Article - Is casual sex immoral? - on sex positivity and its effect on women

I'd say that casual sex - with the caveat that it's genuinely freely consenting adults involved, with due diligence to contraception and health considerations - is amoral. It's not bad, but neither is it 'virtuous'.
I think that's the false narrative attributed to 'libfems' but mainly of use to men - that 'sex positivity' means you should be having a lot of sex.

@NonnyMouse1337 thanks, yes that would make sense.

I'm now wondering whether there is some evolutionary explanation for disgust

There is.

Types of disgust and levels of intensity do vary among individuals, but there are certain instinctive disgusts - rotting food, certain diseases, smells, visual cues etc. And even sexual practices can invoke such feelings - most well adjusted people will feel disgust at the thought of sex with a parent or sibling. It's how we stop ourselves from inbreeding as a species.

If you're doing it for the right reasons I.e. to have great sex, then fine. Any other reason and it's potentially harmful.

I have in the past found the thought of eating meat disgusting for a number of reasons- the thought of eating a living creature, the smell, taste, the texture of chewing something which I know was a living creature. I'm not so sensitive now but there are still occasions when I think meat eating is disgusting.

Disgust starts when we are toddlers and start to wander away from our mothers, as the rejection of foodstuffs or non food items that could make us ill, and as we grow older we expand the range of things we find disgusting.

If both parties are consenting then it's fine.

If it makes you feel like shit afterwards don't do it again. Casual sex isn't for everyone.

The concern for me about any person who did this would be would they do it to a live animal? Is this an indicator of possible, future harmful behaviour?

Women tend to be more vulnerable and at risk from casual sex - physically, emotionally, ultimately financially if unplanned baby is involved. That's reality, but to pretend that men and women are the same and not recognise the asymmetry of risk could be mentally and emotionally damaging for women, and they may not even understand why if they believe it is only about Consent. Is casual sex immoral? Is it immoral to risk putting yourself in harms' way? Is it immoral for men to hurt women? Regardless, it's not illegal and it will carry on anyway.

It's good to see someone challenging the sex positivity message. (Most) women are not like (most) men and they do not experience sexual activities in the same way. We are harming young people, particularly girls, by pretending otherwise.

As an aside, why do the loudest advocates for sex positivy always have zero sex appeal and leave me feeling Eugh?

The dead chicken example was really useful because it demonstrates how small the number of moral principles are for people who don’t rely on traditional moral structures.

Casual sex is not immoral. The article is presumably by a radical feminists given how disparaging it is of liberal feminism. It's infantilising of women.

I'm vehemently opposed to treating prostitution and porn as acceptable and articles like that are not helpful as it is ammunition that anyone who opposes commercial sex is just a prude.

I don't understand why she's focussed on the dead chicken example as an example of Liberal feminism and I don't like the assertion that women have evolved to be more picky as sex is more risky for them - itsmore complicated than that.
Ultimately I'm not sure what point she's making, other than "Liberal feminism is bad". I agree somewhat the sex positivism is damaging but I think her arguments are weak

Tbh I've felt more shit through sex in some of my relationships than through casual sex ...

I guess I always went into a one night stand or casual arrangement, not expecting to get much from it, and you don't have to go back. But in a relationship you are kind of stuck with it. I think it becomes more if a let down because by the time you sleep together you are more invested.

I'm probably weird in my thoughts though. I mean I kinda viewed it as a chance to work out what I liked and didn't like before I got into a relationship, and even work out what the men liked so I had a few tricks up my sleeve...

Mind you my self confidence and self worth was shot way before I was even old enough to have sex.

I can’t read that because they keep saying liberal feminism “ encourages” certain sexual behaviours. Liberal feminists don’t encourage anything they’re just not judgemental about sexual practices (including those that might fall outside the mainstream.Eg feet fetish). My personal rules would dictate I’m guided by practices that are legal. Other than that I don’t go around telling other people what they should be doing or not be doing in the bedroom and I don’t appreciate other people trying to govern me.

Casual sex itself is not immoral, but in my opinion it is a risky recreational activity for women. There is no such thing as safe sex because there is always a risk of disease (causing discomfort, to infertility or even death), pregnancy and/or emotional damage.
Men have some risk too, but to a lesser degree than women. This is why the men who wish to engage in casual sex will always exceed the number of women who wish engage in casual sex. Which in turn causes prostitution and sex trafficking and these are truly immoral.
I do agree with the article that consent is a low bar to determine whether sex is a good choice for the two parties or not. But it confuses ulterior motives and manipulation or coercion into sex with casual sex itself.

@Aquamarine1029 I beg to differ. Oh to be in my 20s again

All sex is bad outside of a committed relationship period. It's irresponsible,leads to pregnancy, disease, and affects people's wellbeing, women especially.

According to whom?

All sex is bad outside of a committed relationship period. It's irresponsible,leads to pregnancy, disease, and affects people's wellbeing, women especially.