The host of the party is the person who invites everyone, but often the invites extend to friends of friends and so on- people they might not know so well- as the host gets a % of what they spend of their own order. The person who does the party, or the woman working for the Ann summers mlm, isn’t the host, they are the person the host requests do the party. They often won’t know anyone there and need the commission.
I’ve only ever been to a couple- awful and not my thing but was invited by friends and when young it was part of meeting different people when a young student somewhere new. I knew a friends mum who did them when we were kid, but that’s forever ago. But unless it’s changed that’s who the host and demonstrator/Ann summers rep would be.
I don’t think whatever women’s fetishes are catered to by these parties -and imho most of it isn’t, it’s just women thinking they should like this underwear or being free to buy a vibrator without being embarrassed or anything- is at all comparable to men getting off making the rep feel uncomfortable demonstrating equipment etc. She’s doing a job, a very poorly ‘paid’ one that comes with no respect or any real job protections. Her having Janiv or Danielle Muscato or Alex Drummond or god forbid Karen white once’s she’s released, asking her what to do with love eggs or clit vibrators or anything else while she can’t say they are men & she doesn’t fucking know, while she’s stuck playing along in hopes of a teensy commission, and very possibly stuck being physically intimidated- these parties normally take part in people’s homes, with alcohol, so no protection of any sort- is in no way similar to how she might feel explaining bdsm to another woman. It’s not at all the same.
This thread smacks of the devision of lesser women and woman who have educations and real careers and would never lower themselves to joining an mlm. Just because a woman sells other women stockings in a woman only party for a bloody mlm doesn’t mean she’s fair game for any man that might like to use her discomfort at his female penis to get off.