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Conversion Therapy and a Survey of 25,896 LGBTQ youth

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Shizuku · 09/03/2021 12:15

Trigger Warning - this post discusses suicidal feelings.

As the banning of conversion therapy is currently being debated, it might be useful for members of this group to see a survey of 25,896 LGBTQ youth which found that 57% of transgender and non-binary youth who have undergone conversion therapy report a suicide attempt in the last year:

www.thetrevorproject.org/survey-2019/?section=Conversion-Therapy-Change-Attempts

If anyone reading this is experiencing suicidal thoughts, please know that suicide is preventable, and that support is available. Here is a link to the Samaritans:

www.samaritans.org/

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Datun · 12/03/2021 12:49

Denying AGP, denying HSTS, denying the overrepresentation of autism, denying ROGD.

In an attempt to outlaw questioning and challenge as 'conversion therapy'.

How do you think it is going to go down with parents here, if you say they are not allowed to question whether or not their daughter is a boy?

It's too late for all this denial.

It's DeTrans Awareness Day, for heavens sake.

There's even an entire day devoted to questioning gender ideology.

It's too late.

Helleofabore · 12/03/2021 12:44

So shizuku. Have you got some evidence to support the assertion that transwomen are female?

And would you be willing to stake a transwoman’s life on that evidence in a medical situation?

YetAnotherSpartacus · 12/03/2021 12:44

Gender identity is something we have known about forever - scientists are way beyond wondering if it exists - they know it exists, so they now study things like it's [its -sic] origins and development

Really? When was it first mentioned then? Plato? Aristotle? Aquinas? Averroes? Or is it more, like, Twitter forever?

Awiltu · 12/03/2021 12:42

ROGD is a conspiracy theory popular in transphobic circles. With the exception of occasional, tarns-obsessed outliers like Blanchard (read his Twitter timeline), no one in academia takes it seriously.

These clinicians take it seriously:

Hutchinson, A., Midgen, M. & Spiliadis, A. In Support of Research Into Rapid-Onset Gender Dysphoria. Arch Sex Behav 49, 79–80 (2020). doi.org/10.1007/s10508-019-01517-9

A direct quote from this letter:

"Unless we are free to discuss, explore, and research differential presentations of gender dysphoria, the range of interventions which might best serve each young person may not be available to them. We do not think that this is good enough for our patients. We are grateful to the academics and researchers involved in this much needed, though difficult, conversation about how to continue to do our best for all of those who seek our help."

Datun · 12/03/2021 12:38

It's person's own innate sense of what sex they are.

The sense that they are one sex, when they categorically are not? But nonetheless, they need all the rights, protocols, and access based on the sex they are not? And you are saying that disagreeing with this is conversion therapy?

Have I got that right?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/03/2021 12:36

How much is "innately knowing" your sex, and how much is socialisation into your sex class?

Datun · 12/03/2021 12:35

ROGD is a conspiracy theory popular in transphobic circles.

Dear lord. It doesn't take long does it. You do realise, that there are numerous women on here, whose children have ROGD?

30PercentRecycled · 12/03/2021 12:35

twitter.com/ImWatson91/status/1370188608813023232?s=19

Conversion Therapy and a Survey of 25,896 LGBTQ youth
OldCrone · 12/03/2021 12:34

Gender identity is something we have known about forever - scientists are way beyond wondering if it exists - they know it exists, so they now study things like it's origins and development.

Really? I thought it was John Money who first started talking about gender identity when he was carrying out his abusive experiments on children.

Do you have any links to these studies about gender identity which actually explain what it is, since you seem to be unable to provide a definition.

Shedbuilder · 12/03/2021 12:34

If puberty blockers, cross-sex hormones and surgery were all so benign then why did Crispin Blunt and the other members of the APPG on Global LGB and T+ Rights state in their policy document that doctors and medics prescribing and operating should be exempt from being sued by detransitioners? It's a tenet of medical practice here in the UK that doctors should do no harm — and if they do harm, they need to be held to account. What other branch of medicine or surgery is exempt from consequences for those medics who behave recklessly or in their own interest?

Blunt and his friends know there's a tsunami of legal claims on the way.

Datun · 12/03/2021 12:33

Your evidence?

