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Women only gym. Am I being a killjoy?

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SapphosRock · 17/03/2021 13:14

There’s a female only gym and cafe opening not far from me. The idea is so that women can train without fear of being harassed by men. So far so good. Sounded promising, I was tempted to join.

www.theargus.co.uk/news/19157289.mama-fit-female-only-gym-cafe-opens-burgess-hill/

On further investigation I actually think it sounds pretty awful for three main reasons:

1.	The owners are men. Not sure I feel about two blokes profiting from the discomfort and intimidation of women. Additionally, surely they will be present in the gym at times defeating the object of it being female only? 

2.	The name is shit. Women are much more than just Mamas.

3.	They haven’t thought through their membership criteria or PR. Some women asked some completely legitimate questions on social media about their policy on including trans women. These women were basically told to shut up and go away. 

In my opinion these men don’t have a clue about what women actually want from a female only gym.

Prepared to accept this is just be me being a grouch and they are approaching this with the best of intentions. Thoughts?

Women only gym. Am I being a killjoy?
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Wrongsideofhistorymyarse · 17/03/2021 13:55

I'm a member of a woman only gym locally. I know the owner and she's dedicated to keeping it women only. Thankfully!

AIMD · 17/03/2021 13:54

Yes - I’d say it is odd for any service aimed at a specific group to be set up and managed by someone not in that group. Especially when some of the reasons for that group wanting a separate space is about feeling safe.

Odd

SapphosRock · 17/03/2021 13:51

I've been trying to think who will benefit the most from this venture. The owners, yes. Trans women, yes. Biological women, not so much.

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Youngatheart00 · 17/03/2021 13:47

What about women who aren’t “mamas” (urgh I HATE that word)

SquirtleSquad · 17/03/2021 13:45

Their website says one of the owners is also the head coach.. so it's not just women. How misleading!

SquirtleSquad · 17/03/2021 13:36

Mama fit Envy

DeepThinkingGirl · 17/03/2021 13:33

I once went to female only gym session

I was swimming In the pool and was met by a group of transwomen. A lot of women were intimidated and left. For religious reasons as well as personal reasons they all left the pool. Trans person was exceptionally loud and followed the women that left the pool to the sauna and the changing area knowing fully well that we were uncomfortable.

Seems like a great target for transwomen.

So I would ask the gym what’s their policy on that.

Akela64 · 17/03/2021 13:27

Jumping the band wagon. 2 blokes who want a quick buck without knowing who, what or why.

HypnoRuler · 17/03/2021 13:26

Seems sexist to exclude men from a premises. The same way it would be sexist for men to exclude women from a gym, golf course, etx.

persistentwoman · 17/03/2021 13:26

While suspecting that Biscuitsanddoombar is right about these blokes knowing what women want, you just know what women will be confronted with in showers and changing rooms there. Even if they tried to restrict this to women, they'd be trashed online in an instant.

nevernotstruggling · 17/03/2021 13:22

I go with your 1st point that 2 blokes running it is a bit meh

Biscuitsanddoombar · 17/03/2021 13:20

The name is dreadful! “mama fit” not all women are mothers, want to be mothers or can be mothers

If they think their “woman only” gym won’t be targeted by TRA they’re being exceptionally naive

I’m Sure they mean well but bluntly what to two mid 20s blokes know about what women want from gyms?

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