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The Queens Gambit

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Destinysdaughter · 01/12/2020 19:51

Has anyone seen this? It was a brilliant piece of filmmaking and had me in bits at the end. But, what was striking about it for me was firstly, there was no sexual abuse in it. So, the scenes where she played chess in the basement, I expected the old janitor to have sexual designs on her. But he didn't. And then, when she was adopted, I expected the husband to be sexually abusive towards her, but he wasn't.

And then, when she kept on winning against men after men, she experienced no misogyny, just respect and support

And although that was so lovely and refreshing to see, part of me thought, no that would never happen in the real world!

Maybe I've just become too cynical and too expectant of sexism and misogyny but I found it a bit idealistic in terms of what a young, attractive woman would have experienced in that world?

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ReindeersAreBetterThanHumans · 01/12/2020 20:15

Storyline aside, I felt like it was like watching constantly changing art. It was visually stunning.

BriocheForBreakfast · 01/12/2020 20:14

I loved it too but yes, you're right. I was thinking that the adoptive father was going to be an abuser. Are we conditioned to expect this in TV/films now? It was a refreshing change.

Girlyracer · 01/12/2020 20:13

Yes we thought that too. Very good show.

NonnyMouse1337 · 01/12/2020 20:01

I loved it! And yes, really refreshing storyline and directing. None of the usual sexually violent plot devices. Smile

OpposableThumbs2 · 01/12/2020 19:56

I've only watched to episodes so far, and spent the entire time thinking that she was about to be abused.

PinkFondantFancy · 01/12/2020 19:55

Agreed, same here!

AnnieKennyfanclub · 01/12/2020 19:54

Isn't it OP. I was expecting the same as you in the first couple of episode. So nice to be proved wrong on this occasion.

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