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I love being on HRT so much, but being happy about it is just making me cry more" says Green Party Women's leader

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FreshFreesias · 30/12/2020 15:53

The new chair of Green Party Women, a transwoman going under the name of Kathryn Bristow, one of whose personal pronouns is `fae' (no me neither), is really thrilled at the effects of her HRT (that's where it all is! No shortage for some!) recently tweeted:

twitter.com/KathrynBristow/status/1343259759701618688?s=20

"Just started crying for no particular reason.
It's so wonderful, I've always just wanted to be able to feel my emotions. I love being on HRT so much, but being happy about it is just making me cry more".

The casual and offensive sexist stereotyping is off the scale of course.

A quick glance through her tweets shows absolutely zero interest in er, Green stuff. No tweets about climate change, animal welfare, recycling... anything remotely environmental at all.

I know the Green Party's innate misogyny is nothing new here but I had to vent. They are going from bad to worse. The trouble is, those not active on Twitter or social media are not aware of the danger this Party poses.

I'm not even sure if Kathryn is even transitioned?

And why do so many transwomen have an annoying little `cute' smile in their profile pics? It's just annoying.

I used to have a position of responsibility in the Green Party in the noughties and there was none of this rubbish. We were completely consumed with environmental concerns and animal welfare. People used to make fun of us because we were beardy and sandal clad and unworldly but at least we were authentic.

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QueenoftheAir · 31/12/2020 13:20

Absurd, sexist bilge of the highest order, and it’s only possible to believe that if you’ve never had your life impacted by your female biology

Yup, it’s total male white privilege, right there. I’d like to see Nikki Ali make mincemeat of such statements. But Ms Ali has more important battles to fight, together with another of my sheroes, , Hibo Wardere. Young girls being mutilated can’t “identify” out of brutal FGM practices.

JohnMcClane · 31/12/2020 12:41

It's quite a sad and interesting insight really KB feel they can only fully recognise or express emotions now they present as a woman.

A psychologist's wet dream, but really very depressing.

zzizz · 31/12/2020 12:09

I just can't understand how people don't see the sexism in the entire transgender movement. Its so obvious to me.

"I like 'girly' things so I'm a girl!" - how did this not get ridiculed off the Internet from day one?

SophocIestheFox · 31/12/2020 11:58

The word gets far too much usage these days, and I hesitate to wheel it out now, but this nonsense about “rejecting sex as a concept” really is offensive.

Absurd, sexist bilge of the highest order, and it’s only possible to believe that if you’ve never had your life impacted by your female biology. Like a PP, I can easily be convinced by a good bit of lentil weaving, I’m borderline crunchy and have voted green in the past, but until they stop coming out with this absolute bumwash and get back to the environment, they won’t get my vote.

Passmeabottlemrjones · 31/12/2020 11:54

'Solo poly-amorous'?

Oh aye... HmmWink

allmywhat · 31/12/2020 11:49

On Twitter it is alleged that we ageing Karen’s are jealous of the transwoman’s beauty

I succumbed to curiousity on seeing this and clicked the Twitter link. Well.

I shall refrain from making fae cry again, but 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I do wonder about the women who support these people. How can they see this level of rampant sexism and misogyny out in plain sight and be fine with it? There's definitely a frogs-being-boiled-in-an-echo-chamber component to it, (shut up, I like my metaphors like I like my strawberry daiquiris) but surely the handmaidens must have some shreds of self-respect screaming in their heads when they see this?

Datun · 31/12/2020 11:44

@NeurotreeWenceslas

Seriously? Tweeting about nails in a pandemic?

Jeeze the narcissism.

About nails and crying as the woman's representative of a political party - all of whom would appear to fondly think it doesn't flush their entire credibility down the loo.

What on earth do they think it looks like? Serious political commentary on women's issues? Or a Very Important Subject beloved of Jackie circa 1972.

With environmental issues very topical, and something that concerns most people, you would think a political party representing them would be harnessing the Zeitgeist, not expelling supporters because they don't want to talk about sparkly nail varnish, ffs.

endofthelinefinally · 31/12/2020 11:39

TG was also known for having shaved off her eyebrows and advocating for the castration of rapists. She was described as a maverick. She had her faults and was less than honest about her property dealings, but she did stick up for women and the self employed.

SmelliEllie · 31/12/2020 11:35

Head tilt is to hide the Adam's apple.
He looks like Moss from the IT crowd.

MichelleofzeResistance · 31/12/2020 11:32

She was advocating for women. She was furious that so many women were suffering awful menopausal symptoms and osteoporosis and getting no help or support whatsoever.

Quite.

A political interest in the issues massively affecting 50% of voters, a willingness to talk about those political issues seen as a bit yucky and explain why they mattered and how this represented inequality and impact, a use of her own platform to further awareness for other women.

Not using her platform to talk about her nails and how lovely a bit of an HTR cry is, or giving the appearance that the start and end of her political career is the wonder of self or a protected characteristic. If you're going to take a political seat from females, either help or get the fuck out of the way. Or have TW seats and get voted in on your lovely nails and personal emotional experiences.

