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Trans rights don't effect women's rights.

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ASugar · 04/03/2021 07:16

There is so much misinformation on this website and at places such as 'Fair Play For Women' that claims transgender rights effect women's rights. It is incorrect.

Firstly, nothing has proven that transgender women have the same crime rate as biological, cis men. It isn't biological and actually continuing this false narrative is allowing cis men to not take responsibility.

Secondly, Trans women and men pose no additional threat in prisons linked with their sex. They have been assaulted and abused to the same degree that they may have acted on which is why transgender wards are being put into place. However the issue isn't the fact TW or TM are in prisons assosiated with their gender, our prison systems aren't safe for anyone. That's what we should be concerned about and advocating for change within.

Thirdly, the bathroom debate. Transgender women have shown to pose no higher threat in single sex spaces than cisgender women. Meaning that denying their rights to use public bathrooms is unjustified. This actually is all recycled arguments from when lesbians and women of color wanted to use single sex spaces and wanted protection by the equality act for it.

And lastly, please stop believing everything you read online. A lot of the material made by the gender critical community is false. It is fabricated to scare you into believing them. Please take some time to do some research, speak to transgender people and learn that trans rights are not a debate.

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GloriaSicTransitMundi · 04/03/2021 09:18

@ASugar

Trans rights don't effect women's rights

I can confirm that they do not effect one another

Stop saying 'effect' when you mean 'affect'!

RedToothBrush · 04/03/2021 08:48

Firstly, nothing has proven that transgender women have the same crime rate as biological, cis men.

Firstly absence of evidence isnt evidence of absence.

Secondly there does seem to be at least some evidence that trans prisoners are not exactly offending in the same way as women. (or indeed arguably exactly like men either)

Thirdly as the current court case is demonstrating, there is a certain problem with integrity of data due to the GRC mess and privacy issues hiding the reality that would be really helpful to everyone.

Fourly, women in prison can't be raped, get pregnant or be otherwise sexually assaulted by prisoners with penises and bodies of male size and muscular strength if there are none in a women's prison. Just one assault is one assault too many.

If we had sight of transwomen on paper and we were allowed to document all of this accurately and properly with the data being published in the name of transparency, we should be able to find out the truth beyond much doubt.

However we have a whole system set up to obscure this information and a culture which wants to suppress this information. Why? If the data backs up your OP, great cracking proof we can all move on. However if the data blows a titanic sized hole in your argument then bye bye gender neutral is safe arguments. There is a massive vested interest here.

We should be exploring this to examine underlying issues, problems and potential deliberate and malicious exploitation of a system which is opaque and may be being deliberately used by male criminals (including some who are not trans) to commit offences. This way we can deal with the issues it raises in a constructive way to protect all parties. That's how equality should work.

Blinding ourselves to reality does not stop reality.

NotTerfNorCis · 04/03/2021 08:38

Good that the thread is remaining up.

ASugar · 04/03/2021 08:37

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EdgeOfACoin · 04/03/2021 08:37

@EdgedInBlue

archery is not going to be affected as much

Wrong.

I use a 32lb recurve. I can pull a little more but not easily or comfortably.

Novice males can already pull that and more.

Experienced males have bows that I cannot even pull.

The ignorance is stunning.

Basically, where there is no biological advantage to being male or female (eg equestrianism) the sport is already mixed sex.

It is a handy way of telling whether being born male confers an advantage. (Usually - women tend to be more flexible than men, which has an advantage in certain types of gymnastics.)

ASugar · 04/03/2021 08:36

@BlackWaveComing No. She isn't. She never will be.

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MichaelMumsnet · 04/03/2021 08:36

Hi all. As the OP has demonstrated that they're not posting in good faith we're going to close the thread now. We'll leave it up - but it'll be closed to posts.

[edit - we've been in touch with the OP off the boards and we've reopened the thread now]

Sigh. There's another thread now - we'll close this one again.

Doyoumind · 04/03/2021 08:36

It does feel like there's anger that has translated into misplaced misogyny. There are plenty of people on MN who can help. There's a long running series of threads for people who grew up in toxic families.

potter5 · 04/03/2021 08:35

I love malt loaf. They do it pre sliced now!

BlackWaveComing · 04/03/2021 08:35

[quote ASugar]@BlackWaveComing Good thing she's no longer my mum anymore.[/quote]
Go away and learn how to make an adequate argument that doesn't waste women's time.

Your mother will always be your mother. In contact or not.

ASugar · 04/03/2021 08:33

@FamilyOfAliens @wellthatsunusual
No. Just disowned her many years ago. She legally isn't recognized as my mum.

