School closures: Thousands of women have just had their double shift doubled

Carefulvulvadriver · 2020-12-30T19:55:00+00:00

What should the feminist response to the above be? Yes yes, of course fathers should do their share of the home school and childcare, but we know many dont and wont, and that still leaves a problem for single mothers like me. This afternoon the government has announced that 100s of primary schools across the country will not reopen as planned in January. I suspect many more will be added to the list over the next week or so. We know that will leave 1000s of women once again having to juggle work, childcare and home school. They will feel the stress and hit to their mental health of trying to do that. They will miss out on promotions, pay rises and opportunities as a result. They will have to cancel study plans. Many will work until 3am each morning as the only chance they will have to work will be after the kids have gone to bed. And as ever, it will be the poorest women who will be the worst hit, as will their kids. Some men will suffer from this too, but it will disproportionately hit women. How should feminists respond? Surely this IS a feminist issue - it's about how social policy and our economic way of life has not been designed with women in mind. The woman stuff - the looking after children and educating them - is somehow to be tagged on as an after thought; the work and time to be magic-ed out of thin air, as it's only the man stuff that counts or is important. In my view we should be demanding paid parenting leave, funded by the government. I think we should also be putting pressure on the government to confirm it will run "catch up" schools in the summer holidays for the kids who have missed out on education (there will be a problem getting the staffing, although I wonder if TAs might be available as I know that in some cases they are on zero hour contracts and so not paid in the holidays). What else? Any one got any ideas? And what if we dont get it? Will we just do what so many of us did back in spring (me included) and just suck it up? I love my job, I'm lucky that it's really fulfilling, but isnt it time we refused to do the impossible?

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Carefulvulvadriver · 15/02/2021 09:16

It’s ok ladies! The bbc has solved the problem - we all just need to lean in more:

www.bbc.co.uk/news/business-55834823

Not conducting work meetings from the labour ward? You’re just not trying hard enough.

I also particularly like the quote from the bloke who basically says that the great thing about women with children is they have no time to do anything other than be compliant productive employees, as opposed to maybe overturn this crap.

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Angryresister · 09/01/2021 12:10

It would be good if the Govt would at the same time look at the impact of the pension age changes to women who have by default become the ones picking up the pieces even though they now have to work till they drop or support children and other vulnerable family members. In the past at least they would have had the benefit of a pension, now if they work, they can’t support. However this thread and the petition are really important, and what is being said is horrendous about the effects on women and children. It sounds from news reports this week that many women are now having to ask for schools to accept their children as vulnerable or key workers as no one can cope any more. No hope for lockdown success then.

Femin1st · 09/01/2021 10:34

Just pasting the text of the petition to get this debated in Parliament to try and bump

School closures - Review options to monitor and mitigate inequalities of impact

The Government should consider options for monitoring and ameliorating inequalities stemming from school closures. This should include consideration of the impact on children from deprived households as well as the impact on sex equality of parents taking on home schooling responsibilities.

This petition does not dispute the necessity of school closures, but asks the Government to consider what additional action and resources are needed to mitigate the effects on parents and children, particularly mothers and children from deprived households. We believe it is only through a combination of additional resources and commitments to closely and transparently monitor the impact that we can avoid the further deepening of social inequalities

Direct link to the petition is via this thread: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/petitions_noticeboard/4128560-School-closures-Review-options-to-monitor-and-mitigate-inequalities-of-impact

HecatesCats · 08/01/2021 20:10

TUC (I know ) survey: Balancing work & care during lockdown

www.surveymonkey.co.uk/r/2021WorkingParents

School closures: Thousands of women have just had their double shift doubled

Frankinmachine · 07/01/2021 13:42

Not much thought has also been given to the effect of Long Covid on women. I have Long Covid and have had to take a long time off from work and I’m now working reduced hours. I was asked if I want to start increasing my hours, but don’t feel that I can as I’m having to be very careful with how much energy I use. If I work more hours then I’ll have less energy to be able to support my DC, make dinner etc. Men generally only have to think about themselves.

Femin1st · 07/01/2021 13:17

Hi, the petition my friends and I set up on this has been reviewed and fine-tuned by the Parliament petition people (they have strict character limits and the wording needs to be specific about what is being calling for). I have posted the link to it on the below board (apparently we cant share direct links here)

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/petitions_noticeboard/4128560-School-closures-Review-options-to-monitor-and-mitigate-inequalities-of-impact?watched=1

Please sign! I tried to keep the policy proposals as open as possible (ie ask for a debate rather than particular solutions) because when it comes to sex equality there doesnt seem an easy answer, which is why I think close and transparent monitoring of the impact is really important.

