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*TW* Pedophile found guilty of raping 5 year old given a SUSPENDED SENTENCE

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SebastianTheCrab · 15/10/2020 16:57

How? How??

If anyone knows how I can donate to the mum's bid to challenge his sentence in the High Court please tell me.

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8843789/Mother-devastated-paedophile-walked-free-court-raping-five-year-old-daughter.html

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Etinox · 17/10/2020 00:14

@SorryAuntLydia I explicitly said in my post
I am not saying thats ok or not deserving of punishment
Your anger is misdirected.

Etinox · 17/10/2020 00:12

Thanks @Handsoffisback.
It has to be the only explanation- that and his mental capacity and/ or it being a very historic offence ie he was under 10, but that sounds unlikely from the mother’s comments.
If not, that judge needs stringing up sacking.

SorryAuntLydia · 17/10/2020 00:08

@Handsoffisback

Lydia for goodness sake 🙄 equinox is providing you with a summary of the law. She is not giving her opinion, she is providing fact on the differences in law.
OK so same question to you then: which orifice on a five year old child do you think it’s ok to put a penis into? so that it would be a form of mitigation?
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Etinox · 16/10/2020 23:59

@SorryAuntLydia I’m mortified.
This sentence is horrific and like others I’m struggling to understand why it was so low. The fact that rape as a crime covers more than piv sex might be why the sentence is lower and would explain why. I don’t understand why he wasn’t given a custodial sentence even if it was a situation like I described. I would have thought an explanation where the situation was less horrific than we’d assume when hearing the word rape would be the ‘best’ scenario.

LomasLongstrider · 16/10/2020 23:53

I hope this doesn't set a precedent for the going rate, to rape a child in the UK to be £2,700 and a slap on the wrist. I feel ill.

SorryAuntLydia · 16/10/2020 23:45

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Etinox · 16/10/2020 20:46

@ErrolTheDragon

Are there any other reports which give any idea why this ludicrous sentence was applied to such an awful crime?
I don’t know, but I suspect and hope that this is a case where rape is the charge and the offence is what a layman would describe differently. Look away if you’re squeamish (although I’m not about to describe anything worse than anyone would imagine) Rape is putting a penis in an orifice without the victims consent, that’s why women can’t be prosecuted for rape. A man could technically be prosecuted for rape if he’d dick slapped a woman in her open mouth. I am not saying thats ok or not deserving of punishment but it’s not the same as penetrative sex. A 14 year old was prosecuted for rape when a 13 year old gave him a blow job. Teachers overheard other kids chatting about it and had to report. It got all the way to crown court. Again I am not saying that’s ok but it’s not what most of us would imagine to be rape.
Lockheart · 16/10/2020 20:37

[quote sakura06]Absolutely horrifying! Just saw an article on Twitter. As mentioned up thread, please write to the Attorney General www.gov.uk/ask-crown-court-sentence-review[/quote]
It's already being reviewed (see link in my post above yours).

sakura06 · 16/10/2020 20:28

Absolutely horrifying! Just saw an article on Twitter. As mentioned up thread, please write to the Attorney General www.gov.uk/ask-crown-court-sentence-review

Lockheart · 16/10/2020 18:34

SB has finally commented - although they have no more information either.

twitter.com/BarristerSecret/status/1317151888132001793?s=19

20mum · 16/10/2020 16:07

P.S. I wish physically injured people could have the word Rehabilitation left for them. Reform Centre is to reform junkies or offenders. The word rehabilitation is needed for a place where physiotherapists and others help people who are certainly not junkies or offenders.

Women have been at risk of having the word Woman taken from them. Disabled people have little enough. It's wrong to take away even the little they have.
That, word stealing, was my only quarrel with the man who wants to close all prisons. (I think he has a book on it, which would be interesting to read, but I don't know how to search Radio 4 and find the reference)

Lockheart · 16/10/2020 16:04

@Handsoffisback

lockheart I haven’t read it in a newspaper, but it wasn’t a historic offence.
Can I ask how you know that? I cannot find anything which confirms this.
20mum · 16/10/2020 15:58

Well, exactly this is what was to be expected, he is driven from a place where some probation officer or social worker or mental health worker knows who he is and where he is. Either he will go off radar, which is good because......?

Or, he will use costly and scarce public resources, not to change his interest in offending, but merely to save him from the mob. He will be given, presumably, a scarce council flat in some different part of the country, as well as help to disguise himself (masks will help) and a new name. That, he is entitled to, because lynch mobs are the wrong way to sort the problem.
And having him live under disguise and a new identity while free to roam the new community is good, because..........?

Or, having him put in prison, then sent out to roam, totally unchanged in his inclinations, is a good thing, because.........?

Having him in a Reform centre would make a lot of sense. There should be some for substance abusers, some for alcoholics, some for people too mentally or emotionally variant to avoid offending. The latter group would include this man and other violent offenders, the prime clients for Hormone Re-balance, combined with whatever therapy and treatment is proved to work best in other countries, which have bothered to try logical methods.

