Woman who has been chained to her partner

This is terrifying, who the hell agreed to weld them together in the first place..? Surely the hospital
or police or someone, should be insisting on removing them, and having a chat with her, on her own? She can hardly say anything, with him right there, and no way to run if he tries to take it out on her later?

And this too
"It is not a healthy mind that allows your own body to be damaged in this way".

@JackieWeaverIsTheAuthority

I see where we ended up talking at x-purposes, when I read the thread it looked like you had said that you wouldn't take part in an interview if you were abused instead of another poster saying that.

Clearly the MN quote system is what was getting confused.

Denial is very strong, we cannot have the status quo disrupted by truth.

Photographic evidence of ulcers from manacles are not subjective concepts that can be mistranslated.

The physical body and wounds to it are realities that exist independent of human language.

God love her.

I see stories like that and I find myself talking to my teenage kids - the girl gets "the first time someone scares you, you leave and you come home" and the boy gets "you are bigger, faster and stronger than a female partner. You must remember that because men can accidentally be scary"

It's kind of a buzz kill for them.

It is sick.
That sore looks really painful.
Im allergic to some metals, gold and even a platinum ring gave me an itchy rash, having a heavy chain made out of god knows what next to delicate skin must be so so uncomfortable even without the fact its joining her to an abusive bastard.
Shocking to see women on a feminist board minimising and defending the blatant abuse of a young woman.
Shame.

What possible context could be OK. Even a 15 minutes/stunt/experiment is fucking dodgy.

More like his 15 minutes. He's an abuser, plain and simple. And I'm sure he'll think of other things to try out once this stops getting hits.

It’s their 15 minutes of fame. Context will easily have been lost in translation.

That poor women this is sick

After many years of being gaslit and nobody believing me, I'd have also set up a scenario where others would see what happens had I'd had the chance. I think it's a perfectly reasonable thing to to in certain circumstances.

As for this chaining. FFS. It's horrific. She's got zero chance of getting away from him. Now he's legitimised it too she has even less chance. If she says to someone "help me leave" very likely she'll get a response along the lines if "but isn't the reason you agreed to be chained is that you kept running away and decided on this way to stay together?"

Also another thing that comes to mind is that there's no chance he'll be sitting up falling to porn while she's trying to sleep. I'm wondering how much she's able to say "No dead, I don't want sex tonight" and have him say "Oh ok then. Let's have a cuddle and go to sleep".

You’re clearly confused

You're clearly rude.

The woman on the balcony watchers didn't just egg him on. They paid him to abuse her. The camera was left running as he called the emergency services only stopped when they arrived. And everyone who thinks abuse being publicity makes it ok is fine with that? Madness

Bloody hell! Could you stop poking at OP?

She did as she did. Others will do differently. None are wrong. And the more we talk about it and the different ways women deal with it the more women will feel able to do something about their abusive partner.

But stop naggling at one woman because she did something that falls outside your norm.

@JackieWeaverIsTheAuthority whatever point you were making doesn't change the fact that you were coming across as saying because it wasn't that way for you then it can't be like that for others.

You wanted people to see he was abusive, you were fortunate that there were people in your life that could fulfil that want for you.

Its awful whatever way you look at it. The fact that in 2021 a man
feels that he can put this on social media and nobody do anything about it. It is abusive behavikur and no normal parent would want
their daughter to be living like this
There was the Russian? Man who killed his girlfriend while livestreaming? Recently.

www.thesun.co.uk/news/13368928/youtuber-kills-pregnant-girlfriend-livestream-sub-zero-balcony-abuse/

Not only did he kill her, the people on the livestream egged him on, to kill a pregnant woman.

The last thing I would have ever done would be to take part in an interview blatantly showing me being abused, and there's no way an abusive man would want that either

Shes fucking welded to him, if he wants an interview she has literally no bloody choice.
He wanted to show just how much control he has that he convinced her to be chained to him. Probably by force, or threat of harm.
The abusive man is actually saying hes abusive.
He states it in the interview. How many clues do you need?