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Solidarity in Aldi today!

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JaneyHenderson · 13/02/2021 18:08

This is my first thread in a very long time but I wanted to share the uplifting and fabulous experience I had today in Aldi😂

I reached 'peak' during the last lockdown and lurk regularly on here while trying to make sense of the madness.
DH is supportive to a degree but very nervous of me being vocal about my GC views as we are both teachers. I am a middle leader in a secondary school and he worries about me getting sackedConfused
So I can't discuss this much IRL.

Anyway, queing outside Aldi today and saw a woman a few people ahead of me with a 'Woman
Noun
adult human female' tote bag. I was thrilled and as soon as there was an opportunity (by the fruit and vegWink) I told her I liked her bag and that I knew what it meant.
She said I had made her day; I replied I she had made mine. Then she said 'Solidarity sister and see you on the next march'
We went on our separate ways but bloody hell it was brilliant. To vocalise it and be recognised. Felt a bit emotional and even now re-writing it, am a bit teary.

Just wanted to share. It was wonderful.

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BolloxtoGender · 13/02/2021 20:04

Love it.

ErrolTheDragon · 13/02/2021 20:04

@musicalfrog

So, if I believe my son and my daughter should have equal access to both football and sewing (and wish for society to expect them equally to partake), does that make me GC? Or is it deeper than that? 🤔
More or less. And that if your son likes sewing and ballet, that doesn't make him in any way, shape or form anything other than a boy who likes sewing and ballet.
Goawayquickly · 13/02/2021 20:04

Yay! As a side note I've managed to make my teenager understand that this is not simply a 'be kind' issue. I saw the penny drop, the 'oh' and she gets it. Tbh at 15 with little experience of the world I'd have accepted almost anything I was told, I'm sure most of us would. I've been trying to explain all her life that being kind shouldn't mean accepting bad treatment to spare the perpetrators feelings. Teenagers are so untested, they have a huge world to navigate and learn about.

Shmithecat2 · 13/02/2021 20:03

Former secondary teacher here [waves]. What a glorious moment!

Loved watching that video with Posie and Dr Harrop. She's fucking awesome.

rednsparkley · 13/02/2021 20:03

I have the "I ❤️ JK Rowling" tote bag and use it daily. It has a number of lovely GC badges on it too. Would love to spot a fellow realist out and about.

I am openly GC at work, I work in a primary school and have encouraged a lot of my colleagues to question the current dogma. So far all those who have expressed a preference have agreed with my thoughts and have been horrified by how far things have been pushed.

musicalfrog · 13/02/2021 20:00

So, if I believe my son and my daughter should have equal access to both football and sewing (and wish for society to expect them equally to partake), does that make me GC? Or is it deeper than that? 🤔

CranberriesChoccyAgain · 13/02/2021 19:59

Sorry if this has been posted already. Just another example of how a simple declaration is deemed transphobic by a small minority.

www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/amp/uk-england-merseyside-51708961

Very happy for you, OP. 😊

As others have said, it often feels dangerous to be openly GC, especially at work.

Libraryghost · 13/02/2021 19:54

@HeronLanyon the first time I heard of preferred pronouns was in a meeting I attended last year. I was genuinely bewildered as to what the frig they were on about and said something ‘Well I am a woman obviously, are you saying I look like a man, I’m not a bloody he am I’ They gave up and looked at me aghast. I looked it up online after and I could not believe what I reading! I bet I will be on diversity training soon..

peak2021 · 13/02/2021 19:52

Thank you OP for sharing this and it is lovely that you had the opportunity to speak with the woman in the queue to make both your day better.

I did like the other side of the bag as well 'identifies as a basket' and the I/me/mine t-shirt.

