying it around like a handbag or something. Or maybe you keep it as a pet. Apart from being reduced to genitals, it doesn't even sound like it's really part of you.

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EdgeOfACoin · 22/03/2021 12:15

If you can get someone to explain what a gender identity is without reference to gendered behaviour and in more specific terms than' it's innate and subjective', I'll be really impressed.

NecessaryScene1 · 22/03/2021 12:14

I realise that example is a very stereotypically gendered one!

I think you're thinking about this too logically, Aspiringmatriarch.

I think that means you've got a male gender identity. Wink

Proper ladybrains would go "ooh, poor people with the wrong brain in the right body" (or right brain in the wrong body?) and wear something rainbowy in support.

Aspiringmatriarch · 22/03/2021 12:11

So if gender identity does not = a female or male brain, as there isn't a recognisably different male or female brain, then it's obviously something different. And this is where I get completely lost because clearly for some people there is a really strong sense of internal gender identity and there is simultaneously this idea that actually it's nothing to do with stereotypically masculine or feminine attributes/ likes.
So it's not:

  • A physical difference in the brain if the human brain can't be said to be sexually dimorphic.
  • identifying with things society sees as being for the other sex/ gender

But it still exists for some people to the extent that they feel it throughout their lives, and seems to occur in different cultures (and in history, although to what extent is hard to gauge given there could be practical reasons for needing to pass as the opposite sex). So it must be something. My default position isn't to say that it's all bollocks but I feel a bit like I used to in maths lessons - like there's something (that I don't have) that makes it make sense to some people. I realise that example is a very stereotypically gendered one!

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EdgeOfACoin · 22/03/2021 12:10

OP, on a recent thread I was genuinely told I was part of a 'science-denying cult' for pointing out that transgirls are biologically male.

The post was deleted, just as it would have been if I had told a trans rights activist that they were part of a science-denying cult (note: I have never made such an accusation) but it still happened. There are probably sufficient posts around it to attest to the context.

Anyway, this is where we are - describing a person with xy chromosomes, penis and testes as biologically 'male' is now held up as an example of denying science.

And yet the science on which trans ideology is based is...well...patchy at best.

Helleofabore · 22/03/2021 11:55

The resources etc on here have been really helpful to me in unpicking this. It is perfectly possible to be support both trans rights and women's rights- but to do so you first need to acknowledge that they are not the same.

That style of 'all or nothing' posting comes across with some posters. I think it comes from a very loose definition of transphobia. If acknowledging that there is a conflict where rights impact is deemed phobic, it is very easy to paint anyone who is asking for discussion and compromise as being hateful. Therefore, posters can easily discredit anyone who doesn't wholeheartedly agree. There is no room for nuance.

Many posters on this board want to uphold the rights of women and children against these negative impacts. They don't come at it from the aspect of hate, which is the activist narrative.

Unfortunately for those posters who believe it is 'all or nothing', lurkers on this board are probably already understanding that there is a great deal of nuance and that 'all or nothing', sniping posts that don't add points to make others think or offer clarity, really don't have the influence they expect.

Quite the opposite.

Aspiringmatriarch · 22/03/2021 11:53

@muckyhoover

To a certain extent that may just be my personality as I tend to see all sides of things and find it hard to come down on a side.

I feel the same, and have come to realise that a key tactic of the TRAs is to send out the message that there are only 2 options in this debate- you are either pro trans rights (which means agreeing that TWAW for all purposes and based on self ID) or transphobic.

The resources etc on here have been really helpful to me in unpicking this. It is perfectly possible to be support both trans rights and women's rights- but to do so you first need to acknowledge that they are not the same.

muckyhoover wrt trans and women's rights that puts into words my thinking thus far. And you're right that it's not helpful to shut down discussion by calling everything short of total agreement transphobic.
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