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School closures: Thousands of women have just had their double shift doubled

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Carefulvulvadriver · 30/12/2020 19:55

What should the feminist response to the above be? Yes yes, of course fathers should do their share of the home school and childcare, but we know many dont and wont, and that still leaves a problem for single mothers like me.
This afternoon the government has announced that 100s of primary schools across the country will not reopen as planned in January. I suspect many more will be added to the list over the next week or so.
We know that will leave 1000s of women once again having to juggle work, childcare and home school. They will feel the stress and hit to their mental health of trying to do that. They will miss out on promotions, pay rises and opportunities as a result. They will have to cancel study plans. Many will work until 3am each morning as the only chance they will have to work will be after the kids have gone to bed. And as ever, it will be the poorest women who will be the worst hit, as will their kids. Some men will suffer from this too, but it will disproportionately hit women.

How should feminists respond? Surely this IS a feminist issue - it's about how social policy and our economic way of life has not been designed with women in mind. The woman stuff - the looking after children and educating them - is somehow to be tagged on as an after thought; the work and time to be magic-ed out of thin air, as it's only the man stuff that counts or is important.

In my view we should be demanding paid parenting leave, funded by the government. I think we should also be putting pressure on the government to confirm it will run "catch up" schools in the summer holidays for the kids who have missed out on education (there will be a problem getting the staffing, although I wonder if TAs might be available as I know that in some cases they are on zero hour contracts and so not paid in the holidays).

What else? Any one got any ideas? And what if we dont get it? Will we just do what so many of us did back in spring (me included) and just suck it up? I love my job, I'm lucky that it's really fulfilling, but isnt it time we refused to do the impossible?

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Carefulvulvadriver · 30/12/2020 20:17

@Bluewavescrashing I couldn’t have been clearer that I was not against closing schools. This isn’t about whether that is right or wrong (I happen to think closing them is right).
It’s about how we now make this work for women and therefore also for kids. Shutting schools is the given. It’s what happens next I’m talking about.

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Heartlantern2 · 30/12/2020 20:15

“Need two people to work to pay the mortgage” that should say.

Heartlantern2 · 30/12/2020 20:14

This isn’t a feminist issue for me as I’ll work and my DH will take time off or go on furlough for childcare...I’m the breadwinner so makes sense he takes the hit.

For the rest of the women, I can’t believe this is much of a issue as most the women I know are not with men who think nothing of their wives. Around here we all need to people to work to pay the mortgage. Most people take the hit from the one who is lowest paid. About 4 men and 7 women, so it’s not even, but every situation is obviously different.

(I don’t think women of this ‘new’ generation settle for men who don’t lift a finger.)

Bluewavescrashing · 30/12/2020 20:10

What about the women working in schools, going home, doing their wife work and having a greater risk of passing covid onto their loved ones? Nobody gives a shit about teachers, the vast majority of whom are women.

Fallingirl · 30/12/2020 20:07

I have no idea about a real, long term solution to women either loosing their jobs, or missing out on promotions etc. We are close to having lost 50 years of progress for women.

But paid patenting leave should be an absolute minimum in the short term.

Sexnotgender · 30/12/2020 19:58

Fuck knows but I’m all ears. I’m in Scotland and everything is fucking shut. I’m going to have to work with a toddler and I’m 6 months pregnant.

Thankfully my husband is great and does his share but I’m still dreading it.

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