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Trans rights don't effect women's rights.

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ASugar · 04/03/2021 07:16

There is so much misinformation on this website and at places such as 'Fair Play For Women' that claims transgender rights effect women's rights. It is incorrect.

Firstly, nothing has proven that transgender women have the same crime rate as biological, cis men. It isn't biological and actually continuing this false narrative is allowing cis men to not take responsibility.

Secondly, Trans women and men pose no additional threat in prisons linked with their sex. They have been assaulted and abused to the same degree that they may have acted on which is why transgender wards are being put into place. However the issue isn't the fact TW or TM are in prisons assosiated with their gender, our prison systems aren't safe for anyone. That's what we should be concerned about and advocating for change within.

Thirdly, the bathroom debate. Transgender women have shown to pose no higher threat in single sex spaces than cisgender women. Meaning that denying their rights to use public bathrooms is unjustified. This actually is all recycled arguments from when lesbians and women of color wanted to use single sex spaces and wanted protection by the equality act for it.

And lastly, please stop believing everything you read online. A lot of the material made by the gender critical community is false. It is fabricated to scare you into believing them. Please take some time to do some research, speak to transgender people and learn that trans rights are not a debate.

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gamerchick · 04/03/2021 08:28

You've only proved you're young and brainwashed. The thread will go anyway and you have no proof of anything

Actually I think it should stand. Mega cringe worthy this is.

EdgeOfACoin · 04/03/2021 08:27

The attitudes, fear and discrimination that I see on this board towards trans people are comparible to previous attitudes, fear and discrimination that people had towards black people and gay people. The groups are different and the specific arguments are different, but the basic attitudes are the same.

Not really. You're making the argument that there should be no segregation by sex at all - ie, all changing rooms, toilets, prisons and hospital wards should be mixed sex. Do you support that?

If not, and you believe that trans people should be an exception, please could you explain what characteristics are shared by all women and transwomen that are not shared by any men or transmen that would warrant separation on the basis of gender identity rather than sex?

User26272829 · 04/03/2021 08:26

@nancywhitehead

*Firstly, there are plenty of lesbians and women of colour on this board, so kindly don't co-opt our struggles against us.

Secondly, gay people and people of colour have never claimed their civil rights by demanding that other vulnerable groups give up rights that they have fought for and that are protected in law. Nor have they demanded that people deny material evidence and say things that they know not to be true.*

OK well "Firstly" you don't know whether or not I fall into either of those categories myself.

Secondly, the point I was making was that people in the past have banned certain groups from hotels, bathrooms and other public spaces, out of fear, discrimination, thoughts that people were dirty, wrong, violent, or whatever other disgusting beliefs they felt could justify those actions.

You could make this exact argument against a person of colour by saying that a person of colour once was violent to someone or once attacked someone. Trans people are a section of society and within that there will be trans people who are criminals, just like there would be if you drew from any other section of society. It will be an extremely small percentage and people get completely fixated on it. Due to their lack of understanding and fear, they then use it as a way to be exclusionary. This exact thing happened in the past with people of colour and gay people who were deemed to be violent and dangerous.

Yeah, I’d appreciate it if you Trans rights activists would keep people of colour out of your argument. Defend your point of view by all means, however stop piggy-backing off other people’s genuine struggles. It’s just lazy and so offensive. Yours, a Black woman.
ChewtonRoad · 04/03/2021 08:26

Soreen, warmed, with a little salted butter.

I teach all young people that their sexuality is there's [sic] and it doesn't come with rules. Well that's all right then.

That yes a trans woman can be a lesbian In what specific ways can a transwoman (born a male bodied person) be a lesbian?

EdgedInBlue · 04/03/2021 08:25

Oh and my boobs also get in the way of my pull, affecting my stance.

Males never have that problem funnily enough.

wellthatsunusual · 04/03/2021 08:25

[quote ASugar]@BlackWaveComing Good thing she's no longer my mum anymore.[/quote]
Has she transitioned?

GCAcademic · 04/03/2021 08:25

By saying that trans women are somehow less, you are basically doing the same thing. You are attempting to justify exclusion because you have an irrational fear of something that you do not understand.

What a funny thing to say. No one is saying that trans women are "somehow less". We are saying that they are male. Which, in today's society as in every other, we are well aware counts for being more than a woman, something which we can see being borne out in the fact that every organisation and institution from universities to prisons has bent over to prioritise their demands, obliterating women's rights to not have to share a bedroom in university halls or a prison cell with a male.

ASugar · 04/03/2021 08:24

@BlackWaveComing Good thing she's no longer my mum anymore.

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FamilyOfAliens · 04/03/2021 08:24

@DisappearingGirl

Can people please stop picking on the OP's spelling and grammar? It's perfectly clear what they mean.

I generally agree with the principles of the posters on this board, but why not engage with people's questions and points in good faith. You can disagree with someone without being an arse to them.

The OP starts a thread specifically to harvest so-called transphobia and you say posters responding are posting “in bad faith”?

Priceless.

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 04/03/2021 08:24

@ASugar

Well done everyone!

You passed the test. I wanted to confirm this was a transphobic platform and you've all done that. In less than 30 minutes might I add!

This thread and comments will be collected and used to prove to MumsNet that the transphobia on this website is unsettling and wrong. Thanks ladies.

