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Observer campaign to tackle femicide.

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merrymouse · 07/03/2021 11:08

www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2021/mar/07/the-observer-view-we-can-no-longer-turn-away-femicide-must-be-tackled-now?CMP=fb_cif

www.theguardian.com/society/2021/mar/07/end-femicide-278-dead-the-hidden-scandal-of-older-women-killed-by-men

Just going to say there are people at the Observer doing some great work.

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merrymouse · 07/03/2021 13:54

The 59 cut off is very strange.

Madonna is only 62.

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EmbarrassingAdmissions · 07/03/2021 13:44

I am sick with anger about this and that I didn't know about the age threshold.

I've often wondered why items that I recalled from the news didn't seem to turn up in official statistics. I've mentioned it a few times and been told that either I didn't remember correctly (I have a very unusual memory) or that the newspapers didn't print the correct details (feasible). But to discover there was an actual threshold that I didn't know about - I feel complicit to making these women invisible.

I have repeatedly asked about whether women are especially vulnerable in Elder Abuse and who does it - I feel that not only was I gaslighted but I allowed myself to be gaslighted when I knew that something had to be wrong. I should never have allowed myself to live with the implication that I was wrong about this.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/03/2021 12:55

This is a very good and utterly chilling article. An important campaign.

ViolaDaviesFanClub · 07/03/2021 12:51

So glad to see this campaign from the Observer. Karen Ingala and Nia do such great work.

The frightening thing is that we only count the official number of femicides - there are so many more that are not classed as murders or as femicides in official records.

Excellent podcast reportage (multi-media) about this from Tortoise, which I would recommend to everyone: www.tortoisemedia.com/audio/hidden-in-plain-sight/

Eyesofdisarray · 07/03/2021 12:50

Absolutely shocking, but thanks for posting. I don't read the G.
Such tragic stories- one man 'walked free' ????
Those poor women

FrankButchersDickieBow · 07/03/2021 12:49

I just came on to see if this had already been posted. Very sad article, but so glad it is being brought up.

334bu · 07/03/2021 12:32

Thank you for posting these articles

EmbarrassingAdmissions · 07/03/2021 11:21

Until three years ago, women of Ruth Williams’s age would not have been counted in the Crime Survey for England and Wales (CSEW). Then, it had a cap of 59 years, now it is 74, and is due to be raised next year, excluding institutions such as care homes and refuges; a hidden death toll.
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“If you are found at the bottom of the stairs at 40, the police are probably going to ask questions,” says Bows, one of the few researchers working in the area. “Deeply entrenched ageism means that if you are 80, it’s, ‘Well, she probably fell.’

“When you look at police data on abuse, rape and murder, older women aren’t there. If a crime is looked at, at all, it’s treated as a safeguarding issue, gender neutral, ‘elder abuse’ with no perpetrator.

Accurate and horrific. It's why accuracy of sex is so important. This always makes me think of Joseph Cotten's chilling dialogue as Uncle Charlie in Shadow of a Doubt :

The cities are full of women, middle-aged widows, husbands, dead, husbands who've spent their lives making fortunes, working and working. And then they die and leave their money to their wives, their silly wives. And what do the wives do, these useless women? You see them in the hotels, the best hotels, every day by the thousands, drinking the money, eating the money, losing the money at bridge, playing all day and all night, smelling of money, proud of their jewelry but of nothing else, horrible, faded, fat, greedy women... Are they human or are they fat, wheezing animals, hmm? And what happens to animals when they get too fat and too old?

www.imdb.com/title/tt0036342/

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