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writing women back into the countryside: a book

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makespaceforgirls · 04/03/2021 09:35

I mentioned on the play equipment thread that I was writing a book about women and the countryside and didn't want to derail that conversation, so for anyone who is interested, here's a bit about it.

The book is based around me walking two of the oldest roads in England, the Ridgeway, which runs along the chalk of Oxfordshire, Wiltshire and Dorset and the Harrow Way, which runs from Andover to Devon via Stonehenge. It's in part about me getting my courage back to walk alone, and about why women feel threatened in the countryside, but it's also about why women in general are meant to be at home, or in the garden, about how the countryside is not a 'natural' thing, and how so many men walk all over the countryside for books and women don't.

On a more lateral tack, it also looks at why archaeology is done by men and through men's eyes, how almost every walk I take is done to the accompaniment of gunshot because the army are everywhere around me (see also the countryside is not natural), why John Betjeman was a terrible husband and how he would have been torn to shreds on MN and much else besides.

There are some very short excerpts from it on this website:

tenderfoot.co.uk/s-walker-text/

It's just gone off to be read by someone else. I have no idea whether it is brilliant or an insane cheese dream that only I would read. We will see;

If anyone wants to read a chapter or two, I'd be happy to oblige.

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backinthebox · 04/03/2021 10:10

I've just had a look at your blog - I am writing something very similar about riding with my children, ironically one of the chapters is about a 3 day ride along the Ridgeway with my children when they were younger and my terminally ill dad. Just as you are asked 'why do you walk alone?' I'm often asked 'will you be alright on your own with you kids?' Of course I will! Their dad knows nothing of horses or wild camping, and any journey that involves him is far better with 5 star hotels! Grin Hopefully my son will grow up to see that women have as much place in the countryside as men do. My daughter (to my delight) already strides around the place like she owns it.

AbsintheFriends · 04/03/2021 10:10

I'm so glad you posted this makespaceforgirls. Your writing is beautiful, as are the photos. I would love to read more. Will DM.

SunsetBeetch · 04/03/2021 10:06

Oh that's so good, OP. Good luck with the book!

FeistySheep · 04/03/2021 10:06

Can I ask why women don't like walking alone? Genuinely interested, not trolling I promise!
I walk a lot in the countryside and it's never occurred to me to feel unsafe. I see as many women walking alone as men. Not a single woman in my entire life (I am in my early thirties) has ever once expressed an opinion of feeling unsafe, in my hearing. I didn't know this was a thing!!
Would love to understand why. I can see why you'd be alarmed about getting shot at by the army (yikes!), but leaving that aside for the moment (as it must only affect a few areas of the country). Is it a fear of being attacked by a man, or is it something else?

Congrats on getting your book finished though OP! It's a tough thing to do

backinthebox · 04/03/2021 09:58

OP thanks for this thread! Just embroiled in homeschooling just now but would very much like to come back and discuss this issue later when I am free. The Ridgeway is my neck of the woods.

DancelikeEmmaGoldman · 04/03/2021 09:52

I hope you publish that book. I so enjoyed reading your blog. You write so evocatively of what you see and hear and feel.

makespaceforgirls · 04/03/2021 09:50

Anyone who wants to, DM me an email address and I will send something out. Thank you!

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risefromyourgrave · 04/03/2021 09:43

That sounds great OP, I walked in the dales a lot in my younger days and would love to walk alone, I’m quite a solitary figure!

ErrolTheDragon · 04/03/2021 09:40

That sounds really interesting.

ISaySteadyOn · 04/03/2021 09:39

Oh, me too.

BlackWaveComing · 04/03/2021 09:38

I'd like to, OP.