Please or to access all these features

Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

See all MNHQ comments on this thread

The strategy of relinquishing the word "woman"

218 replies

GratedExposure · 20/10/2020 12:01

This is something I wonder about in a number of contexts (I'm not advocating it, just wondering): is anyone thinking that the best strategy here is to leave the word, and begin to label certain awards/events as "natal female" awards/events?

I know there are many arguments against this (first, why should we be having to start fighting anew for things which should never have been taken?). But at what point do we walk away and start again? The most obvious example is sport, because if there were "wom*n's" events (increasingly colonised by males) and "natal female" events, most of the strong female athletes would surely opt into the latter?

Are any organisations working towards this?

It's basically the same as the third space idea, but we'd be having to be the ones moving to a third space (wrong, but maybe better than the alternative...)...?

Is this crazy talk?

OP posts:
Thread gallery
6
Impatiens · 21/10/2020 17:16

Anyway in answer to the OP - yes, it's crazy talk and would never work.

Impatiens · 21/10/2020 16:48

I'll have a look at Spinster, ta Grinitch. Currently on my second suspension from twitter for so-called 'hate speech' and it's clear they're on a purge - i'm losing patience for tip-toeing around this issue, constantly self-censoring, just to stay online.

GrinitchSpinach · 21/10/2020 15:43

@Impatiens

Is there anywhere left online where Women can go to discuss their concerns, in factual words, without being censored?
Spinster is a great place. I haven't gotten on Ovarit yet but that's the spot where the former mods of r/GenderCritical and some of that community have re-congregated.

Nevertheless it's valuable to stay on Mumsnet, too, alongside those spaces.

ErrolTheDragon · 21/10/2020 15:39

I believe the MN rules require two words?

No, they don't. 'Transwoman' is explicitly permitted.

^ Can I use the expression ‘trans woman’ or ‘transwoman’?
Yes.^

www.mumsnet.com/info/trans-rights-moderation-policy

unwashedanddazed · 21/10/2020 15:38

Can we change thread title to 'the strategy of relinquishing the words "woman" and "they"?'

Impatiens · 21/10/2020 15:26

Is there anywhere left online where Women can go to discuss their concerns, in factual words, without being censored?

CaraDuneRedux · 21/10/2020 15:18

Stroke City Grin Brilliant.

DerryWitch · 21/10/2020 15:16

@CaraDuneRedux

I believe the MN rules require two words?

I don't think they do (nor should they) because of the distinction between compound noun (seahorse) and noun-adjective pairing (brown horse).

Funnily enough, the example that springs to mind on seeing your username is one a lovely Irish boyfriend of mine came up with at the height of the Troubles: "There is no neutral language - as soon as you've referred to a particular city as Derry or Londonderry, you've picked a side."

Fraid that is so! Impossible to be neutral though there was a popular radio presenter on Radio Foyle (that’s the river there y’know) who abbreviated “Derry-stroke-Londonderry” to “Stroke City” 😊
Kettlingur · 21/10/2020 15:05

@ItsAllGoingToBeFine

Comments along the lines of 'they're doing this' - make it look like a whole group of people are being represented as doing something undesirable

I'm confused. If there is a whole group of people doing something undesirable we are not allowed to use the pronoun they to refer to that group? Confused

Apparently we are not allowed to make generalisations nor are we allowed to talk about individuals. Confused
DaisiesandButtercups · 21/10/2020 15:01

What you say about no neutral language during the height of the Troubles, Cara, is really interesting and very pertinent I think.

CaraDuneRedux · 21/10/2020 14:55

I believe the MN rules require two words?

I don't think they do (nor should they) because of the distinction between compound noun (seahorse) and noun-adjective pairing (brown horse).

Funnily enough, the example that springs to mind on seeing your username is one a lovely Irish boyfriend of mine came up with at the height of the Troubles: "There is no neutral language - as soon as you've referred to a particular city as Derry or Londonderry, you've picked a side."

FairFridaythe13th · 21/10/2020 14:53

Well I've just read a whole article on a pack that has been made for sale (charity) for women and girls to keep their tampons etc - its all around the stigma of periods and how in some parts of the world women and grs are treated terribly as a result.

But being The Indy, the only references to the words 'wome/an 'and 'girl/s' werei n direct quotes by women involved.