SilenceIsNoLongerSuspicious · 03/01/2021 19:34

@ChangeyNameyTimey

I suppose the most effective way to manage the problem of children being at home is to massively drop the expectations for learning and have schools set “keep busy” tasks which do not require any support or supervision. It seems to be impossible to have effective education for primary school children without massive parental input so I can’t see another solution. Children growing up in war zones or during other disasters catch up when their lives settle down again and I assume that will be even more straight forward when it’s a global issue. It’s not a very popular suggestion though!

Even if schools could provide busy-work that kids could do by themselves that took them 9-3, that still leaves parents:

overseeing the work (printing sheets, making sure they watch the right YouTube video and not something unsuitable, making sure they’re actually doing it)
providing and clearing up after meals at the right times (lunch and sometimes breakfast previously done by school)
making sure they get fresh air and exercise (needs adult supervision for those with no gardens)
giving cuddles and emotional support when they’re sad and missing their friends

All these things (with the constant threat of interruption even if the DC are quiet for now) are incompatible with back-to-back zoom calls, concentrated work or pretty much anything I would normally count as work.

I agree it’s better than pressure from school to hand in lots of work. But it’s not anywhere near a solution, even in the lucky situation of two parents sharing equally and wfh.

HecatesCats · 03/01/2021 18:01

"There is not a single woman on the government's cabinet committees on Covid 19 operations, domestic and economic strategy or economic operations"

twitter.com/sophierunning/status/1344350147292102656?s=21

Nevertoomanyroasties · 31/12/2020 21:33

The gender pay gap is the issue for us. Home school falls to me because dh earns more so making him precarious by taking time off to home school is risky for us as a family.

NeurotreeWenceslas · 31/12/2020 21:28

I fully agree with you, I teach the most disadvantaged % of the most disadvantaged. I know what actual damage lockdown did.

At the same time, what can happen in a pandemic?

(I'm not clear on the details of this petition.)

HecatesCats · 31/12/2020 21:27

They'll blame a lot of stuff on the pandemic for many years that was actually created by them.

I'm sure they will, but it's not an excuse not to step up support so that they don't fall even further behind.

NeurotreeWenceslas · 31/12/2020 21:25

Education has been failing many of these children for some time.

The death of sure start was the start. Stifling of creativity. Ditching the wonderful new holistic curriculum that Labour spent ages researching and was launched just before the tories got in. The tories re did literacy for primaries and then ran out of money for secondary. Some of this has been brewing for many years.

They'll blame a lot of stuff on the pandemic for many years that was actually created by them.

HecatesCats · 31/12/2020 21:23

@NeurotreeWenceslas

That is true. The way I see it from the coal face is that the inequality is ridiculously immense already. Ridiculously.

It is, but the danger is that this will make it disastrously worse for a generation - if we withdraw from providing a consistent education to the most disadvantaged. The government has a responsibility to make sure that those children whose parents can't afford to add value by paying for extra support aren't disadvantaged even more.

NeurotreeWenceslas · 31/12/2020 21:20

That is true. The way I see it from the coal face is that the inequality is ridiculously immense already. Ridiculously.

HecatesCats · 31/12/2020 21:18

Do you mean secondary? That is an issue.

Yes, it's likely to widen the attainment gap at GCSE and A-Level, and will impact yr 10 & yr 12 too. But it's also a crucial time for year 6, for example. We could say let's just provide keep busy tasks, but we know that parents who can afford it will pay for catch up support and we know that private schools will try to maintain the curriculum because parents are paying - the impact will be to widen the gap between rich and poor.

Sexnotgender · 31/12/2020 21:17

@ChangeyNameyTimey

I suppose the most effective way to manage the problem of children being at home is to massively drop the expectations for learning and have schools set “keep busy” tasks which do not require any support or supervision. It seems to be impossible to have effective education for primary school children without massive parental input so I can’t see another solution. Children growing up in war zones or during other disasters catch up when their lives settle down again and I assume that will be even more straight forward when it’s a global issue. It’s not a very popular suggestion though!

The learning isn’t necessarily the issue. I’m trying to look after a toddler, I frankly don’t give a shit if he learns anything. I’m just trying to stop him setting fire to himself or eating the dog.

