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Joe Wicks and his breastfeeding journey

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IHaveAGreyLamp · 23/11/2020 10:30

Joe Wicks has written in his ‘Wean to 15’ weaning and cookery book about how his wife breastfed their first child. He refers to it as ‘his’ journey- ‘This is just me sharing my experience and journey’. Sorry Joe but what exactly was your breastfeeding journey?

He goes to on preach about how you should just do what’s right for you and your baby, and ignore the opinions of anyone else. Sage advice but I think I would have felt better if it had actually come from his wife (you know, the person of actual experience of breastfeeding and what it’s really like?)

There’s also a lot of ‘we did this’ and ‘we did that’, for example his wife both pumped and breastfed but ‘we found this quite challenging’. Yes Joe I’m sure you did find it quite challenging considering you were neither breastfeeding nor pumping.

I have to say I’ve found myself filled with an irrational rage reading this section of the book. Why couldn’t he have let his wife write this section, to talk about it from a breastfeeding mother’s point of view, rather than a man trying to claim something so inherently biologically female as his? Argh!

Luckily I had only been lent the book to have a look through- I would have been even more annoyed if I’d actually paid £8 to line the pockets of this smug and annoying individual!

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TotoroPotoro · 23/11/2020 10:46

I'm the first to get ragey about stuff like this usually BUT DH did have his own breastfeeding journey to be fair. DC1 was an absolute nightmare feeder and DH was right alongside me all the way. Yes I pumped and produced the milk, but he would be sat up all night making sure she was spoon/syringe fed breastmilk every two hours in the night whilst I slept. He was my cheerleader, did all the sterilising, kept me fed and rested.

He absolutely had his own breastfeeding journey, despite not producing any milk himself.

pinkyredrose · 23/11/2020 10:45

mean it should be tough for him if she’s breastfeeding and pumping, because then he’s looking after the baby when she’s pumping

Say what?

Melroses · 23/11/2020 10:45

DH says he felt a valuable part of the conveyor belt system, passing babies and winding etc, and that he hardly felt the mastitis at all Smile

SittingAround1 · 23/11/2020 10:42

Why couldn’t he have let his wife write this section, to talk about it from a breastfeeding mother’s point of view, rather than a man trying to claim something so inherently biologically female as his?

She's probably too tired from all the giving birth, breastfeeding, pumping and generally looking after a newborn.
He needs to make money.

IHaveAGreyLamp · 23/11/2020 10:42

‘ I mean it should be tough for him if she’s breastfeeding and pumping, because then he’s looking after the baby when she’s pumping’

@GreyishDays What sorry, it’s tough for him because he might have to look after his own child for a bit whilst she pumps? How awful for him!

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Melroses · 23/11/2020 10:41

LOL Grin

GreyishDays · 23/11/2020 10:39

*If something is tough

IHaveAGreyLamp · 23/11/2020 10:39

@andfurtively

I hate when all these celebrities write these groundbreaking books on parenthood and their breastfeeding journeys. As if it's something new. People have been having kids and weaning them since the dawn of time. What makes them so clever and special? The fact the Joe Wicks talks about his journey when he doesn't, and will never know what it takes to breast feed is very irritating and patronising. And from a quick google search, he has a degree in sorts science ( commendable) but no actually qualifications in nutrition.
That is correct, he does not have any qualifications in nutrition, he co-wrote the book with a qualified child nutritionist (but you don’t find that out until the very last page of the book where she gets a very small mention)
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GreyishDays · 23/11/2020 10:39

I don’t know, for any decent partner of something is tough for the woman there’s a knock on effect for the partner. I mean it should be tough for him if she’s breastfeeding and pumping, because then he’s looking after the baby when she’s pumping.

He seems nice enough, I don’t think using twee language is a reason to vilify him, if the overall message is good.

itchyfinger · 23/11/2020 10:38

The way he talks about parenting in general is totally cringe, as if hes the first person to ever have a kid.

Queenofthemadouse · 23/11/2020 10:36

WTAF 😡. I hate this bullshit. "We" are not pregnant. "We" are not breastfeeding. "We" did not give birth.

andfurtively · 23/11/2020 10:36

I hate when all these celebrities write these groundbreaking books on parenthood and their breastfeeding journeys. As if it's something new. People have been having kids and weaning them since the dawn of time.
What makes them so clever and special?
The fact the Joe Wicks talks about his journey when he doesn't, and will never know what it takes to breast feed is very irritating and patronising.
And from a quick google search, he has a degree in sorts science ( commendable) but no actually qualifications in nutrition.

tions · 23/11/2020 10:33

Maybe she did write it but didn’t want to put her name to it so as to avoid the scrutinisation and character assassinations?

jojomolo · 23/11/2020 10:31

YANBU

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