ErrolTheDragon · 13/02/2021 19:51

WTAF? I would fucking roast a Science colleague who did that. It not better than teaching a lesson about how 'evolution is just a theory'.*

I'd say it's worse. Not understanding evolution probably won't materially affect someone's life to any significant degree. Buying into 'gender is a spectrum' rot could lead to a kid thinking they can 'change sex', a pathway of medical and surgical interventions and sterility. It has consequences.

NoGoodPunsLeft · 13/02/2021 19:46

@EvelynBeatrice

“”Woman” means a female of any age” : Section 212 Equality Act 2010. It would be good if someone put this on a T-shirt. I fail to see how anyone could take umbrage at a statutory definition.
My DH has various things on red bubble (all related to cult tv/films) but I've suggested this to him
ValancyRedfern · 13/02/2021 19:44

I think schools vary wildly. Mine is pretty sensible, although I've complained about a couple of resources in Pshe. Meanwhile another school I went to interbiew at during the GRA consultation had Stonewall posters up telling the kids how to fill it in. I can't imagine any other circumstance where a school would engage in political lobbying of their students.

donquixotedelamancha · 13/02/2021 19:44

Was pretty appalled when one of our science teachers told me about an amazing lesson she’d taught focusing on an article that described biological sex as a spectrum.

WTAF? I would fucking roast a Science colleague who did that. It not better than teaching a lesson about how 'evolution is just a theory'.

PegasusReturns · 13/02/2021 19:43

Brilliant.

I had a similar moment a few weeks back. It was fab Smile

nailsathome · 13/02/2021 19:39

@Palindromic that's awful of a science teacher to do that! I am actually shocked!!

impostersyndrome · 13/02/2021 19:38

@HeronLanyon

I’ve just ‘come out’ at work having been asked to have a ‘preferred pronoun’ start to a meeting I’m running shortly. Part of wider policies including emails etc. All kicking off. I will not be doing so but if someone else wishes to then won’t be joining in. Previous threads here invaluable for approaches but tbh if this is the hill my career dies on, so be it. Lovely aldi moment op.
How did you respond, @HeronLanyon? I recently was invited to a seminar that had a sign up page that wouldn’t let me progress beyond the preferred pronouns stage in order to register. No idea what I would have said. Just declined (wimp).
Palindromic · 13/02/2021 19:38

Just ordered the T-shirt!

Palindromic · 13/02/2021 19:38

Secondary SLT - my colleagues know my views and many agree with them. Was pretty appalled when one of our science teachers told me about an amazing lesson she’d taught focusing on an article that described biological sex as a spectrum. I guess every group is a mixed ability group!

NancyDrawed · 13/02/2021 19:37

I suppose that with a bag, you could have the written definition facing inwards if you felt uncomfortable. A bit more difficult if you are wearing it, though!

tentative3 · 13/02/2021 19:35

I love this. I am not 'out'. The women's branch of my union deleted a social media post on their page just yesterday because 'mis gendering is hate speech' and honestly, the comment that came before the deletion were respectful and not confrontational (over a picture of Fallon Fox and opponent).

I can't afford to have my union and my company potentially going after me for hate speech. I hate that I can't.

theskyispink · 13/02/2021 19:35

Love this!

Libraryghost · 13/02/2021 19:33

Thanks for this. I have just found the bag and will buy when it’s back in stock. I too work for an increasingly ‘woke’ company. We have a man who wears a cheap tarty wig from amazon on the days he wants to be a woman. Other days he identifies as a male. . He is gender fluid apparently. In fact he is a nice bloke but clearly needs help but will all have to act like it’s perfectly normal.

RestlessMillennial · 13/02/2021 19:33

I would love to wear a Adult Human Female t shirt, but I would worry about being physically attacked tbh in the current climate Sad
Good to see solidarity in all forms though

SophocIestheFox · 13/02/2021 19:33

Love it- adult human female meet-cute in Aldi ♥️😀

I am so hoping your fellow viper sees this. Imagine the trouble you could foment over the aisle of crap! (does Aldi have that? I’m a Lidl shopper so clueless)

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