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Parliamentary debate on Monday to ban gay conversion therapy

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rabbitwoman · 06/03/2021 08:12

Morning!

I have been keeping an eye out for a thread about this but can't see one....

Banning conversion therapy was a key manesfesto pledge by this government. Of course, gay conversion therapy is appalling and archaic and I am amazed its still legal in this country so of course I am all for a ban. The government have been slow off the mark, though.

A petition to ban conversion therapy reached 250000 so it is being raised in parliament on Monday. Great! I signed it myself.....

But then closer inspection of the wording of the petition raised alarm bells - it doesn't say gay conversion therapy, but LGBT therapy......

The recent decision to re evaluate the use of puberty blockers for children has caused a lot of anger and debate amongst many trans rights advocates, and I presume that the main thrust of the debate will be around the treatment of gender dysphoric children.

The Keira Bell case very much highlighted the problems with the Stonewall advocated approach of complete and immediate affirmation of transgender children and it would appear that actually, a range of treatments may be appropriate, including therapy and counselling that may question a child's gender distress and explore alternative causes, helping a child to successful outcomes that may not include transitioning.

In many places this has been reframed as 'conversion therapy'. I am very concerned that the thrust of the argument in parliament will be much less about the abhorrent practice of using psychological and physical torture to supress same sexual attraction, and more about outlawing a range of therapies for children presenting with gender dysphoria.

This has happened in Australia and the USA, and it looks like a call to folow suit here, which would raise concerns from a safeguarding viewpoint, as well as directly contradicting the findings of the recent Tavistock review. Making it illeagle to explore what could be alternative causes of gender dysphoria and heading straight to transition is a worrying treatment model.

There is also a lot of compelling evidence from the Tavistock review that gay children had been pushed into transition by homophobic parents - Marcus Evans, Susan Evans and Dr David Bell have all said this in public interviews.

The wording of this petition, though, seems to be a deliberate tactic to lump together perfectly reasonable and watchful therapies with abhorrent and sickening practises. I am concerned that the nuance will be missed by some and the progress that has been made since the review will be lost.

It is possible to believe that gay conversion therapy is wrong on every level, but also to think that hormones and surgery is not an appropriate pathway for many children currently identifying out of womanhood. Providing alternative treatments for gender dysphoric children should not be lumped in with gay conversion therapy.

I have tried to raise this on twitter and the replies I got seemed to be willfully refusing to see the difference.

I will be following the debate with interest, though!

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Wondermule · 08/03/2021 20:09

Would this bill have to go through the HoL?

ArabellaScott · 08/03/2021 20:07

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NecessaryScene1 · 08/03/2021 19:58

It's like there is a left-hand and a right-hand thing happening.

Some of this feels a bit like Wile E. Coyote still running in mid-air until Roadrunner points out that he's over the edge of the canyon so he looks down.

They're going through the pre-ordained motions scripted by the Dentons/Yogyakarta/Press For Change/Stonewall groups, but haven't noticed the changed situation.

Or that everyone is watching them.

Including the House of Lords.

Datun · 08/03/2021 19:47

I don't understand it. I don't understand how they can decide that a cure for dysphoria is also conversion therapy, when a High Court has just been reading reams about 'cures' for gender dysphoria and know all about it.

It's like there is a left-hand and a right-hand thing happening.

And how telling someone who is gay, that they are the opposite sex, and therefore they are not gay, isn't conversion therapy. As testified by people at the absolute coalface in the Tavistock.

rabbitwoman · 08/03/2021 19:45

It's interesting what is being said now, or rather, what is not being said - but there are too many people watching for anything to slip in under the radar, I reckon. Unlike other countries, we know what is going on here and we have legal precident to prevent it.

However this debate ends up going, it won't be the last of it, for sure.....

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BuntingEllacott · 08/03/2021 19:44

Fucking fuckers.

Sorry, I'm not being very helpful. I used to be 100% for a ban, even argued for it on this board. But these bastards saying these things, glossing over what happened to me so they can do it under clinical cover to other lesbians as long as the use the right form of words. Fucking, fucking fuckers. This is not a ban proposal. It's anti-gay gaslighting. So angry.

nauticant · 08/03/2021 19:44

3 new gender identity clinics to be opened this year. I think this could be a positive, so long as they don't carry out conversion therapy themselves that is.

ArabellaScott · 08/03/2021 19:43

@nauticant

"There is no need for more research. We've already waited 3 years."

Said in the context of no one in the stream understanding that conversion therapy for gays and conversion therapy for trans people are very different in some respects.

I assume a Bill is going to come out of this. It's going to be a load of apparent sense with a great big Trojan Horse bolted onto it.

Shock Scary.
nauticant · 08/03/2021 19:39

I don't know who's speaking at the moment, it sounds like she's a government minister, but what she's coming out with is largely sensible. Mainly I suspect because she's talking about measures to tackle the harmful practices that are actually taking place.

NecessaryScene1 · 08/03/2021 19:35

A suggestion that social media companies should ban discussion of conversion therapy on their platforms. Interesting.

