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Teenage girls and public space/facilities : an update

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makespaceforgirls · 02/03/2021 14:03

I posted a while back about how rubbish my local council's reaction was when I pointed out that all of their park facilities for teenagers where predominantly used by boys.

Things didn't get any better, so I did some research. And then I co-opted my feminist lawyer friend, and now we're a campaigning group, hoping to be a charity soon. So welcome to Make Space for Girls.

Our website is here, and that will also give you our Twitter. We're on Facebook too.

We'd hoped to launch ourself with a pilot project working with teenage girls, but COVID has put the brakes on that - schools have enough to think about right now as it is.

Even so, we've had an amazing reaction from everyone we've spoken to, and these range from academics to big public bodies to architects. And everyone both agrees and can't believes that the problem hasn't been noticed before now. Well, everyone except my local council. Who are now going to be quite embarrassed as they are about to be our case study of the town which spent £175k on equipment for boys, and nothing for girls.

We will keep you posted! And if anyone wants to know more, there is a contact form on the website, or DM me here.

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makespaceforgirls · 04/03/2021 07:27

Hello, I am coming back to answer properly in a bit, but @PotholeParadies I have found our climbing wall. It's in the Olympic Park and is actually used as a route between two levels. I defy any group of boys to dominate this:

www.alamy.com/stock-photo/people-climbing-wall-queen-elizabeth-olympic-park.html

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FlaviaAlbiaWantsLangClegBack · 03/03/2021 23:19

Facinating thread and wonderful idea. Best of luck makespaceforgirls and I'd be another one interested in your book about the countryside Wine

Trivium4all · 03/03/2021 23:05

So many interesting questions raised by this discussion!

I'm also a horse rider, and was ruminating about the way that over the course of the past century, the gendered associations of competitive horse sports in general (outside of racing) have shifted from predominantly masculine to feminine, but also wondering to what extent factors such as the media presence of a sport might have an influence on gendered perception; for example, I'm wondering what relationship there might be between the greater TV presence of Showjumping in previous decades (as a very viewer-friendly sport easily appreciated by non-equestrians) might correlate with a greater prevalence of male riders (even Eventing is heavily female-dominated, which suggests that female risk avoidance isn't exactly the full picture! ;-) ). I'm sure someone has studied this, though!

Another question prompted by earlier posters: why is there so often a core assumption that whatever the (shifting, in the big picture) interests of male youths are, these should be the aspirational interests of female youths? "Girls can skateboard too!": of course, but is there an underlying assumption that skateboarding (being stereotypically a masculine interest) is inherently more worthwhile than gymnastics equipment (being stereotypically feminine)?

Given the inversion of gendered associations that can happen over time, e.g. as mentioned in equestrian sport, perhaps it's wise to keep in mind that fashions do change. I do think that girls as well as boys like doing things that they feel they can be successful at, and I really like some of the psychologically sophisticated design ideas mentioned by previous posters, for subliminally steering the attitude of the users of the various facilities.

Quadzilla · 03/03/2021 21:15

@backinthebox as a runner, cyclist and ex-horse rider your post really struck home with me. Women do access the countryside in different ways. I see loads of female horse riders when I’m out on my bike, very few male riders. Unlike cycling which is very male dominated.

OP this is a marvellous initiative. A local councillor approached my women only cycling club to run some sessions for teenage girls in our village park as she was so sick of it being dominated by boys on the skate park to the detriment of the girls.

Mollyollydolly · 03/03/2021 21:05

Wishing you every success .. such a great idea.

backinthebox · 03/03/2021 20:59

@makespaceforgirls This is absolutely brilliant! We have a village playground with a bike track beside it, which is currently being terrorized by a bunch of teenage boys on electric bikes tearing up the surface.