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FamilyOfAliens · 04/03/2021 08:31

Prove to who, exactly?

“Prove to MumsNet” apparently.

I think I’ve found the flaw in the OP’s master plan Grin

EdgeOfACoin · 04/03/2021 08:31

Sorry, well, that was more directed at the poster you were quoting rather than you!

Doyoumind · 04/03/2021 08:31

[quote ASugar]@EnoughnowIthink I don't believe any rapist, sexual assault predator or murderer should be near others in prisons.[/quote]
Should they all be in single cells 24/7?

gamerchick · 04/03/2021 08:30

[quote ASugar]@BlackWaveComing Good thing she's no longer my mum anymore.[/quote]
Is that what you really want to talk about? There are other boards for support if you wanted to.

EdgeOfACoin · 04/03/2021 08:30

@wellthatsunusual

Transgender women also deserve that privacy and dignity. That's why we have cubicals as well.

Indeed they do. Which is why I would support their campaign for a separate space for transgender women. Can you point me towards the campaign as I assume there must be one since privacy is important?

Not in communal changing rooms they don't. This is very common in gyms such as Virgin Active or Fitness First. No cubicles.

Plenty of threads on this subject if you care to look.

GCAcademic · 04/03/2021 08:30

You could make this exact argument against a person of colour by saying that a person of colour once was violent to someone or once attacked someone. Trans people are a section of society and within that there will be trans people who are criminals, just like there would be if you drew from any other section of society. It will be an extremely small percentage and people get completely fixated on it. Due to their lack of understanding and fear, they then use it as a way to be exclusionary. This exact thing happened in the past with people of colour and gay people who were deemed to be violent and dangerous.

We make that argument against males. We live in a society which acknowledges that some males are violent and operates certain safeguards to protect women from that male-pattern violence. Transwomen are male.

pommedeterre · 04/03/2021 08:30

I don't know about 'effect' but they definitely do 'affect' it. On a theoretical level for me it could be seen as the final and ultimate level in the video game of misogyny.

ErrolTheDragon · 04/03/2021 08:30

@ASugar

Well done everyone!

You passed the test. I wanted to confirm this was a transphobic platform and you've all done that. In less than 30 minutes might I add!

This thread and comments will be collected and used to prove to MumsNet that the transphobia on this website is unsettling and wrong. Thanks ladies.

So, not posting in good faith, in the spirit of open debate. I think the thread is therefore likely to be deleted because the OP has broken general talk guidelines and so not worth expending effort on.
Sophoclesthefox · 04/03/2021 08:30

By saying that trans women are somehow less, you are basically doing the same thing. You are attempting to justify exclusion because you have an irrational fear of something that you do not understand

I’m not saying transwomen are “less” at all. But transwomen are born male, are they not, or there would be nothing to transition from, right? And in some places and for some reasons, it is important to acknowledge that transwomen and women have different needs.

Interesting that transmen, who are certainly included in the class of people that I think benefit from rights and protections that female bodied people need, don’t get a mention in your argument....

OvaHere · 04/03/2021 08:29

Few actually cared that much about self-ID (in the UK, most areas are self-ID already thanks to the EA2010)

No. The EA is quite clear about about single sex exemptions and the protected characteristic is gender reassignment not self identification. It's Stonewall you need to be thanking for their dedication to misrepresenting the law.

The attached screenshot from the 2nd March makes this clear.

Trans rights don't effect women's rights.
MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 04/03/2021 08:29

[quote ASugar]@EnoughnowIthink I don't believe any rapist, sexual assault predator or murderer should be near others in prisons.[/quote]
That's not really how prisons work, though, is it?

If there is no one with a penis in a women's prison, no women will be raped. If there are people with penises, women are at risk of rape, as happened with Karen White.

MangoFeverDream · 04/03/2021 08:29

@ASugar

Well done everyone!

You passed the test. I wanted to confirm this was a transphobic platform and you've all done that. In less than 30 minutes might I add!

This thread and comments will be collected and used to prove to MumsNet that the transphobia on this website is unsettling and wrong. Thanks ladies.

😂😂😂😂😂

Prove to who, exactly?

FamilyOfAliens · 04/03/2021 08:28

ASugar
@BlackWaveComing Good thing she's no longer my mum anymore.

Has she transitioned?

Grin
Redrunbluerun · 04/03/2021 08:28

What about sport?
There’s a reason women and men have different categories.
I played against a trans woman in rugby and she destroyed the competition. She went from playing in the men’s team one week, and then joining the very amateur women’s team the next
Physiological advantages she was born with meant it just wasn’t a fair playing field.
As a woman do I just need to shut up?

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