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Worried about independence under the SNP

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Wandawomble · 11/03/2021 02:37

I’m worried about independence and the hate crime bill. I don’t want to be sealed off in a country that will punish women for defending their sex based rights.
What are others feeling? My DH keeps saying once Scotland gets independence the SNP and their hate crime bill will be out. I don’t believe this. Who to vote for?

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Wandawomble · 12/03/2021 00:02

@ArabellaScott

Why the fuck would we even want independence? What is being offered - the chance to live in a country where women must sit patiently while the government works out what we can call ourselves, how we can talk about men?

Sorry, OP, I am absolutely fuming after yesterday and none of my anger is directed at anybody here, just at the Scottish government.

This was me last night to DH - saying I didn’t want to live here anymore. It was in the top of the dreadful news of that poor woman in London and I felt complete despair. DH was a bit stunned and defensive - but then today he was listening to the radio and it was all about women and the lack of safety we have and he was quite sorry. I will not be voting for independence unless we are with a government I feel safe with. Right now the SNP doesn’t feel safe for women. Even its own members.
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Ohwhatllipick · 11/03/2021 23:12

There’s no reason why the SNP should be any good at anything really, they are in politics for one thing: the clues in the name! Of course they will pick the people who they think can make the best case for independence above their competence at anything else. Post independence (if it ever happens) voters who wanted independence will pick their representatives for other reasons. Politics is bound to change.
I really want independence. Not because I’m a flag waver or because I hate the English, but because I want government by people I might bump into in the street. I think if you’ve been to school with people, or know people who have, it’s harder for them to make out like some people deserve superwealth and others can get by on a crumb a week. I want to be European again.
An independent Scotland shouldn’t be judged by the SNP. Of course they’ve got things wrong. But they are temporary politicians, they are not the forever rulers of a future Scotland.

howonearthdidwegethere · 11/03/2021 23:03

There is no such thing as 'independence' in the C21. Every country is interdependent.

As we are seeing with this issue, Scottish civic society is utterly incapable of holding the government to account in any meaningful way.

Scotland is not more left leaning or radical than the rest of the UK. If anything it is more socially conservative.

The SNP are a single issue party with no analysis of the big policy dilemmas that face Scotland (and the UK).

The SNP are an authoritarian party, on one hand claiming we are all more progressive but also want to micro-police our every behaviour (hello Named Person, OBFA, this hate crime bill).

None of these dynamics will go away under 'independence' whatever that means.

NonnyMouse1337 · 11/03/2021 22:39

Don’t fall for it. Women’s rights are entitled to come first for once and I don’t want to live in a country that thinks they don’t matter and I won’t vote for a party that has such contempt for women ever.

Absolutely. As I said previously, self-respect is key. As women, we must never meekly accept that our only position is to always stand at the back of the queue while 'real' issues are tackled.

Sillydoggy · 11/03/2021 22:15

If the SNP did win independence the first thing they would do is set themselves up as a govt to manage the transition (for the next 10 years) Then when you asked them to fix women’s rights they would say ‘well we’ve got to sort the administration of the country out first and then we might deal with it’. It’s ‘after the revolution girls’ all over again. Don’t fall for it. Women’s rights are entitled to come first for once and I don’t want to live in a country that thinks they don’t matter and I won’t vote for a party that has such contempt for women ever.

reprehensibleme · 11/03/2021 22:00

Erm, sorry to butt in - I think you're both saying the same thing!

ThePankhurstConnection · 11/03/2021 21:47

@MissBarbary

you'll have to accept that some people disagree with you

As will you. You seem terribly flustered by my expressing disagreement.

Flustered? In what way?
Merename · 11/03/2021 21:41

I am another strong independence supporter that is having my first SNP wobble. I can’t imagine not voting for them due to my belief in independence being the right thing, but endorsing what is happening feels deeply wrong. So troubling and I don’t know what to do.

MissBarbary · 11/03/2021 21:38

you'll have to accept that some people disagree with you

As will you. You seem terribly flustered by my expressing disagreement.

ThePankhurstConnection · 11/03/2021 21:32

What is your problem? Pardon me for expressing my opinion on places I have lived!

I have lived in both cities and found them similar - lots of rural farming community in the North of England too you know. BTW they aren't the only places I have lived in either country

You know what MissBarbary people might find similarities between Scotland and England and there will be similarities whether you like it or not and unless you are the authority on both places you'll have to accept that some people disagree with you.

MissBarbary · 11/03/2021 20:22

@ThePankhurstConnection

I've lived in Manchester and I found the city and its people (and its weather) to be very similar to Glasgow, which is possibly why I love it so much and I reckon I've got much more in common with people living in the big cities in the North than I do with for e.g a fisherman living in the Highlands & Islands.

I have also lived in both of these cities and they are so similar. The North of England has a great deal in common with Scotland in my experience.

Really? Which parts of Scotland would that be? Edinburgh? Perth? Orkney? the farming communities of East Lothian, Perthshire and the Borders?

Scotland has one proper sized city - Glasgow. If you (general you) are going to play this sort of (pointless) "fa's like us" game may be the reality is Glasgow is quite a lot like similar cities in England and very different from the rest of Scotland.

peak2021 · 11/03/2021 20:09

The Tories will make sure there is no independence vote before 2024. Even though they have sold Ulster Unionists down the river over Brexit and the border in all but name across the Irish Sea.

Much as I support Scottish independence though living in England, I maintain my opinion that the best argument against it is the SNP.

NonnyMouse1337 · 11/03/2021 19:55

The SNP are not a left wing party. They are fairly centrist on a lot of issues, especially economics.