I’ve got a couple of things to say to the OP. Firstly, regarding girls in competitive sport, my husband made a point to me last month. He coaches the local town’s girls cricket team, and was shocked to find out neither of the local secondary schools have a team sport for girls on their summer PE curriculum, while the boys do. Boys move from football and rugby in the winter to cricket in summer, while girls do dance, tennis and athletics. Competitive team sports are beneficial for both sexes, and if one sex is not even offered the opportunity for a whole term at school they have to be motivated to seek it outside of school.

Secondly, I’m very interested in your other interest - “In my other life I am working on a book about writing women back into the countryside.”

I have been chatting with friends a lot about this recently. I’m a horse rider, and many of the rural leisure bodies focus very much on providing routes and networks for cyclists apparently at the expense of horse riders. 75% of cyclists are male, 85% of horse riders are female. Recent surveys by Ordnance Survey, Forestry England and Sustrans have asked what they can do to get more people walking and cycling in the countryside, whilst completely neglecting to even mention horse riders, let alone make provision for them. It’s considered that these omissions are symptomatic of a greater misunderstanding of the way women want to use the countryside. Near where I live there are lots of lovely off-road byways and bridleways, which would be much safer and nicer for running on than the busy main road (which has no footpath) but I see a lot of women choosing to run by the side of the road. When I’ve asked them, they say it’s because they feel the risk of being struck by a car is lower than the risks they take running through the forest, although they are not able to articulate what exactly they think might happen to them in the forest. I don’t know if either of these points are things you’ve come across, but I’d be interested in what you think if you have.

persistentwoman · 03/03/2021 20:35

Such an inspiring thread.Please keep us in touch with developments OP.

ChattyLion · 03/03/2021 20:34

This is such an inspiring thread thank you

ValancyRedfern · 03/03/2021 19:58

This sounds like a brilliant project. I teach at a girls secondary if you are ever in need of a focus group... Smile

makespaceforgirls · 03/03/2021 19:50

@Londonmummy66. Yes, completely agree about sightlines and all the good practice says this too. I have had another war with our council about random tree planting which they LOVE but never think about what the mature trees might do to sightlines.

And thanks also for the link, I will sign up. We've actually been talking to one of the panel members already so I think they may be receptive.

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Londonmummy66 · 03/03/2021 18:16

@makespaceforgirls you might also find this interesting - it is looking more generally at the inequalities of access to green space for some elements of the community but I think that they might well be open to taking your points on board.

localtrust.org.uk/big-local/events/towards-resilience-improving-access-to-green-spaces/

Londonmummy66 · 03/03/2021 18:10

I think that you do need to be careful about sightlines. They may allow boys to intimidate verbally but areas that are divided up to avoid this allow places for people to lurk who may well have more nefarious purposes. Girls are usually safer in areas where there are good sightlines throughout and from surrounding housing and streets.

I love the idea of using colours to discourage the macho boys - thinking about it why is it that playgrounds always have wooden forts rather than fairytale castles? I guess painting climbing walls and other equipment with stars and rainbows would discourage the macho boys (or would it encourage them to vandalise with graffiti to claim their territory?).

QueenoftheAir · 03/03/2021 15:42

Wow! Congratulations! I wish you every success.

makespaceforgirls · 03/03/2021 13:56

Thank you everyone

If anyone is going to build a sodding skate park, it needs to be positioned so a medium sized group of teens (which 9/10 is mostly male with a couple of current girlfriends awkwardly hanging out on the fringes) don't have a vantage point over the rest of the area

@PotholeParadies. You are spot on here, and some of the guidance for how to build an inclusive skatepark says exactly this: construct smaller areas for the less confident to practice, don't give a commanding view. Otherwise women and girls are too intimidated even to begin.

@YetAnotherSpartacus Thanks for the link. The National Lottery and Comic Relief are people that we don't only want to get grants from, but also to get to change their grants culture. They both currently fund a lot of skateparks.

But how would you get funding for two climbing walls?

By pointing out that it's an equality issue and that until teenage boys stop being dicks, it's the best answer we have.

Also, someone posted this on our FB page and I think it is a great idea.