How very 2021.

Is this a proper parliamentary debate or is this another of those funny bingo games where someone gets marks for most egregious shoehorning of tropes?

Erkrie · 08/03/2021 19:35

A suggestion that social media companies should ban discussion of conversion therapy on their platforms. Interesting.

That is interesting. And whose best interests would that serve I wonder? Certainly not the public or those seeking to increase their knowledge and understanding for a child.

nauticant · 08/03/2021 19:31

A suggestion that social media companies should ban discussion of conversion therapy on their platforms. Interesting.

SmokedDuck · 08/03/2021 19:30

We really don't normally regulate ineffective treatments beyond stopping them making unsupported efficacy claims, right?

Professional organisations often deal with this stuff - ether by banning it among registered practitioners, or by best practice approaches. Those can be quite powerful, after all they are how affirmative therapy came to largely dominate although often it is evidence based.

This is why this is all hanging on the gay conversion therapy thing, I think. It's not really a normal way to deal with an already out of favour treatment model. They are relying on people not questioning it because it's not ok to question supporting gay rights causes in the minds of many, even in very specific/detailed ways. If people object they will call them, not only transphobic but homophobic.

Mind you I think a lot of it is performative too. It's legislation that looks like the government is interested in social justice but actually does nothing and costs nothing.

nauticant · 08/03/2021 19:28

"There is no need for more research. We've already waited 3 years."

Said in the context of no one in the stream understanding that conversion therapy for gays and conversion therapy for trans people are very different in some respects.

I assume a Bill is going to come out of this. It's going to be a load of apparent sense with a great big Trojan Horse bolted onto it.

FindTheTruth · 08/03/2021 19:18

stop pray away the gay. and stop trans away the gay. gay people exist and trans people exist. This legislation must not inadvertently stop a therapist from exploring the background for same-sex attracted youth presenting as trans. if this legislation enforces the affirmation model it will lead to more Keira Bells ...... So what is the Australia / Madrid model? what safeguards for gay kids?

nauticant · 08/03/2021 19:17

Apparently there's twice as much conversion therapy being offered to trans people than to gay people. Like NecessaryScene1 says, what is this? Why can they give examples that relate to gay people but no one seems to be able to do the same for trans people?

Erkrie · 08/03/2021 19:12

I'm just leaving this link here for any lurkers interested in how this all took hold in the way it did. A few years old now, but a good read. And the fact that the T is attached to the LGB, deliberately, lends much weight to how this has all come about so quickly.

www.spectator.co.uk/article/the-document-that-reveals-the-remarkable-tactics-of-trans-lobbyists/amp?__twitter_impression=true&s=08

nauticant · 08/03/2021 19:10

I was reading about this recently, though, and the argument was roughly that MPs aren't really supposed to or don't need to have in-depth knowledge - that is what expert witnesses, advisers etc do. MPs are more of a sort of conduit between constituents and the govt.

Precisely. Showing that the input of the experts etc must be made highly transparent.

NecessaryScene1 · 08/03/2021 19:10

Who are all these people doing the conversion therapy that need to be stopped? Can they point to some organisations? Who, specifically, is being criminalised here?

GenderGP? (Lol)

Anyway, even if it's happening, surely if it's consenting adults, how can we stop them? I don't think we've managed to ban homeopathy yet have we?

We really don't normally regulate ineffective treatments beyond stopping them making unsupported efficacy claims, right?

BreastedBoobilyToTheStairs · 08/03/2021 19:06

It's interesting to see how the speeches have a schizophrenic character, when the talk is about concrete practices and actual harm it's about what happened and happens to gay people, but when the talk is about those affected, much of the focus is on trans people.

Absolutely. It's so telling.

It's also very frustrating, but unsurprising, that there is no recognition that watchful waiting, and counselling before a child is set on a medicalised pathway for life, are being thrown in with bodily harm and torture by those claiming that trans people are more highly impacted.

BuntingEllacott · 08/03/2021 19:05

Too fucking angry to speak.

rabbitwoman · 08/03/2021 19:05

Haven't any of these people done their research!? Haven't any of them heard of The Tavistock?

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ArabellaScott · 08/03/2021 19:04

when MPs debate things, even matters they've put themselves forward to debate, they actually often have only a superficial understanding of the facts, and even less understanding of the consequences of what they're proposing.

I was reading about this recently, though, and the argument was roughly that MPs aren't really supposed to or don't need to have in-depth knowledge - that is what expert witnesses, advisers etc do. MPs are more of a sort of conduit between constituents and the govt.

Wish I could remember where I read it, now!

nauticant · 08/03/2021 19:04

Hur hur, the honourable member for Livingstone said #superpowers. Mind, her speech was reality-based and not about #genderwoowoo.

nauticant · 08/03/2021 19:00

It's interesting to see how the speeches have a schizophrenic character, when the talk is about concrete practices and actual harm it's about what happened and happens to gay people, but when the talk is about those affected, much of the focus is on trans people.

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