Gingerkittykat · 11/03/2021 19:48

I am pro independence so will vote for SNP as a means to an end but I really dislike the way they seem to want to control private lives.

I don't think they will disband after independence because they have other policies as a left wing party but I do hope we have a change of government then or even a strong opposition.

jhuizinga · 11/03/2021 15:29

As a Scot who lives in England, I think that the two countries are more alike now in many ways than they have ever been - which may explain some of the enthusiasm for Scottish nationalism as a means of differentiation. I think the main difference between Scotland and England is that the latter is a large, densely populated country in contrast to Scotland where a small population means that everyone knows everyone and the "kent your faither" attitude keeps people in check. The close links between people leads to a sense of community which can be lacking in England but also to the sort of narrow mindedness that appears to be rife in the so-called progressive policies of the SNP who seem to be the 21st Century successors of Robert Burns' "Holy Willie". I was absolutely gutted last night by the votes on the Hate Crime Bill and agree that it does not bode well for an independent Scotland.

MissBarbary · 11/03/2021 14:50

I live in Edinburgh. I'm sure I could move to Bath, Oxford, Cambridge or Exeter and notice almost no difference.

I've never heard one coherent, logical or objective reason to support separatism. I voted no in both devolution referenda and the indy ref .I have since the first one moved from Labour to Conservative but it has not shifted my view that "independence" unthinking sentimentality.

dementedma · 11/03/2021 14:25

Will never vote for nationalism, and the SNP demonstrate all of the negatives about nationalist ideology. Racism, bigotry, anti-womens rights and seperatism. Add to this the recent in fighting, lying and lack of transparency and it beggars belief that anyone would vote them.

ThePankhurstConnection · 11/03/2021 14:19

@Morgan12

Thank you for explaining this.

I am so torn now. I really want independence for Scotland. The SNP are the only chance of that.

No they are not. There are better ways to pursue this goal.

I any case i think it is naive to think that Nicola Sturgeon has any intention of pursuing independence and what is independence really worth if you have effectively a one party system when that party is hell bent on curtailing civil liberties and free speech? Frankly I'd rather have the safety net of being part of the UK's political process than being held to the kind of policies we are seeing from the SNP now, particularly when they have made their feelings about women quite clear. I think it is incredibly short sighted to put independence before anything else because if you vote on that alone you are then stuck with a party in charge whose policies have become increasingly totalitarian in nature (Named Person to 'Hate Crime' Bill) and legislation which is not fit for purpose.

From my understanding independence is wanting freedom from the UK, freedom to be able to handle their own finances and laws but what use is that if the party who give you independence are useless at writing effective legislation and are patriarchal in the extreme in the kind of legislation they want. So freedom for the country but not for the people? I may be missing something but I can't wrap my head around why anyone would want this.

I think some people (not suggesting you are one Morgan btw) are so blinded by the idea of independence, have been so wedded to that goal for so long they can no longer see how voting SNP is detrimental to the electorate - beyond independence what would you be voting SNP for? Certainly not because they are a party who believes in free speech or cares about women's issues. I don't get it - but I'm happy to listen to any reasoning regarding this attitude.

In any event you can vote ISP 2 but this does leave the first option wide open. I can't in good conscience vote SNP I believe their policies and current set up are undemocratic and insidiously authoritarian in nature.

ArabellaScott · 11/03/2021 14:15

I do think the rural/urban split is a good point, btw. But I don't know how that could be addressed, seeing as the demographics are so vastly different.

ThePankhurstConnection · 11/03/2021 14:07

I've lived in Manchester and I found the city and its people (and its weather) to be very similar to Glasgow, which is possibly why I love it so much and I reckon I've got much more in common with people living in the big cities in the North than I do with for e.g a fisherman living in the Highlands & Islands.

I have also lived in both of these cities and they are so similar. The North of England has a great deal in common with Scotland in my experience.

Morgan12 · 11/03/2021 13:54

Thank you for explaining this.

I am so torn now. I really want independence for Scotland. The SNP are the only chance of that.

theskyispinkiiihaveOVARITcodes · 11/03/2021 12:40

I will always support independence (and tire of the usual suspects who pop into these threads just to tell us off). I do not support the SNP.

ArabellaScott · 11/03/2021 11:40

they have lied, failed and I can't trust them to have been honest

Agree. This is not a party who deserves to be in power.

terryleather · 11/03/2021 11:40

@reprehensibleme

See I don't buy that Scotland 'leans' differently - I think we're pretty much the same with a different accent.
I'd pretty much agree with this.

In many ways I'd say there's bigger differences between those living an urban life v a rural one.

I've lived in Manchester and I found the city and its people (and its weather) to be very similar to Glasgow, which is possibly why I love it so much and I reckon I've got much more in common with people living in the big cities in the North than I do with for e.g a fisherman living in the Highlands & Islands.

As has already been said, when someone shows you who they are believe them.

The SG have shown me they are authoritarian coercive progressives who have been institutionally captured and they pay lip service to women's rights so they can feel righteous while shitting all over us.

They can get tae fuck.

reprehensibleme · 11/03/2021 11:34

Many Scots already complain that everything revolves around the central belt, especially Edinburgh. The SNP has been in government in Scotland for years and have abjectly failed to improve the lot of millions outside the cities (and the lot of many in the cities). They blame Westminster, take no responsibility even though they have had years of opportunity. They've tinkered round the edges instead of taking the opportunity to make real and powerful change. It's not good enough (or even true) that the SNP hands are tied because of Westminster. This is one of the many reasons I don't take their push for independence at face value - they have lied, failed and I can't trust them to have been honest and truthful about what an independent Scotland will look like.

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