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Conservatives For Women launch today

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ConservativesForWomen · 05/12/2020 11:41

“If particular care and attention is not paid to the Ladies we are determined to foment a Rebellion...”
Abigail Adams 1744

Here at Conservative Womens Pledge we told you we intended to redouble our efforts to win back single sex spaces for women and girls; well here is what we are doing!

Until today there was not a single group in the Conservative Party who centred the rights of women, so we are proud to announce the launch of 'Conservatives For Women'.

We are a group of Conservative Party members who will campaign within the public sphere, and in the heart of Westminster, to raise awareness of issues which threaten the safety and dignity of women. We will defend science, reason, free speech and the need for open, tolerant debate that underpins our society.

Come and join us! You don't have to be a party member or even a voter, you just have to care about the rights of women and girls.
conservativesforwomen.org/join-us

Follow us on Twitter: twitter.com/CforWomenUK

and Facebook: www.facebook.com/Conservatives-For-Women-104300591505734

We are working cross party with all the other political women's groups to inform and influence our peers and MPs.

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20shadesofgreen · 07/12/2020 19:06

I am not UK based but after Amnesty Ireland signing a letter to say they wanted political reaper station removed from gender critical women I support anyone in politics standing up for women’s sex based rights. The more noise in UK politics the more likely it is to be heard across the Irish Sea.

ConservativesForWomen · 07/12/2020 18:39

@2Rebecca

I think working within the CWO is also important.
People involved with our group, and with other women's groups, have made repeated attempts to engage with CWO to no effect. Our door remains open.
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ConservativesForWomen · 07/12/2020 18:35

@Maduixa

Thank you for the info, ConservativesforWomen and GingerJonesy. I’m curious - will your group stay focused on Westminster or do you or any affiliate groups have plans to tackle the devolved administrations and parliaments/assemblies as well?
Initially our main focus will be on Westminster, which does of course have MPs and peers from all of the home nations. We would welcome affiliate groups if they want to focus on their particular home nation.

Currently we do work with other women's groups in Scotland and Wales on an informal basis and have done for some time, supporting and amplifying each other's work.

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2Rebecca · 07/12/2020 16:43

I think working within the CWO is also important.

jj1968 · 07/12/2020 16:17

Most of what we do, and have been doing (our group sprang from the Conservative Women's Pledge petition, started over a year ago) does NOT take place on social media, it takes place in private conversations with our own MPs

So what are your positions on abortion, lone parent's benefits, gender pay gap reporting and same sex marriage?

It seems only fair that people who sign up know what you are lobbying these MPs about in the name of women's rights.

ConservativesForWomen · 07/12/2020 15:49

@ChattyLion

OP could you say any more about the position on GRA with this group?
We are currently formulating our position on the GRA and will publish it on our website as part of our FAQs once it is ready.
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Maduixa · 06/12/2020 18:11

Thank you for the info, ConservativesforWomen and GingerJonesy. I’m curious - will your group stay focused on Westminster or do you or any affiliate groups have plans to tackle the devolved administrations and parliaments/assemblies as well?

Gingernaut · 06/12/2020 16:54

conservativesforwomen.org/ the website contains template letters for sex declaration on the 2021 Census and for keeping prisons single sex.

I'm disturbed to say I approve. I agree with Conservatives. Good grief.

ChattyLion · 06/12/2020 16:23

OP could you say any more about the position on GRA with this group?

Abitofalark · 06/12/2020 16:17

Thank you, OP. Not to add to your workload but at some point when you have time, perhaps in a newsletter, it'd be interesting to hear about any other groups you work or have contacts with, in Parliament or outside, including media, print or broadcast. APPGs and Select Committees seem to be key inside but also problematic, even the one(s) dedicated to Women.

And media similarly. Have you any toeholds or routes into influence there? Do they have some sort of collective agreement or stance on the trans topic and how they will write about it? They seem to have adopted certain uses of language conforming to an agenda and use terms such as 'trans children' as if you can categorise them as such, rather than just children; and 'born in the wrong body', as if that is a fact and a reality rather than a notion or a feeling or an expression whose meaning is elusive.

