Staniland Question is so good. Can we think of others?

If you really genuinely look and move like a woman then nobody will notice so long as you keep the act up all the time you are in there so that would be a non-issue.

Your skirt-lifting plan would only now be required at the door if males change behaviour and start trying to go into the ladies loads by insisting that they are women. Even then you would simply challenge the men and check their driving licence or passport. Oooh, except if they had somehow been allowed to show the opposite sex on their document. Then that would be awkward, yes, but only if the male in question is trying to bulldoze his way into a space he knows he isn't allowed to be. Generally males don't do that. It's a social contract people are used to following.

JJ is perhaps illustrating the best question of all. Which is, why will TRAs not answer very straightforward questions that are put to them.

Why should women always stand aside for men?

Actually no, why do men think females should stand aside for them.

People who are diagnosed with eating disorders often say they feel grossly overweight. Why is weight loss surgery not offered as a treatment for those feelings?

Most women do not look like Kim Kardashian or Taylor Swift.

A lot of women have some combination of being flat-chested, barrel-shaped, wear clothes that could be men's like baggy jeans and a fleece, don't wear make up, have short hair, don't always smile sweetly, are tall for a woman, have a hairy face, have rough skin, have massive hands.

If a woman is so masculine looking that other women might mistake her for a man she will usually go out of her way to make the other women feel comfortable by doing something to signify that she is female. This is normal already.

In the highly unlikely situation that someone really really thought she was a bloke she could show her driving licence or other id that she would no doubt be carrying as this kind of thing would happen a lot. Except it doesn't anywhere today.

No changes required to the current system.

Then you find out why he wants to go in the female facility and see how you can solve his problem without impinging on a group of women and girls.

'what is a woman?'

Answers must avoid any circular definition, such as 'a woman is someone who identities as a woman'...

Hold the interlocutor to a tangible definition. .

(There is a 13% chance of a man dying if he has a blood transfusion from a woman who has been pregnant).

No there isn't. One study, which is somewhat controversial, has found that men have a 13% higher chance of dying, which is very different to 13% of them will die. You can read about it here: www.statnews.com/2017/10/17/blood-transfusions-pregnant-women/

How do you know you 'feel like a woman' when you've never been female?

DS1 would shoot back: No. Nor would I choose a post menopausal woman, a woman born female but without a womb or an infertile woman, like the one who needs a surrogate - is she not a woman for needing a surrogate?

Fair enough Labobo, but would a TW even be on the shortlist?
A post menopausal woman could still be a option in some circumstances, a Transwoman never could.

Why do TWs insist that humans are 'assigned' male or female at birth? How do you explain the fact that sex is determined at conception and fixed for life in the chromosomes?

No surgery, hormones or clothing alters the fact that men have a Y chromosome, women do not.

Why would removing body parts alter anyone's sex? If you castrate a bull has it become female?

Should a male prisoner be allowed to demand that his searches are conducted by a female officer?

I have three go to questions, which I think have been mentioned in one form or another.

1.50/50 men/transwomen in parliament a sign of progress?

1. While giving evidence against a man who raped the witness but identifies as a women, should the witness be compelled to refer to the perpetrator as 'she'. If she refuses should this be considered a crime, contempt of court or a reason to reduce any sentence.

1. If you believe we can be born in the wrong body I assume you believe in some sort of soul, which must be gendered. This essence of being would need to exist out side of the material world and human experience and may only come into being with you, with no prior experience. So what would make one female and another male?

I would like to see every politician asked:

Do you believe there are two biological sexes: male and female

I like this question because it is a fact everybody knows from being a living human being.

Furthermore, the question has nothing to do with trans because trans is about gender not sex. So nobody should have any bother responding "yes, of course I do."

Thus it is illuminating if someone Nandys the question.

You don't have to know anything about trans issues at all to be utterly bemused if someone fails to answer "Yes."

The audience will be alerted to trans activism if the the interviewee starts talking about trans topics unbidden.

My auntie who never picks up a newspaper would prick up her ears at such fuckery on the morning TV chat show. She'd phone me to tell me to put the telly on.

Should the nhs use ons data from the 2021 census to work out how to spend money on women's health?

Should Transmen be housed in male prisons?

Should a trans boy who has been securely assaulted by a male relative receive intimate care from a make or female healthcare worker?

[quote ListeningQuietly]This is a health charity that seems to get the messaging right
prostatecanceruk.org/prostate-information/are-you-at-risk/trans-women-and-prostate-cancer[/quote]

That's a good page.

Is there a correlating page around vaginal atrophy etc for trans men?

So if men are so dangerous, JJ, why would they be allowed into female spaces?

Did JJ answer this?

There's a staniland q for you.

I do agree with Mildredpuppy too.

Is it time to choose one of these for AIBU?

If you wanted a surrogate to gestate a child, would you consider a Transwoman?