You're asking me for the lack of evidence of something you can't define, describe, verify or ascertain? 🙄

Shizuku · 12/03/2021 12:31

@Ereshkigalangcleg

Come on Shizuku explain it in really simple terms for us. What is a gender identity? Is it more than just knowing your sex is whichever of the two it is, and if so, how?
It's person's own innate sense of what sex they are. Scientists believe it is biological in origin.

www.endocrine.org/advocacy/position-statements/transgender-health

"The medical consensus in the late 20th century was that transgender and gender incongruent individuals suffered a mental health disorder termed “gender identity disorder.” Gender identity was considered malleable and subject to external influences. Today, however, this attitude is no longer considered valid. Considerable scientific evidence has emerged demonstrating a durable biological element underlying gender identity.1, 2 Individuals may make choices due to other factors in their lives, but there do not seem to be external forces that genuinely cause individuals to change gender identity."

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Shizuku · 12/03/2021 12:30

"And there it is. As I knew it would be. The number of transgender ideology advocates who want to disparage Blanchard is extraordinary."

What do you think of the idea that you propose a theory, test the theory and then claim that anyone who doesn't behave in way that supports your theory is a liar?

"And he has added ROGD to his analysis. Do you have any idea, any at all how many parents of children with ROGD are posting here? This is first hand experience."

ROGD is a conspiracy theory popular in transphobic circles. With the exception of occasional, tarns-obsessed outliers like Blanchard (read his Twitter timeline), no one in academia takes it seriously.

"Why would people have a different gender identity to their sex?"

No one knows exactly, but the consensus of scientific opinion now is that it is biological in origin:

www.endocrine.org/advocacy/position-statements/transgender-health

"The medical consensus in the late 20th century was that transgender and gender incongruent individuals suffered a mental health disorder termed “gender identity disorder.” Gender identity was considered malleable and subject to external influences. Today, however, this attitude is no longer considered valid. Considerable scientific evidence has emerged demonstrating a durable biological element underlying gender identity.1, 2 Individuals may make choices due to other factors in their lives, but there do not seem to be external forces that genuinely cause individuals to change gender identity."

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/03/2021 12:28

Come on Shizuku explain it in really simple terms for us. What is a gender identity? Is it more than just knowing your sex is whichever of the two it is, and if so, how?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/03/2021 12:26

You're trying to say gender identity is a concept in its own right. But you have no way of describing it, verifying it, or even ascertaining it.

What is it ?

I'd like a coherent answer to this question, too.

Shizuku · 12/03/2021 12:24

@Datun

Once again, conversion therapy would be any attempt to change a person's gender identity. If by exploring their mental health issues, they realise they are not trans, no problem, but if the therapists attempt techniques to force a person's gender identity to change, big problem.

Meaningless. A gender identity can be the result of trauma, but you're trying to make out that it's something separate. It isn't. It can be internalised homophobia. It can be a sense of not fitting in due to autism.

You're trying to make words fit a concept that you cannot define and cannot explain.

You're trying to say gender identity is a concept in its own right. But you have no way of describing it, verifying it, or even ascertaining it.

What is it ?

Your evidence?
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Shizuku · 12/03/2021 12:24

"The American Academy of Pediatrics article the OP links to is an opinion piece that does not reference any scientific evidence."

It was posted to show you how nobody but you thinks it doesn't exist, and how it's a very normal topic for discussion amongst pedatricians.

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Datun · 12/03/2021 12:21

Once again, conversion therapy would be any attempt to change a person's gender identity. If by exploring their mental health issues, they realise they are not trans, no problem, but if the therapists attempt techniques to force a person's gender identity to change, big problem.

Meaningless. A gender identity can be the result of trauma, but you're trying to make out that it's something separate. It isn't. It can be internalised homophobia. It can be a sense of not fitting in due to autism.

You're trying to make words fit a concept that you cannot define and cannot explain.

You're trying to say gender identity is a concept in its own right. But you have no way of describing it, verifying it, or even ascertaining it.

What is it ?

Shizuku · 12/03/2021 12:20

@stuckinatrap

OP,

Of course the example of torture inflicted in the name of conversion 60 years ago is horrendous - and everyone bar none would say that should be outlawed. I believe it probably already is, though, under torture and assault laws. Quite rightly.

There is no evidence that that sort of 'therapy' is still going on today.

I fear that the scandal that will be shared on Mumsnet of the future will be 'There were children with gender dysphoria and they did what to them?! Gave them irreversible hormone treatments and allowed them to have healthy body parts removed?! Where was the therapy?! What were they thinking?!'

Or perhaps they will look at happy, well-adjusted women like Jackie Green, and then look at kids like Leelah Alcorn who took her own life after conversion therapy was attempted, and think, what a shame they didn't start helping trans kids transition sooner.

time.com/3655718/leelah-alcorn-suicide-transgender-therapy/

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Datun · 12/03/2021 12:17

One of the biggest complaints that trans people have is the incredible length of time trans kids have to wait just to speak to someone. All the support is wanted and needed and is not considered conversion therapy.