So much that becomes muddled and goes wrong, ending up with absurd complications, contradictions and impossibilities, starts with language and its misuse, which is taken up and perpetuated without ever being questioned; it needs to be challenged.

HecatesCatsInXmasHats · 06/12/2020 15:17

More power to your elbow OP

ConservativesForWomen · 06/12/2020 15:12

Thank you again to those of you who have supported us and wished us well, particularly to @KeepPrisonsSingleSex who has confirmed that we worked with them, and we will continue to support their campaign.

As LeftyWoman said, we are indeed “just a bunch of Conservative women members trying to do some good by holding the government's feet to the fire.”

I will say once more, nobody is forcing any single one of you to support us, sign up for our newsletter, follow us on Twitter or Facebook or even to look at our website. Mumsnet has been so valuable to many of us in our group, as it has to women all across the political spectrum, and I thought some of you would like to know we exist. We have asked for nobody's personal details or money. Anyone is free to sign up to our newsletter under any name and email address you choose to use, and the idea that we will be cross checking you and following you across social media is risible, given we all have jobs and families and are doing this in what little spare time we have and the fact we wouldn't have a clue how to do this. We have set this up in our own time and with our own money because we think it's important enough to deserve that.

Those of you who are not interested, feel free to scroll on by. I will also repeat, we are FOR women and children's rights, as are ALL the other political groups we work with.

Most of what we do, and have been doing (our group sprang from the Conservative Women's Pledge petition, started over a year ago) does NOT take place on social media, it takes place in private conversations with our own MPs; one of our aims is to help people be more confident about engaging with their MPs, because we know many people just don't know where to start.
Many Conservative party members don't use social media, so we want to find ways to reach out to them to let them know what is happening to women (and children).

Those of you who are politically active know that party officials SHOULD be listening to their members, and we intend to make our voices heard within the party, so the more of us the better, which is why we set up the website to give people somewhere to engage with us; as of today none of us have been expelled from the party so we feel there is hope, and the atmosphere has certainly changed in the last year. What we are doing is not something we expect every women in the world to agree with, heaven knows we are used to that, as women we have been constantly told we are 'womaning' wrong, or 'feministing' wrong. But it is what WE are doing, and those who want to criticise, why not share what YOU are doing?

So what 'real world touchpoint' are we supposed to provide? Our photos? Our names and addresses? None of that would prove anything, and people who want to find fault with us will continue to do so. Facebook are already making our page difficult to find and no doubt Twitter will get around to shadowbanning us for weeks, which is what they did to CUPWomensPledge's account. The fact anyone thinks we have any control over these social media giants is mind-boggling.

P.S. If anyone has found a way to send postcards out to people without having their address we are all ears.

P.P.S. Thanks from the bottom of our heart to those who have sent supportive messages and supported us on this thread; we are all exhausted from getting this set up and your messages and posts have really helped.

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Floisme · 06/12/2020 13:41

Thanks Perking I will read and digest!

PerkingFaintly · 06/12/2020 13:34

Oh, and now at the bottom of the CfW homepage is an option so you can make choices about some Twitter tracking and some Facebook tracking. Good, this is better practice.

I don't know if that was always there (I was looking at other pages), or whether that's just appeared.

It's nice to have such responsive readers if the latter.Grin

HecatesCatsInXmasHats · 06/12/2020 13:31

I think the Baroness' group will be cross-party and specifically for women's issues/rights

Very much looking forward to hearing more from the Baroness about her plans.

PerkingFaintly · 06/12/2020 13:29

Oh, you asked specifically where CfW are asking for money.

There's a Donate button on their website, and they're selling postcards.

Actually I've just re-read that page: sorry, I misread it as I was trying to get through all the material.

I thought they were selling the cards and flowers as a "we'll send it for you" service, but in reality they're posting you a pack of cards.

So that's your postal address required, then, which can be cross-referenced with the electoral roll.

ChattyLion · 06/12/2020 13:26

Not RTFT since last posting on it but important to note that the Conservative women’s and the Labour women’s petitions are not mirror images of each other, having just checked back in on the Lab one.

