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Labour MP Fleur Anderson saying TWAW, change must happen and be kind

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WarriorsComeOutToPlayay · 18/11/2020 14:47

Ironically her next tweet is about anti bullying says "it's ok to be different" (which of course it is).

So according to Fleur 'difference' is good, apart from when it relates to the fact that transwomen and women are different.

I'm all for her message that transgender people should not be discriminated against but pretending they are something they are not and losing the true definition of women as a group, that I can't get on board with.

I am lifelong Labour but can't vote for this. When is Keir Starmer going to get off the fence?

twitter.com/PutneyFleur/status/1328363248077443072

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MichelleofzeResistance · 19/11/2020 09:55

Add that to the belief of the super-woke that people who don't think like them shouldn't* really be allowed to vote

And in some versions, should have reduced civil and human rights if they're not on message. I keep wondering where they plan to put all the gulags, and who exactly is going to staff them, since there's going to be far more voters in there than out.

MichelleofzeResistance · 19/11/2020 09:54

Yeah, wokeness is not a big vote-winner but the people who object to it aren’t listened to in any other areas of life so their voices aren’t heard. Not a problem for the Labour Party, until there’s an election and then they start to wonder why they are losing all these seats.

And there is the problem in a nutshell with politics dominated by the elite professional politician, where only those who think and say the right things and stand by very niche views get into positions of power and ensure that only those who think like them are ever successful at job interviews.

Add that to the belief of the super-woke that people who don't think like them should really be allowed to vote, and you should just hold your nose as you go by the massive majority of your voters that you don't believe are entitled to be heard or represented and then reproachfully scold them for somehow not wanting you in power over them, and there you have Labour. Unelectable even in the current times, which is quite a remarkable feat really.

RealityNotEssentialism · 19/11/2020 09:19

Oh sorry, I think you meant Sophie Wilson didn’t you? She is indeed super-woke.
Yeah, wokeness is not a big vote-winner but the people who object to it aren’t listened to in any other areas of life so their voices aren’t heard. Not a problem for the Labour Party, until there’s an election and then they start to wonder why they are losing all these seats.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 19/11/2020 09:18

She’s conflicted because she can no doubt see what the reality is

Ive heard she can.

RealityNotEssentialism · 19/11/2020 09:16

@Floisme

Well the very woke Sophie Walker managed to lose Rother Valley which had been Labour for 100 years, so I wouldn't be too sure about it being an election loser. I certainly can't see them winning back the red wall this way.
I wouldn’t describe Sophie Walker as super-woke. She’s conflicted because she can no doubt see what the reality is but she’s too scared to openly say it because she will get even more backlash than she’s had so far. Super-woke is someone like Nadia Whittome or Mhairi Black who makes an active point of attacking women who are concerned about single sex spaces.
Floisme · 19/11/2020 09:09

Sorry - I hadn't refreshed the page and didn't see that the thread had moved on.

Floisme · 19/11/2020 09:08

Well the very woke Sophie Walker managed to lose Rother Valley which had been Labour for 100 years, so I wouldn't be too sure about it being an election loser. I certainly can't see them winning back the red wall this way.

ThatIsNotMyUsername · 19/11/2020 09:05

They aren’t going to say something that will cause death threats, work problems, etc and these days it seems like not saying something positive can cause the same. Odd eh?

RealityNotEssentialism · 19/11/2020 09:03

@SmallPug

Is it cowardice? I am wondering whether they really don’t think that hard about the issues and/ or they’re stupid. Fleur saying there’s no conflict of rights, when gender identity undermines sex based rights - and undermines sense, reason and everything else?!! I don’t know about this being an election loser (unless they genuinely keep crowing loudly about it). I’m concerned that most people don’t understand or know much about this issue, my friends certainly didn’t, so it won’t be a factor when voting. I know there are a lot of engaged and intelligent women on this issue, but are we influential/ sizeable when it comes to actual voting numbers? I’m not sure. I’m wondering about producing information leaflets etc for the next election to try and raise more awareness. Do we need the worst to happen for people to wake up - I would have thought some of the things that have already happened (men in women’s sport, men in women’s prisons) would have been enough, but it seems as though people have their head in the sand.
I think it’s a mixture of cowardice and wanting to be popular. I was thinking the other day that if I wrote something like this MP wrote on social media and said I hated TERFs that I would probably get more likes than I have ever had on a social media post (I’ve deleted my Twitter so that puts a bit of a spanner in the works but this is hypothetical). That approval can be quite addictive even when you’re a grown adult. Lots of people telling you how wonderful you are and the knowledge that you will probably be left alone, unlike the women who refuse to sell themselves out. I’m also thinking about people like Nigella Lawson who attracted loads of fawning and praise for doing something similar.
SmallPug · 19/11/2020 06:15

Is it cowardice? I am wondering whether they really don’t think that hard about the issues and/ or they’re stupid. Fleur saying there’s no conflict of rights, when gender identity undermines sex based rights - and undermines sense, reason and everything else?!! I don’t know about this being an election loser (unless they genuinely keep crowing loudly about it). I’m concerned that most people don’t understand or know much about this issue, my friends certainly didn’t, so it won’t be a factor when voting. I know there are a lot of engaged and intelligent women on this issue, but are we influential/ sizeable when it comes to actual voting numbers? I’m not sure. I’m wondering about producing information leaflets etc for the next election to try and raise more awareness. Do we need the worst to happen for people to wake up - I would have thought some of the things that have already happened (men in women’s sport, men in women’s prisons) would have been enough, but it seems as though people have their head in the sand.