Oh no, our evil feminist empire is about to collapse, and it's all thanks to you and your incisive intellect.
EdgedInBlue · 04/03/2021 08:24

archery is not going to be affected as much

Wrong.

I use a 32lb recurve. I can pull a little more but not easily or comfortably.

Novice males can already pull that and more.

Experienced males have bows that I cannot even pull.

NotTerfNorCis · 04/03/2021 08:23

nancywhitehead The argument is that transwomen are as potentially dangerous as other males. Feminism does tend to recognise that males are sometimes a threat to women.

ASugar · 04/03/2021 08:23

@EnoughnowIthink I don't believe any rapist, sexual assault predator or murderer should be near others in prisons.

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BlackWaveComing · 04/03/2021 08:23

@DisappearingGirl

Can people please stop picking on the OP's spelling and grammar? It's perfectly clear what they mean.

I generally agree with the principles of the posters on this board, but why not engage with people's questions and points in good faith. You can disagree with someone without being an arse to them.

The poster isn't in good faith. That's 100% clear. We don't owe them a good faith response.
EdgeOfACoin · 04/03/2021 08:22

Tara Hudson (an actual mostly transitioned trans woman) should never have been getting sexually assaulted in a men's prison

I agree that mtf transitioners should not be assaulted in a men's prison. That doesn't mean they belong in a women's prison.

Women's spaces are not to be used as a safe harbour for anyone who might be at risk in a male space - other solutions are available.

Biscuitsanddoombar · 04/03/2021 08:21

As always back to the toilets, it’s so deeply deeply tedious 🙄 arguing that men should be in women’s prisons or refuges or playing sport against women or taking up women’s places on sports teams is so much harder isn’t it?

And nope we’ve always known when a TW was in our spaces but funnily enough as women learn very early on that men have the capacity to cause us great harm, we let it go because in the past we were talking about old school transsexuals of the kind TRA hate so much. Also because actually ppl are not generally cunts, we weren’t going to point and go “you’re a bloke”.

But we’re not talking about them now are we, we’re talking about any man who just feels like it being able to walk in on the basis after all acceptance without exception right?

Trans rights don't effect women's rights.
Trans rights don't effect women's rights.
wellthatsunusual · 04/03/2021 08:21

A lot of the problems are due to misinformation and because the trans community is very laissez faire (we have to be).

That's one of the most hilarious things I've ever read. The only trans community are the loudest, most privileged group in western society these days. They have had laws bent to their will inside about ten years. In comparison it took women hundreds of years to get even the most basic legal protections. Also less likely to be a victim of crime than women.

But yeah, the trans community are so quiet and unassuming that people barely know they exist.

BlackWaveComing · 04/03/2021 08:20

Imagine blaming your mum for your inability to spell. What utter nonsense you spout. Grow up. Go away and learn how to present a good-faith, evidenced and logical argument supporting your assertions.

nancywhitehead · 04/03/2021 08:20

@Sophoclesthefox

Sex segregation and race segregation aren’t at all comparable, nancy.

Race segregation: the dominant class (white) excluded the subordinated class (Black) from facilities due to their being perceived as lesser humans.

Sex segregation: the dominant class (men) are excluded from spaces that the subordinated class (women) need for reasons of dignity and safety, and to be able to access public life.

They’re not remotely the same. If your premise is that women don’t ever need sex segregation in sport, prisons, refuges etc, then please do make that case.

The attitudes, fear and discrimination that I see on this board towards trans people are comparible to previous attitudes, fear and discrimination that people had towards black people and gay people. The groups are different and the specific arguments are different, but the basic attitudes are the same.

People used to think that black people were dangerous. People used to think that they had to be segragated for white people's safety, and they justified it by saying that they were in some way lesser human beings, and there were even studies that posited that black people were somehow closer to neanderthal man and less developed, even that they didn't feel or think in the same way as other people.

By saying that trans women are somehow less, you are basically doing the same thing. You are attempting to justify exclusion because you have an irrational fear of something that you do not understand.

EnoughnowIthink · 04/03/2021 08:18

OP - let's say a TW is a convicted rapist. Do you think a woman should be sharing a cell with her? Would you be happy with that yourself?

DisappearingGirl · 04/03/2021 08:18

Can people please stop picking on the OP's spelling and grammar? It's perfectly clear what they mean.

I generally agree with the principles of the posters on this board, but why not engage with people's questions and points in good faith. You can disagree with someone without being an arse to them.

EdgeOfACoin · 04/03/2021 08:17

In fact there are protections in place in the Equality Act which ensure that they have the right to use whichever restroom they like.

The EA2010 specifically allows for certain sex-based exemptions. Please stop misrepresenting the law.

User26272829 · 04/03/2021 08:17

@donquixotedelamancha

And to those making comments on my grammar and spelling, you can blame my mum for that one

Why your mum? There is still plenty of time to address this, speak to your English teacher when you go back next week.

Grin
Wrongsideofhistorymyarse · 04/03/2021 08:17

@ASugar

Well done everyone!

You passed the test. I wanted to confirm this was a transphobic platform and you've all done that. In less than 30 minutes might I add!

This thread and comments will be collected and used to prove to MumsNet that the transphobia on this website is unsettling and wrong. Thanks ladies.

Welcome to Mumsnet, OP.
Filmschool · 04/03/2021 08:17

“And lastly, please stop believing everything you read online”

Good point. I’ll go and do some research to see if the things you have said are actually true rather than taking your word for it.

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