I’m a lefty with nobody to vote for in good conscience and feel very let down by Labour as a voter (I wasn’t a member). I signed the Labour one though because it was about women’s political freedom and right to talk about sex-based issues and women had been expelled from the Labour Party over that. Still staggering to write that but that is exactly what happened. The Tory declaration here has broader and different aims. For example it includes:

Children should be able to access safe spaces and by removing single sex spaces and the ability to ask someone’s sex, that this reduces the ability to safeguard young people.

Absolutely agree. Also:

We believe that any individual should be able to dress and express themselves as they wish. However we believe that important distinctions must be made between women and girls, and those who 'identify' as such. If any person can legally be considered the opposite sex then our rights as women and girls can no longer be defended.

I agree with the position that I think they are setting out here... which would be that the current GRA is unworkable and should be reviewed with a view to scrapping it. Yes? is that what they’re not quite spelling out?

I’d absolutely agree that anyone can present as they wish or call themselves what they want with the protections of the Equality Act already in place for them and that’s all fine.

However Parliament put in GRA in a historical context of no same sex marriage and no equal pension age which amounted to discrimination. GRA was the workaround in that context. So I think Parliament should now have the opportunity to debate whether a change of legal sex for what are now purely validatory reasons via GRA, is the business of the state at all. In any case the current GRA must be reviewed because it’s impacting negatively on various groups in a way the lawmakers back then certainly did not intend.

Given that the Government position has been to avid adding in self ID to the GRA (rightly) but to leave the current GRA as it is (wrong) and effectively kick it into the long grass, that leaves detransitioned people with GRCs stuck in their legal sex paperwork which doesn’t match their birth sex, FOR LIFE.. because GRA takes no account of consent (red flag!) This affects Keira Bell among others.

Also the GRA takes no account of GRC holders having biological women’s issues to consider like pregnancy and birth (red flag again!- see Freddy McConnell’s case) AND GRA undermines trust in itself as a legal entity because it is not revocable even if GRC-holders behave outwith the requirements of the GRC. We should all have freedom not to follow sex stereotypes, but GRA is built on those.It’s also unreasonable for GRA to expect of anyone that they adhere for life to something as idiosyncratic to the individual as gender identity feelings.

The big legal changes of status in life like marriage or civil partnership, for example, have a built in reversal process. That is a basic requirement. GRA is just very poorly thought through. There was never an internal logic to it and it’s become anachronistic now we rightly have marriage and civil partnership for everyone including same sex couples.

Anyway so if Conservative women are going to object in principle to the GRA and call for it to be reviewed, then that’s great but this should be campaigned for front and centre- ideally as a joint campaign with other women’s groups.

Is that part of the campaigning plan? I’d support it.

PerkingFaintly · 06/12/2020 13:19

The issue of data collection is just more prominent even than usual in my mind because of the ongoing shenanigans by the Trump campaign, which is very effective at milking contact data via websites and then using it for targeted marketing.

I was having a quick look for a ref to back that up, and fell across this Daily Fail article from 18 Nov. The Fail's not known for accuracy, but some people here like it so I've linked. I haven't corroborated this story, so take it with a pinch of salt. But a lot of it is feasible.

Trump's 2020 election campaign was powered by cellphone app that tracked location of his 2.8million supporters and could access their contacts
www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8960385/Trumps-2020-reelection-campaign-powered-cellphone-app-collected-data-2-8million-fans.html

Sorry, that's a mega derail. But you asked about data.

HidingUnderARock · 06/12/2020 13:05

Like some others I came to this thread thinking it was the Baroness' group. It wasn't at all obvious.

I can't help wondering at the timing, as the OP must surely have known that was in the pipeline. I wonder how many would join both.

I think the Baroness' group will be cross-party and specifically for women's issues/rights. Please correct me if I am wrong.
I think I'll continue to wait for that.

PerkingFaintly · 06/12/2020 13:04

If we click on the Conservatives for Women Facebook page, it will become part of Facebook tracking of us – probably even if we don't have a Facebook account.