MayYouLiveInInterestingTimes · 18/11/2020 21:07

"Change must happen", yes, domestic violence figures which have soared must go back down, violence against women rates which have increased should go back down, rape conviction rates which have gone down must go back up.

When male violence has changed then I will "be kind". Until then these over-privileged ignoramuses really piss me off. I've given up on Labour again anyway, they're nothing but crowd-followers.

HecatesCats · 18/11/2020 20:53

and Barnard Castle absolutely is the right way to do an eye sight test

GrinGrinGrin

StillAFeminist · 18/11/2020 20:52

@SmallPug

I emailed my MP Ellie Reeves (shadow solicitor general no less) and got a similar reply. She’s full on ‘the most oppressed group’ etc. I feel like Labour is a lost cause. Politically homeless.
Labour really is a lost cause Sad they will never get enough votes for them if the silenced left leaning feminists don’t vote for them, there’s more of us than they think and they’d know how many if they would let us speak.

Marketers know it costs 5 x more to acquire a new customer compared to retaining existing customers, I wonder what the numbers are for voters?

MichelleofzeResistance · 18/11/2020 20:47

To just deny the reality of the issues (which is essentially treating all women and their voices and rights in a way they would not dare to treat a trans activist) is about as stupid as saying Brexit isn't happening, Covid isn't real anyway and Barnard Castle absolutely is the right way to do an eye sight test.

HermioneWeasley · 18/11/2020 20:46

Labour really hates women. The internalised misogyny is strong in their MPs as well

NotBadConsidering · 18/11/2020 20:42

Good on Mimmymum! Maybe that will lead Fleur to this thread so she can realise how stupid she’s being and find some support to make a stand.

ThatIsNotMyUsername · 18/11/2020 20:35

Cowardice - but they do know those chickens will come home to roost don’t they?

MichelleofzeResistance · 18/11/2020 20:22

Its moral cowardice. They know. They're unable to face up to it, they can't even handle unpacking and looking at the issues which is why you get the cognitive dissonant mantras. They're afraid of and unable to deal with the behaviour of those who punish heresy vigorously while women might be clear that you're behaving extremely irresponsibly in a position of public responsibility while making a twit of yourself but won't make threats of extreme violence towards you and your family.

Face up to it for pete's sake Fleur and do the job you're paid for.

HecatesCats · 18/11/2020 20:11

Or something

HecatesCats · 18/11/2020 20:10

They've been targeted by lobbyists who inform them that anyone who doesn't believe TWAW is a nasty terf enacting literal violence with every word. They only leave the room once the mantra TWAW, TMAM and TRAHR has been chanted 10 times. Then they are required to put it in a tweet.

SmallPug · 18/11/2020 19:59

Ellie said she pushed for self-ID. But also believes in women’s rights. I asked her how she would uphold sex based rights and implement self-ID, with examples. She hasn’t replied yet. Are they deluded? Stupid? I really cannot understand how they can’t see that they’re fighting for important facts to become optional. They’re fighting for something that isn’t true or real. People can’t change sex. How is this happening in 2020?!! It feels like a nightmare, watching ostensibly sane and intelligent people convince themselves that up is down, war is peace, science isn’t real, etc. How do they think we’re all here on this planet?! It really is unfathomable.

Escapeplanning · 18/11/2020 19:57

Is that literally mimmymums job description?

Read mumsnet.
Feel demoralised because you are dim and are unable to refute the sensible facts and opinions.
Post shite on twatter to compensate for your inadequacy.

ThatIsNotMyUsername · 18/11/2020 19:52

Can they explain how? More rights than women and Bank of England, google, amazon..... All mining up to kiss ass.

SmallPug · 18/11/2020 19:41

I emailed my MP Ellie Reeves (shadow solicitor general no less) and got a similar reply. She’s full on ‘the most oppressed group’ etc. I feel like Labour is a lost cause. Politically homeless.

ArabellaScott · 18/11/2020 19:15

I think that trans women are women

I think that's a wee bit telling, Fleur. You think they are but every shred of logic and sense in your body tells you they are not. It's how words work. Not rocket science. You can say you think sea horses are horses, doesn't make it true.

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