" Our local park has a weekday group where people volunteer and they do general maintenance jobs like clearing areas. They should do a weekend one purely for teenage girls. Girls like to socialize, many like a good cause, and eco stuff is popular. They wouldn't be alone and vulnerable as it would have a lead volunteer. it helps them feel a belonging and helping society. Includes fresh air and exercise in the park. They will meet like minded people who they could form a voice with."

Getting outside and being active doesn't have to mean sport. If we don't look at it from the point of view of the default male, there are many more possibilities. What else have we been missing?

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PotholeParadies · 03/03/2021 13:03

Colours sounds good. Cheerful not macho. Also, perhaps have two walls, a small distance from each other, out of each other's line of sight?

If boys are genuinely interested in climbing (and they will be! In my favourite park, mixed sex groups, groups of girls and groups of boys played on the climbing wall that was part of a concrete play-fort), the group of boys will naturally gather around one for any muscle macho contest.

Which means they're out of range to intimidate girls off the other one, right?

But how would you get funding for two climbing walls?

sagaLoren · 03/03/2021 12:42

Such a fantastic idea.

I'm really keen to get more young girls into climbing as it's one of the few sports where they tend to outperform boys of their age. I was thinking a bouldering wall could be cool but I can immediately see (from my own experience of testosterone-fueled climbing gyms) how it could quickly be dominated by boys.

I think getting the design right will be really key. For example you could create a bouldering wall that's more of a puzzle (e.g. with numbers you have to follow) and paint it in a way that feels colourful and fun (rather than black and yellow extreme sports) to put the boys off from using it as some kind of macho muscle contest.

But all in all I think you're right that it's mainly about the (revolutionary!) act of actually asking girls what they want. Great stuff.

Niconacotaco · 03/03/2021 12:01

@Sophoclesthefox the problem with competitive sports is that the there is nothing to motivate the unfit/ uncoordinated/ rubbish at sports kids. Some of us will never win no matter how hard we try!
It applies to girls and boys but boys seem to have more alternatives such as playground football.

Sophoclesthefox · 03/03/2021 10:57

Really interesting stuff, OP.

I’ve always been into competitive sport, so I have to say I do struggle with the concept that provision for girls needs to necessarily be somehow non competitive. I’m not sure which of the chicken or egg comes first, and if girls end up preferring non competitive stuff for reasons that could be addressed, rather than just accepting it as a given. I don’t know the answer, but it’s an interesting question, for sure. Which we will only get to answer by asking girls, so am fully behind the approach!

MoltenLasagne · 03/03/2021 10:53

This is such a fantastic report. I agree with PPs about how much better spaces are where there isn't essentially an "observation platform".

There's a very small park near us that seems to incorporate lots of different spaces well. At the top of the hill is a toddler play area which is fenced, a little bit further down is a more adventure area which is probably suitable up to early teens, which has fixed picnic benches and bbq spots, and then gym style equipment at the bottom of the hill, with more benches.

There are paths running through and around these spaces and crucially there is planting between them so you can't sit in one spot and observe. It also ticks the boxes of wide entrances and good lighting mentioned in your report, and attracts a pretty even mix of ages of kids of both sees as well as families and couples.

YetAnotherSpartacus · 03/03/2021 10:47

Possible funding might come from here OP

www.tnlcommunityfund.org.uk/

Datun · 03/03/2021 10:36

Excellent initiative.

Will walk past my local park later and have a recce.

ErrolTheDragon · 03/03/2021 10:33

ThanksOP, for the time and effort you're putting into this.

jellyfrizz · 03/03/2021 10:15

Great work OP!

Shedbuilder · 03/03/2021 10:14

That's great. I was a teen in the 70s and used to spend a lot of time in local parks, hanging out with friends. In those days there were park wardens, which was a pain when we wanted to use the playground equipment and were chucked out because we were too old, but also meant a certain level of safety.

I'm not sure whether girls could hang out in my local park without coming under the scrutiny of the local young males who use the skate ramp.

YetAnotherSpartacus · 03/03/2021 10:09

posted - not posed :)

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