I can't remember the current state of play on this, but AFAIK Facebook creates "shadow identities" (what Line of Duty would call nominals) where it tracks people across the web via cookies on every site which has the Facebook link – so, most sites inc MN – even if Facebook doesn't know the person's actual name. Device Identification is also carried out by many websites: you'll often see it mentioned in the same warning as cookies. Can't remember details just now, but basically IIRC our actual smartphone or home router's short-lived link from the exchange is identified. (Don't shoot me if that bit's wrong, I'm tired and can't remember stuff today. I'm sure someone can do a better rundown of all aspects of tracking)

I've just looked, and the Conservatives for Women website states: "We use cookies to ensure that we give you the best experience on our website" and does not appear to give any way to opt out of cookies as many other websites do. It would be better practice for them to allow us the choice to opt out.

Donations and sales of postcards are via PayPal. The site says that the service may collect data about the buyer. I don't know how much data this sort of vendor can get about PayPal buyers, although I think I get email addresses when I sell stuff and do money transfers.

Typically the value of this data comes from aggregating and cross-referencing data sets. So the same buyer of flowers also buys a Ravelry magazine, has used their email address to join a website about motor-racing and on the same device has watched a YouTube clip about chasing Donald Trump round his golf course with a tuba. This allows anyone doing marketing to have a fuller picture and thus isolate a target audience, which they can microtarget with a message not necessarily meant for general consumption.

Facebook sells marketers "universes" of accounts they've identified as likely to respond to the same sort of issues or style of marketing. So once we're in a universe from one site we've visited, we may be nudged towards another.

Eg one of the Leave campaigns harvested data from disengaged potential voters via a football prize competition. It then used this data to bombard people with specially tailored political ads. Vote Leave didn't need to know people's actual names, just how to reach them and what would press their buttons.
Vote Leave's targeted Brexit ads released by Facebook
www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-44966969

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dark_advertising

I only mention Vote Leave and Facebook because it's a well-studied example: anyone who wants to pay for it can do this and can use various platforms. During the run-up to the 2016 US election, I kept finding Breitbart cookies on my machine. I hadn't been on the Breitbart website and the most likely culprit was actually adverts or some other content on MN, although I had an ad blocker at the time.

So yes, it's excellent practice to use throwaway email addresses, but that's not enough to prevent us being tracked and fed tailored content.

Sorry, that was a long diversion on non-obvious data collection and uses.

It does not follow that WfC are going to use our data (mine too, because I clicked) like this! But like everyone else they could if they wanted to.

Floisme · 06/12/2020 12:40

No probs Perking and no rush. I'm interested in your point of view.

PerkingFaintly · 06/12/2020 12:33

Sorry, Floisme, not ignoring you but writing a long post!

Tanith · 06/12/2020 12:06

"Working with people who you may not agree with is the only way to actually get things done in politics."

Yes indeed - I agree.

But it shouldn't be necessary to join a group in order to work with them. I thought this new group was supposed to be working with other interested parties so, in theory, there should be no need.

Floisme · 06/12/2020 11:56

I do see your point Perking but where are they asking for personal information (beyond a name and email which can be anonymised) and for money?

PerkingFaintly · 06/12/2020 11:50

I'm very happy to work with political opponents to achieve common goals, Floisme.

In fact it annoys me no end when people get into purity spirals and start cutting off other groups left right and centre. I'd be shocked and actually horrified if everyone I worked with had exactly the same views as me.

There are some lines I'm less keen to cross though: it would have to be a heck of a unifying issue to get me making common cause with (say) paedophiles.

So lack of transparency becomes a real problem.

If I don't know who you are, and what you'll be claiming I support, I could end up marching down my street with a lot of other very well-intentioned, very genuinely concerned people carrying a QAnon banner saying "Save Our Children". That's the internet for you.

So I'm a bit cautious about campaigns with no obvious real-world touchpoint and which aren't transparent. This is why I'm so annoyed at the OP having been deceitful with her first few posts. Where on earth was the gain in that?