PotholeParadies · 31/12/2020 11:29

@RozWatching

On Twitter it is alleged that we ageing Karen’s are jealous of the transwoman’s beauty

I haven't even seen this person's picture but I love it when the gender mob uses that ageist and sexist line. It's so vacuous but very revealing.

Is that what fae thinks the issue is?

Perhaps Kathryn would like to turn faer attention to how pandemic measures disproportionately affect women with caring responsibilities, if fae's on mumsnet?

endofthelinefinally · 31/12/2020 11:19

The Green Party are now completely pointless IMO.

EdgeOfACoin · 31/12/2020 11:13

endoftheline

Shame the Green Party didn't see fit to make a woman like Gorman head of Green Party Women.

endofthelinefinally · 31/12/2020 11:09

@EdgeOfACoin

It's long before the days of tweeting but Teresa Gorman, who was then the Tory MP for Billericay, was publicly extolling the virtues of HRT back in the 1980s!

Oh, that's interesting. I wasn't familiar with Teresa Gorman.

From what PPs have said, it sounds as though Gorman was using her position to advocate for higher awareness and availability of HRT. This seems to me like it was related to a specific attempt to help women's health.

It doesn't sound as though Gorman was using her platform to talk about how oestrogen made her weepy and in-touch with emotions.

She was advocating for women. She was furious that so many women were suffering awful menopausal symptoms and osteoporosis and getting no help or support whatsoever. The attitude to middle aged women back then was much, much worse than it is today, and it still isn't great!
CatsCantCatchChristmas2 · 31/12/2020 11:03

@SunsetBeetch

Oh FUCK OFF you sexist wanker!

My sentiment entirely.

EdgeOfACoin · 31/12/2020 10:59

It's long before the days of tweeting but Teresa Gorman, who was then the Tory MP for Billericay, was publicly extolling the virtues of HRT back in the 1980s!

Oh, that's interesting. I wasn't familiar with Teresa Gorman.

From what PPs have said, it sounds as though Gorman was using her position to advocate for higher awareness and availability of HRT. This seems to me like it was related to a specific attempt to help women's health.

It doesn't sound as though Gorman was using her platform to talk about how oestrogen made her weepy and in-touch with emotions.

RozWatching · 31/12/2020 10:52

On Twitter it is alleged that we ageing Karen’s are jealous of the transwoman’s beauty

I haven't even seen this person's picture but I love it when the gender mob uses that ageist and sexist line. It's so vacuous but very revealing.

NeurotreeWenceslas · 31/12/2020 10:43

Sadly for Fae the fairy, eco glitter is as bad for the environment.

🤷🏻‍♀️

NeurotreeWenceslas · 31/12/2020 10:42

Nails - micro plastics as far as I can tell. Esp with sparkly bits.

What an embarrassment to the GP.

BettyFilous · 31/12/2020 10:41

I discussed this thread and the original tweet last night with DH because he asked why I’d exclaimed “oh for fucks sake.” He was equally offended by the idea that men can’t and don’t feel emotions. He cried when our friend died of cancer. I’ve seem him cry at various points in our 25+ year relationship and we’ve raised boys who can also express their feelings. My late father was very open and I saw him cry on numerous occasions. It’s such reductive stereotyped bullshit and as offensive to men as it is to women. As others have also pointed out, this is cross-sex hormone therapy not HRT. How can this individual claim to represent women in the Green Party when they have so little understanding of (or, seemingly, interest) in women’s lived experiences and needs? Women are crying out for decent political representation. We don’t need our roles taken up by attention-seeking [fill in the blank] who see the role as instrumental in their validation. It’s infuriating.

NeurotreeWenceslas · 31/12/2020 10:39

Seriously? Tweeting about nails in a pandemic?

Jeeze the narcissism.

OneEpisode · 31/12/2020 10:35

I think I might have some jealousy for the young. The epic naïveté mostly. Kat’s Twitter and blog seem so, so young. Kat’s letter to JK Rowling no one with life experience, wider context, would have published.

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 31/12/2020 10:27

On Twitter it is alleged that we ageing Karen’s are jealous of the transwoman’s beauty

I try very hard not to make comments about people’s appearance, i hold my tongue and try and be careful about phrasing if i have to mention anything,

But honestly 😀😀😀😀😀 how the fuck am I supposed to read that comment with a straight face?

Yeah, im jealous....soooooo jealous

OneEpisode · 31/12/2020 10:15

I don’t know the carbon footprint of painted nails, but I must confess to liking sparkly. Kat’s nails looked lovely. Kat painted them on the 24th and they looked good on the 30th.

During that period I have wrapped presents, unblocked drains and gutters (epic rain). Helped a neighbour with a fence (gales). Played with Lego. Made lots of food and done lots of washing up. Cleaned toilets, pet food containers and everything else... my hands have been extremely useful.

On Twitter it is alleged that we ageing Karen’s are jealous of the transwoman’s beauty. I’m not sure jealous is the right word. Astonishment?
At the amount of free time and lack of responsibility of someone who is supposed to be an adult?

highame · 31/12/2020 09:37

@MondayYogurt

What exactly is the carbon footprint of turning a man into a woman? 🧐
This could do with a bit of research. Shock! Horror! Trans community will not achieve zero emissions by 2030 😂