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Desperate transgender teen's agony of 'being born in wrong body' - now he needs your help to pay for surgery

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Defaultname · 01/02/2021 10:04

At 14 years old, Nathan Blake begged the hairdresser to give him a short back and sides while his mum popped out to the shop.

It was an act of defiance as he took the first tiny transition step knowing he was different to his peers.
"I first came out as a lesbian in Year 8 but I still knew something wasn't right. I was suffering inside.

"I didn't even know that transgender was a thing. I was a bit of a loner and I met most of my friends online. Suddenly it all started to make sense.

"When I look back, it was always there. I hated my hair and my body, especially when my top half changed." www.stokesentinel.co.uk/news/stoke-on-trent-news/desperate-transgender-mans-agony-being-4940582

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Theunamedcat · 01/02/2021 11:21

Nathan can afford tattoos Nathan can afford there own surgery

Plus you will get it on the nhs just not fast

ArabellaScott · 01/02/2021 11:17

Also, I think this is possibly the first time I've heard a transman discuss the toilets issue:

'"I was at Festival Park and I went to the gents' loos. This middle-aged white man threatened me. It really scared me.

"When I'm out now I try to hold on as much as possible. If I'm desperate, I'll use the ladies' after that bad experience.'

So - using the toilet of one's chosen 'gender' doesn't actually sound like it's necessarily going to be safer after all, does it?

ArabellaScott · 01/02/2021 11:14

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Seems a very sad counterpoint to the above story.