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FFS....I really despair...

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TalkToTheWind · 11/03/2021 18:50

But the replies to this are mostly fabulous

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Trixie78 · 22/04/2021 13:25

@WeeBisom

Out of interest, has there been any cases where a transwoman was murdered by a male in the last 12 months in the UK? Are there even any names to read out?
No, there were none the year before either but why let facts get in the way.
picklemewalnuts · 22/04/2021 13:18

[quote PumpkinSpiceWoman]@picklemewalnuts

Thank you for clarifying that.[/quote]
No worries. It was a perfectly reasonable suspicion in the current climate, but we don't want to add to the confusion!

agentmichaelscarn · 22/04/2021 12:36

Pretty strange given that this is apparently 'Terf Island' that thankfully very few trans people are murdered. And if no-one knows they were trans as some inane PP is trying to suggest, it's v unlikely they died as a result of transphobia. So a stupid point to make really.

PumpkinSpiceWoman · 22/04/2021 12:14

@picklemewalnuts

Thank you for clarifying that.

334bu · 22/04/2021 12:09

My apologies I made a mistake regarding the numbers of transwomen killed. I only gave the numbers of those killed by a partner, but there have been another 7 transwomen who have tragically lost their lives killed by men.

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334bu · 22/04/2021 10:51

I believe that in the last ten years or so 2 Transwomen were tragically murdered. I think gingernaut may be referring to the 12 or it might be 13 transwomen convicted of murder in the UK during this period

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andyoldlabour · 27/03/2021 11:06

Shizuku

"How do you know that it's rare to pass well enough to be fully stealth?"

Stealth - cautious and surreptitious action or movement, a deliberate attempt to access areas which would not be available to them under normal and legal means.
If even one transgender person had been murdered in the past year or two, then everyone would have heard about it, possibly resulting in a month of mourning.
Suffice to say, that thankfully none were murdered, which doesn't make it any easier for the relations and friends of hundreds of women who were murdered.
Please do not keep trying to appropriate the grief of these people.

flyingfoxkins · 27/03/2021 10:22

@AnxiousAndUnraveling - absolutely. The activists want them categorised as women so they will never know. Its the same as that daft person in the Green Party telling people to not record their gender and sex separately in the census - so no statistics on anything to do with TWs so they erase themselves????

ItsLateHumpty · 27/03/2021 04:49

@Shizuku

How do you know that none of the women on that list were trans?
If TWAW and were on this list you’d like Jess to dead-name or out them after death? That’s ummm.... checks notes.... highly transphobic of you.
Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/03/2021 18:27

Women are not the oppressor class. Using every opportunity to turn it around and blame women is not any recognisable form of feminism. It smacks of DARVO.

I completely agree.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/03/2021 18:26

How do you know that it's rare to pass well enough to be fully stealth? You literally have no way of knowing because, ahem, they pass well enough to be fully stealth.

What, no MTF trans person who fully passes to be "stealth" ever refers to themselves as transgender on social media? Because I deduce from the fact that most self declared MTF trans people are very obviously biological males, even with the ability to use photoshop, that most MTF trans people don't actually pass as female.

TheRabbitOfCaerbannog · 12/03/2021 17:01

Look at the absolute batshittery Karen Ingala Smith is dealing with today. As PPs have noted, don't talk about the 118 women who died - let's have a conversation about the trans women who didn't...

twitter.com/k_ingalasmith/status/1370078383065948171?s=21

RandomMess · 12/03/2021 15:31

@Babdoc

Fancy me wanting that GrinGrinGrin

Babdoc · 12/03/2021 14:55

RandomMess, you are expecting logical consistency from a totally illogical ideology.
TW are women but they are a different kind of sparkly superior women. Who need a separate and much more important list. Even when it’s empty.

MeltsAway · 12/03/2021 13:33

Trans women are more likely to murder than be murdered

@Gingernaut there are some interesting accounts here:
www.womenarehuman.com/category/europe/england/

Warning: NSFW

RandomMess · 12/03/2021 13:29

But if TW are women then they would be on the list as they would be a woman 🧐 so are they now admitting TW aren't women and need a separate list??!

newrubylane · 12/03/2021 13:26

SW points out that if a TW doesn't have a GRC then she will be recorded as a man. But I question what the alternative is. Obviously we currently record murder victims by their legal sex, in which case this method is correct. So are we saying murders should be recorded by gender? But we can't ask a murder victim how they identify. I suppose we could ask friends/family, but what if they disagree, whose word do we take? Or are supposed to go on what they are wearing at the time of their murder, or something? What exactly are SW and co proposing?

Thelnebriati · 12/03/2021 13:24

Women are not the oppressor class. Using every opportunity to turn it around and blame women is not any recognisable form of feminism. It smacks of DARVO.

FFS....I really despair...
Xiaoxiong · 12/03/2021 13:18

they pass well enough to be fully stealth.

Generally not after they've been murdered. If anything, some of those murdered women on a hundred plus autopsy tables in morgues across the country may have been transmen. But transmen never count, do they Hmm

Datun · 12/03/2021 13:07

@Uhohmummy

It really makes you despair when this is the first response of someone hearing that list of names. Where is the compassion? The condemnation of male violence against women? The solidarity? The misplaced anger towards women (sensing a theme here) and attempt to refocus attention on a non existent group (by this I mean the list of trans women killed in the UK in the last 12 months) is mind boggling. Surely it’s a good thing that no trans women were killed in the last year.
Nothing is off limits is it.

And now, lately, it appears that the more inhumane, the most horrific or the more traumatic those things are, the more they are targeted.

Stillbirth, rape refuges, female genital mutilation and now even death.

Death by male violence.

JustTurtlesAllTheWayDown · 12/03/2021 12:57

@TheIncredibleBookEatingManchot

mobile.twitter.com/SakuraNoSeirei/status/1370028585180819460

FFS at this reply to Sarah Woolley's tweet.

Why do white TRAs always try to use black and Asian women to prop up their arguments?

Do they not realise how offensive, how racist it is to do that?

And if they actually listened to the names of the killed women or looked at some of the published photos they would see that it's clearly not a list of only white women.

Feeling so angry about this, don't think I've really got my meaning across very well, but posting in case someone more articulate than me sees it and wants to express more clearly what's wrong with the tweet I've linked to.

Ah yes, that's the Libdem individual who referred to their hormonal treatment as 'bimbo pills' I believe and were merrily telling us all off on the 50/50 parliament representation thread that ended up full of holes.
Gingernaut · 12/03/2021 12:47

Trans women are more likely to murder than be murdered.

There is a hideous case of the poor girl murdered and dismembered, allegedly by Gareeca Conita Gordon and a companion.

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