But parents who bought into this at an earlier point, possibly being misled by the ideologues and lobbyists, have now got a vested interest in not admitting to anyone - least of all themselves - how far they have cocked up their child's lives and neglected their responsibilities as parents (maybe in many cases with good intentions).
I do agree with this. However, the parents were told 'better than a live son than a dead daughter' (or vice versa). They sought help from Susie Green's Mermaids who told them about brains in the wrong bodies. They went to the NHS who directed them to the Tavistock. The Tavi told them about puberty blockers, 'a harmless pause' while their child worked through their feelings. They were told about suicides of trans kids.
Parents tried to do the right thing and seek help from medical experts. They tried to be responsible.
Perhaps in some cases there was a clear dereliction of duty. In other cases they put their trust in the supposed experts. If my desperately ill child ended up in Great Ormond Street, I wouldn't be questioning the surgeons there about their competence to operate on children. Likewise, if I took my deeply distressed child to the UK's specialist centre for gender dysphoria, I would be likely to trust the people who worked there. If they said that puberty blockers were a safe, reversible form of medication, I wouldn't necessarily think to ask for evidence of that.
Ultimately, the blame lies with the people who authorised and administered these drugs.