DerryWitch · 21/10/2020 14:36

We are already on the edge of losing "woman" - some would say it is lost, since we talk about "trans women" (I believe the MN rules require two words?). One of Fair Play For Women's areas of focus this year has been complaining to the media any time they report "female" incorrectly. They've had a few wins but the IPSO guidelines are a problem here, as is the Equal Treatment Bench Book which tells judges etc to use the pronouns the defendant wants, and then that is usually what is reported in the media. So people could genuinely believe women are suddenly being convicted of porn offences or child abuse or whatever. We have to keep pushing and supporting this work or we will never make progress. It was brilliant to see a surge in support for Fair Play For Women yesterday after the Woman's Hour debacle.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 21/10/2020 14:32

I will be sure to report any sweeping negative generalisations about gender critical feminists in future. I doubt I'll have to wait long.

GratedExposure · 21/10/2020 14:13

So we're not allowed to use 'they' when the correct word is 'they' but we are required to use 'they' when the correct word is 'he' or 'she'?

My ironometer just broke.

Grin
OP posts:
Floisme · 21/10/2020 13:48

How curious that such intensive reporting should happen on a day when this forum was being discussed on the BBC, thereby leading, I imagine, to a lot of new visitors. I have some further thoughts about this but I think I will keep them to myself for the time being.

ErrolTheDragon · 21/10/2020 13:10

(I mean we could draw the conclusion that the mods view the appropriation of language as being an Undesirable Thing. But presumably whoever reported such posts didn't.Confused)

ErrolTheDragon · 21/10/2020 13:08

@EdgeOfACoin

Is it okay to use the term TRA? (Trans' Rights Activist.)

I use it to refer to anyone (trans or not) who is pushing this ideology at a cost to women. I do not classify all trans people as TRAs. My use of 'they' is a reference to TRAs.

I checked the guidelines - there is no explicit prohibition on that. The guideline re generalisation is perhaps worth pondering.

Sweeping negative generalisations about any group, including trans people and gender-critical feminists, won’t be tolerated.

Not 'generalisation', the prohibition is 'sweeping negative generalisation'

Did the deleted posts actually contain that sort of generalisation? In this discussion of language, we may well see the appropriation of 'woman' and 'female' as negative - but the people who are doing it don't. So what exactly is the complaint?

ErrolTheDragon · 21/10/2020 13:01

Linguistic shifts, especially when driven by people with an agenda, will result in a change in the demographic using them. Time was when 'trans women are women' would not have had wide acceptance, let alone become a dogma. It's almost although not ubiquitous for trans people (and virtually all trans activists) to claim that as a truth. Can we use 'they' in this case?
Whereas the next stage of incursion is at an earlier stage but it's growing. The 'they' who claim that transwomen are females, or even biological females, is maybe small now, but growing.

'We' is a generalisation too - on this board at least, I'd hope it wouldn't ever be considered deleteable to say 'we say no. Woman means adult human female. Female is defined by science in terms of reproductive role in sexed species.'

EdgeOfACoin · 21/10/2020 12:57

Is it okay to use the term TRA? (Trans' Rights Activist.)

I use it to refer to anyone (trans or not) who is pushing this ideology at a cost to women. I do not classify all trans people as TRAs. My use of 'they' is a reference to TRAs.

Floisme · 21/10/2020 12:56

Thank you for the clarification Michael. If I am reading you correctly, and posts are actually being reported to MNHQ for using the word 'they' instead of 'some', then I think my brain has just blown a fuse.

CaraDuneRedux · 21/10/2020 12:51

Errol: refinement - "some X AND not all X". Wink

ErrolTheDragon · 21/10/2020 12:49

{ begin context
Define they = [some trans people]||[some postmodernist queer theory types] ||[some MRAs in disguise]
}

Something like that, anyway.

SaucyHorse · 21/10/2020 12:45

OK, thanks for explaining. So what I wanted to say was the term 'natal woman' is not safe from appropriation anyway, under the premises that some people work from.

Some people believe that the defining feature of a woman is a feminine gender essence, rather than physical sex. Some people also argue that gender essence is innate in all humans. Following these two premises, some people already think that your biological sex has nothing to do with whether you are a 'natal woman' or not.

ItsAllGoingToBeFine · 21/10/2020 12:44

If there were an entire demographic who could be shown to be doing an Undesirable Thing then a generalisation would probably be fine - but we think it's very unlikely to apply to all trans people.

The demographic is as posted by Errol above. I didn't mention or imply trans people in my original post, and I'm sure others who were deleted didn't either.