@Thelnebriati thank you, your post is a good summation.
The only thing is, stopping predators wishing even to seek prey makes a lot of sense. Occasionally caging them doesn't. Not if they are then let out with even more determination to offend, and certainly with many new ideas and knowledge, from fellow offenders, on how to do it more effectively, and with less chance of being caught.
There's no safeguarding, the moment the cage opens. There's no prevention. Justice is a thing rarely achieved in any field of law, or life, though of course it would be nice. Rehabilitation, which you understandably put last, is the only useful thing to aim for.

I agree that, under the present system, putting offenders in cages is the only way to stop them having access to victims among the general public. But it won't stop them attacking others in prison. (Notably, those rapists who, in full possession of penis, demand to go into a women's prison !) Plus, caging people with others who are more experienced, hardened, and can pass on helpful tips to fellow offenders, must be counterproductive.

Thelnebriati · 16/10/2020 14:01

20mum I dont think its a case of either/or.

Safeguarding & prevention, justice, and rehabilitation are all possible but in that order. Rehabilitate by all means but offenders shouldn''t have the right to access victims.
Victims should have the right to reparation and justice.

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Puzzledandpissedoff · 16/10/2020 13:23

he has been hounded out of his home now apparently

Unfortunately that was to be expected; I'm not suggesting it's right, but there's simply no way many would tolerate the risk of this individual continuing to live among them

A lesson, perhaps, in the importance of justice being seen to be done

20mum · 16/10/2020 13:11

@Mischance you raise an excellent example. The man you employed is a good carpenter, so he is better doing something useful in the world, not sitting in prison.
He is also on the sex offender's register. If absolutely nothing at all has been done to reduce the risk he poses to the public, then he should never leave prison for the rest of his life.
So, life sentences for all? Or, long sentences on the rare occasions they are caught, making them unemployable, idle, disconnected from society, aggrieved, and with nothing to do but plan the next offence?
Treatment and support to remove the urge to offend is not new, and has been practiced in other countries with success.
What do we, women, want most? Effective, measurable, brain activity and hormone monitoring, and treatment, and re-inclusion within the community, with reduction in offences? Or Victorian men's ideas, with a guarantee of more offences against us and our children?

SoftlySoftly123 · 16/10/2020 13:09

@Billben you know what I really appreciate about that article? It ends by talking about the little girl and how brave she is and how she wants to donate the money from the sentence to the poor. Somehow it feels very powerful to centre her as a person.

GloGirl · 16/10/2020 13:06

I dont understand why even if prison is not deemed appropriate why is he only on the sex offender's register for 5 years??

Why aren't people being better safeguarded? He needs safeguarding and being kept permanently away from children if he has significant additonal needs. And all children should be kept far away from him forever.

Why set it up so that he can reoffend?

Mischance · 16/10/2020 12:55

The Worcester element is interesting.

I employed a carpenter on the recommendation of a friend, who uses him a lot. He did a good job.

I later discovered that he is on the sex offenders' register on the instruction of Worcester Crown Court. He got a community order and 5 years on the register - looking at the court reports I was staggered at the leniency.

20mum · 16/10/2020 12:52

@Kantastic thank you for responding. but the question of the best way to prevent offences is very much directly related to this thread. Mob screaming for violence won't end violence.

The majority of the responders, rightly, call for massive protest about inadequate methods of dealing with violence including sexually motivated assault.
But, when it is perfectly obvious that the current way is useless, that it always was, and always will be, then calling for more of exactly the same seems to be an own goal, a missed opportunity. The thoughtful voice of women is excluded from legislation. Uncritically demanding lots more of the wrong thing is the wrong thing.
The cost of putting men or women into prison is huge. Other methods which are effective in preventing re-offending are cheaper.

I do N.O.T suggest the way to deal with violent offenders is to tell them they are naughty, and let them walk the streets.

Chemical castration is a term which distresses (male) legislators. Therefore, Hormone Re-balancing would be better use of the same or less taxpayer resources. It would almost certainly need to be combined with supportive, careful supervision, including frequent medical checks for hormone levels and, importantly, for Brain Activity Monitoring. An interesting mention in the radio 4 programme I referred to was that probation officers and prison officials could identify which prisoners would be back, with about 25% (?) accuracy. A team of researchers monitoring brain activity had about 89% (?) correct prediction.

This is yet another example of pretending Queen Victoria still lives. There are new, improved, unrecognisable ways to do things. No quill pens are needed any more. Hanging flogging and locking up never did much good. Even in Q.E's day, they had different places for debtors, mentally ill, frail, poor and hopeless people, but now, most alternatives are closed down, and we, society, just sit back to wait for repeat offenders to finally get put in prison, then let out to do exactly the same.

Billben · 16/10/2020 12:33

I haven't seen his address published in any of the reports (I'm not counting social media posts here, where it has been)

Our local paper, the Kidderminster Shuttle named the street he lives on. Well, lived ‘cos he has been hounded out of his home now apparently.

www.kidderminstershuttle.co.uk/news/18796612.mums-fury-kidderminster-child-rapist-gets-community-service-not-jail/?fbclid=IwAR3UFpJ9gmPPn2_xeReCDLCSiK6Hdqoxtm7PeN9V82hz3S7yVL-JHfz-Rdw

LemmysAceCard · 16/10/2020 12:12

Email sent, so disgusted for this poor child.