ValancyRedfern · 31/12/2020 21:16

I'm happy to see some teachers on here. I feel so out of place on the teacher forums at the moment as I'm against schools closing, but also out of place among the threads against schools closing as they all seem to hate teachers!! Will happily sign and share the petition once it's ready to go.

NeurotreeWenceslas · 31/12/2020 21:11

I teach sen and that's a very different complex matter.

NeurotreeWenceslas · 31/12/2020 21:11

have the biggest impact on those from disadvantaged backgrounds who can't afford catch up support.

Do you mean secondary? That is an issue.

There were and are so many options for part time rotas.

Closures should be in extreme emergency circumstances too.

I'm Furious schools haven't been supported better. I'm also furious about how cramped U.K. classes are compared to many others

The feminist issue is predominantly re primary and early years.

NeurotreeWenceslas · 31/12/2020 21:06

@ChangeyNameyTimey

I suppose the most effective way to manage the problem of children being at home is to massively drop the expectations for learning and have schools set “keep busy” tasks which do not require any support or supervision. It seems to be impossible to have effective education for primary school children without massive parental input so I can’t see another solution. Children growing up in war zones or during other disasters catch up when their lives settle down again and I assume that will be even more straight forward when it’s a global issue. It’s not a very popular suggestion though!

Yes. Not popular though.

When people say "behind" - behind what? The tories dropped many objectives in lit and num down a year from where they were in Labour. Shift them back up and there's no "behind." Kids in some countries don't start to learn to read till 7.

It's only worth setting home work for children who can work independently.

Until you're upper secondary all you can really do is complete structured tasks; practising prior learning. It's not real new Learning. Some new learning can come from tv etc.

From research I saw on NZ Earth quakes, Maths trends to be the area that's "lost" so practising known skills is worth it and relatively easy to do. Eg tables, exercises, online games.

Reading is easily done; ime kids don't write as well at home as they do at school.

But all the above is pointless as so many children hate working at home.

I couldn't get my son to read much and he wouldn't let me read any stories. Refused to write a thing. My gut said unschooling was fine and I went with that. He knows so much about history now as he binge watched HH.

Somehow his reading skills have come on this year to fluent independence 🤷🏻‍♀️

HecatesCats · 31/12/2020 20:57

@ChangeyNameyTimey

I suppose the most effective way to manage the problem of children being at home is to massively drop the expectations for learning and have schools set “keep busy” tasks which do not require any support or supervision. It seems to be impossible to have effective education for primary school children without massive parental input so I can’t see another solution. Children growing up in war zones or during other disasters catch up when their lives settle down again and I assume that will be even more straight forward when it’s a global issue. It’s not a very popular suggestion though!

I guess part of the problem is that you're creating a hugely disadvantaged cohort, particularly in crucial years and that will have the biggest impact on those from disadvantaged backgrounds who can't afford catch up support. We know that those who can afford it will pay to help their kids catch up.

Levirandal · 31/12/2020 20:46

I have never felt more resentful towards my dh than during the first lockdown. He literally shut himself in his office whilst I tried to balance a 20 hour a week (sometimes more job) and home school our kids aged between 12 and 7. Two of the kids have Sen (1 has a ft 1:1 and the other attends a specialist school). He was absolutely no help. Ironically my part time job is much busier and stressful than his. His logic was as the significantly higher earner he had to work his usual hours leaving me to work between home schooling the kids.

It’s a hugely feminist issue. As women on the whole are picking up the slack. The people in power don’t want stuff to change as they’re mainly men and they benefit from women picking up everything.

ChangeyNameyTimey · 31/12/2020 20:12

I suppose the most effective way to manage the problem of children being at home is to massively drop the expectations for learning and have schools set “keep busy” tasks which do not require any support or supervision. It seems to be impossible to have effective education for primary school children without massive parental input so I can’t see another solution. Children growing up in war zones or during other disasters catch up when their lives settle down again and I assume that will be even more straight forward when it’s a global issue. It’s not a very popular suggestion though!

ArabellaScott · 31/12/2020 19:50

There's a heartbreaking thread on AIBU from a woman who can no longer provide childcare for her stepdaughter. One or the other of them will lose their job, by the sound of it.

This is also putting terrible strain on families.

NeurotreeWenceslas · 31/12/2020 19:21

It is a feminist issue.

And I'm a teacher.

Last time my toddler was sent home to SI they said we could be furloughed, except teachers can't be.

I'm still completing the work I was set during that period as I simply couldn't do it all.

Women's care should be recognised as work and paid accordingly, unfortunately capitalism is built on women's unpaid work.

(And communism is too.)