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What do men think of mixed-sex toilets?

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NatalDrag · 05/11/2020 14:21

The mixed-sexed toilet debate is usually centred around the fact that women don't want to share safe spaces with men. However, I wonder why the opinions of men aren't include more in the debate?

I was talking to my partner about this issue last night. He works in a university, and in his department's building, most toilets are now mixed-sex (self contained toilets, similar to disabled toilets, not cubicles). Despite offering lots of privacy, he doesn't like these toilets as he says it's awkward standing in line for the toilet alongside young women. He feels like he's doing something wrong. He then added that if it was an open-plan toilet with cubicles, he doesn't think he could even go in without feeling awkward.

Thinking about it, most men I know would probably feel the same way. I was wondering if anyone here had any thoughts on this point?

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ArabellaScott · 05/11/2020 14:28

My Nigel was enormously uncomfortable with the idea of mixed-sex toilets. He was very clear that he wanted toilets for women and toilets for men to be separate. Tbh I think he feels his privacy is impinged upon by women being in the toilet. He does not have the slightest compunction at sharing a toilet with any male, no matter their sexuality or presentation.

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