Dear lord. Hordes of transactivists on Twitter have just said that they are not going to allow trans people to be counted, in order to allocate resources.

Constant contradictions. It's chaotic.

Datun · 12/03/2021 12:14

@Shizuku

This thread is very funny to read - the lengths you will go to in order to say that literally thousands of doctors and scientists and trans people and experts on conversion therapy and it's effects have got it all wrong, and then you wheel out Blanchard - the man who said that if anyone doesn't fill in his questionnaire in a way that supports his theory, must be lying.

Honestly, it's hilarious, and a little bit sad.

Still waiting for any evidence at all that not banning conversion therapy for trans people is going to be in any way beneficial for trans people.

And there it is. As I knew it would be. The number of transgender ideology advocates who want to disparage Blanchard is extraordinary.

Shizuku

Does it never occur to you that the number of people who know trans people, can see for themselves, how those people conform to what Blanchard says?

And he has added ROGD to his analysis. Do you have any idea, any at all how many parents of children with ROGD are posting here? This is first hand experience.

So, if it's not ROGD, not AGP, not HSTS, or gender dysphoria. what is it?

Why would people have a different gender identity to their sex?

30PercentRecycled · 12/03/2021 12:10

What do you think about all the detransitioner stories today?

How would you ensure people like them don't transition in future?

In your links there is very little information about lessons learned from detransitioners. Weird. Normally scientist are obsessed with understanding patients for whom the treatment fails. It helps them to do better differential diagnosis.

How come only no other countries have come out with the same results? As we have seen recently Europeans are really very good at medical research. We are a liberal bunch too, much more so than Americans. So why is American research out on its own? Why is it so shoddy, as previous posters describe? Aren't you worried about trans identifying children potentially being given unhelpful treatments?

Awiltu · 12/03/2021 12:09

14 pages of thoughtful, reasoned discussion and questions from posters and the OP's response is..."lol"?

The American Academy of Pediatrics article the OP links to is an opinion piece that does not reference any scientific evidence.

American and UK children are indeed the same species. However American and UK children do not experience the same societal influences, political climate or health care system.

Shizuku · 12/03/2021 12:04

@unwashedanddazed

I don't see people advocating for conversion therapy for young trans identified people. I do see people advocating for therapeutic support to explore underlying issues and co-morbid mental health problems. This is not equivalent to being strapped into a chair and being zapped with electrodes. However it is presented here as being the same thing. The move to outlaw conversion therapy in the UK is being hampered by this dishonest conflation of therapy and torture and only serves to muddy the waters with untruths.
"I don't see people advocating for conversion therapy for young trans identified people. I do see people advocating for therapeutic support to explore underlying issues and co-morbid mental health problems."

That's no problem at all - it generally is, and certainly should be part of the counselling that trans kids receive. It's not the same thing as attempting psycotherapy techniques to make their gender identity change (conversion therapy).

"The move to outlaw conversion therapy in the UK is being hampered by this dishonest conflation of therapy and torture and only serves to muddy the waters with untruths."

It isn't - everyone wants trans kids to receive all the support they need. One of the biggest complaints that trans people have is the incredible length of time trans kids have to wait just to speak to someone. All the support is wanted and needed and is not considered conversion therapy.

Once again, conversion therapy would be any attempt to change a person's gender identity. If by exploring their mental health issues, they realise they are not trans, no problem, but if the therapists attempt techniques to force a person's gender identity to change, big problem.

All trans people want is for a practice that has been shown to harm trans people, and that thousands of experts across the world agree harms trans people, to be outlawed. It's not a big ask.

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Shizuku · 12/03/2021 11:56

@MeltsAway

In the absence of a scientific (experimentally falsifiable) set of criteria for the presence or absence of 'gender identity', belief in gender identity remains at best metaphysical. But everything OP wishes to convince herself and her readers of depends on the real existence of gender identity

Yes @9toenails - we keep asking for scientifically verifiable (falsifiable, observable, replicable) data on gender identity.

And answer cam there none.

Gender identity is something we have known about forever - scientists are way beyond wondering if it exists - they know it exists, so they now study things like it's origins and development.

Here, this might help you. Don't worry, it's not from a trans site - it's from the American Academy of Pediatrics. Yes, it's American, but again, don't worry, American kids are the same species.

www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/gradeschool/Pages/Gender-Identity-and-Gender-Confusion-In-Children.aspx

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