No one is just a bigot. Everyone has their own moral justification for being racist, sexist, homophobic. It doesn't mean it's okay or not damaging or that having a valid reason somehow negates the bigotry.
I for one am not arguing that all single sex spaces should be automatically forced to include anyone that says they have a right to be there.
What I find extreme and bigoted on MN is the fundamental position that this should always be the case. There is no room for the sensitive consideration of trans women because they are at the first instance dismissed as not women and therefore excluded from any woman centric idea or resource.
Please don't misunderstand this as an emotive plea. I'm simply stating my perspective, as people are asking what is considered transphobic or why their views are considered bigoted. For me the fundamental exclusion of trans women from all female discussion is the bigoted part. It's not that female concerns don't matter, it's that they are being used as a green light to be dismissive and disrespectful to a group of people without taking into account individuality or nuance.
I'm not saying it's an easy discussion either. I just thing there needs to be a more balanced view. Just saying with no evidence that trans women pose a threat to women in vulnerable situations for example, is not a good faith argument.
I've stated a few times for example that statistically it is well know across several countries analysis that the vast majority of violence toward females is committed by males known to the victim, often partners. When bringing that up, I was told that I can't know that is true. In the context of the discussion I can only assume that the poster was trying to say that I can't assume that this violence wasn't commuted by random trans women and not the prevalently held belief that it is in fact committed by familiar males??
I don't see how that bad take can be considered anything other than transphobic. Making sweeping assertions that all research and data pointing to a pretty logical conclusion is wrong and it must be that your fringe view is actually right smacks of ignorance and prejudice to me. Yet this all goes unseen and unchecked by all other posters. I do consider this cherry picking of information and given the lack of any but anecdotal evidence that trans women are actually violent predators is just bananas to me.
I understand those saying it would be difficult to collect data from researching directly reporting on "violence from trans women to women in vulnerable settings", but that is a lazy argument. You could look into research for example, estimates of the proportion of transgender people in the general population and further information on breakdown proportions of trans men and women. You could then look at statistics on crime, in the perspective of both perpetrator and victim, and see if there are any trends which shows that trans women are violent in general. Etc.
I'm just so interested to hear the evidence behind why it is the correct conclusion to draw that trans women pose an inherent risk to other women. The same way I'm so interested to hear race realists explain scientifically why black people just commit more crime because they're naturally more violent...