Ah, I've been informed about the part that was against the guidelines. It was my own opinion, but apparently not very civil.
So I am rephrasing what I said, because my point still stands.
in order to talk about what constitutes gender dysphoria, I said:
A young woman sought to transition, in order to eliminate every trace of her vagina. Because her father was raping her, in her vagina. She was genuinely gender dysphoric.
The reply was:
That’s someone trying to escape abuse and the trauma of abuse, not genuine gender dysphoria. That’s the point of differential diagnosis. Genuine gender dysphoria is caused by an underlying cross-sex core gender identity.
To which I responded (with amendments to remain within guidelines):
I, personally, and I'm just talking about myself, don't believe in a cross sex gender identity. Nothing anyone has ever said has convinced me, personally, otherwise.
The overwhelming impression to me is either buying wholesale into stereotypes, a rejection of toxic masculinity, a fetish, or a desire to opt out of your sex because it's giving you trauma.
Every single word that I have ever listened to, or read, quite patently backs up these reasons, to me.
The term gender dysphoria means distress at your anatomy. The woman I referred to absolutely had that. It's not reserved for some kind of internal essence - a concept that some people enjoy, but in terms of evidence, doesn't exist.
Neither does it form any part of the official diagnostic criteria.
I'm putting the last part in italics, because, to me, it's the most important bit.