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Bunburying and wassailing into winter - thread 7

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CaraDuneRedux · 02/12/2020 11:41

Time for a new thread. Please can someone c&p the header post? (Am on phone.)

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Winesalot · 04/02/2021 14:14

That specific assumption has been made on another platform. We may get a few more incoming soon

That it really was Lang? oh dear.

Thanks for the warning though.

gardenbird48 · 04/02/2021 14:12

Yes, this is what I asked too. I did not assume that Langry really was Lang Cleg, but thought that MN might have.
They ought to know, but I bet the person who reported it thinks it.

That specific assumption has been made on another platform. We may get a few more incoming soon Hmm

Datun · 04/02/2021 13:56

@DialSquare

There was something familiar about that PBP when the masked slipped. I think they may well have a Trans child!stepchild.
Indeed.
Datun · 04/02/2021 13:55

@CaraDuneRedux

MN don't always remove all posts from trolls.
No, they don't, that's true. And in this case, I hope they don't. What I meant was they would have to delete a number of actual posts by that person, for being goady, without actually deleting all of them.

But the deletion messages suggests that the only a problem with the thread is that the OP was a PBP.

It's not Lang but maybe they are a PBP. But it would be more of a genuine reflection to say and there was a troll too who has since been banned.

DialSquare · 04/02/2021 13:36

There was something familiar about that PBP when the masked slipped. I think they may well have a Trans child!stepchild.

CorvusPurpureus · 04/02/2021 13:34

Oh I missed thread 5. Don't suppose anyone archived it...?

My spidey senses were going off big style re the stepmother!

CaraDuneRedux · 04/02/2021 13:26

MN don't always remove all posts from trolls.

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AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 04/02/2021 13:25

Datun
If that dreadful poster is a troll, then all their posts would be deleted. But HQ would have to change the deletion message.

The poster who gave me the strongest sense of "I'm alright Jack" that I have ever had in my life, on thread 4 "my stepchild is super-popular and incredibly successful so your daughters, and incidentally mine, can all go to blazes" is still there in thread 4, and if they had been banned as a troll wouldn't their posts all be gone, there as well as the more recent posts?

CaraDuneRedux · 04/02/2021 13:14

Just PM-ed you Deacon - should have put a content warning on though, so read with caution.

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Winesalot · 04/02/2021 13:08

There was someone in thread 3 and 4 with a trans step child - that's not the troll or abusive poster, is it? Yes, apparently the trolling poster.

Did someone new turn up? And on Thread 5, someone new did turn up.

Actually I've found a way to still view it so will be taking a look at what I can Anyway to archive it?

I think Thread 5 was a step too far for the trolling poster to keep up the pretence.

DeaconBoo · 04/02/2021 12:44

I'm confused as stopped towards end of thread 4. There was someone in thread 3 and 4 with a trans step child - that's not the troll or abusive poster, is it? Did someone new turn up?
Actually I've found a way to still view it so will be taking a look at what i can.

Winesalot · 04/02/2021 12:12

agreed. I think you are right in that anyone reporting it would think it.

But alas my email back confirmed it was still a PBP even after I argued it was a mistake.

Shame though....

Datun · 04/02/2021 12:06

@Winesalot

The OP is not lang cleg. I wonder if there has been a mistake. I have asked HQ.

Yes, this is what I asked too. I did not assume that Langry really was Lang Cleg, but thought that MN might have.

They ought to know, but I bet the person who reported it thinks it.
Winesalot · 04/02/2021 11:59

The OP is not lang cleg. I wonder if there has been a mistake. I have asked HQ.

Yes, this is what I asked too. I did not assume that Langry really was Lang Cleg, but thought that MN might have.

Datun · 04/02/2021 11:55

The deletion message says it's the OP who has been banned. It's a little unfair, because the poster who was trolling has not been acknowledged on the deletion message as a troll.

The OP is not lang cleg. I wonder if there has been a mistake. I have asked HQ.

I mentioned on this thread that Lang has been banned, when I asked about Weetabix. I wonder if someone reading my post thinks that the OP was Lang, not realising her name is used in dozens of other usernames.

If that dreadful poster is a troll, then all their posts would be deleted. But HQ would have to change the deletion message.

As it stands, a reasonable question is now looking as though HQ thinks it's dodgy, and the dodgy poster has not been acknowledged.

Winesalot · 04/02/2021 11:51

@Datun

Was LangryCleg banned because the reporter thought they were LangCleg?
I asked and was told they were a PBP. Not who they were.

I posted that theory before I received an email confirming it was A PBP. I did not query who it was. So, before I had the confirmation I was theorising that they had made that mistake.

Justhadathought · 04/02/2021 11:50

I had my account suspended for several months towards the end of last year ( & as a result I stopped even looking in. I felt so disheartened and compromised), but since I've been actively engaging again, I note that several/numerous long term posters have disappeared. Have they all been banned? I know about Lang Cleg.....

picklemewalnuts · 04/02/2021 11:48

Unless I've misunderstood, it's not Langry that's been banned, but the poster whose misogynistic language was alarming last night.

ArabellaScott · 04/02/2021 11:44

Thanks Rufus, I see. Yes, it had started reasonable and then was slowly becoming more hostile, but I missed all the descent into scariness.

Hope you're okay, Cara and anyone else worried by it. There really are some horrors out there who are determined to silence women.

Datun · 04/02/2021 11:33

Was LangryCleg banned because the reporter thought they were LangCleg?

Winesalot · 04/02/2021 10:56

Apparently Langry was a PBP. However, Langrycleg, thank you. I guess you are banned again.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 04/02/2021 10:43

The "I'm going to get you all banned" speech was where the goading seemed to tip over into narcissistic rage at the women on the thread.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 04/02/2021 10:40

and that my instinct that they were not who they said they were was on the money).

Mine too, though I didn't want to troll hunt on the thread. I feel vindicated!

DickKerrLadies · 04/02/2021 10:17

Interesting!

I think one aspect of it is that 'we' are less likely to report posts like that because we'd rather let them stand and be visible. Sunlight and all that.

Winesalot · 04/02/2021 10:05

Sorry. Posted too early.

Their dissonance kept the threads going and allowed many people to post great information for other readers.

Own goal.