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Nude Family swim at Stoke Waterworld

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VortexofBloggery · 24/09/2020 12:03

Flagged up by Sammy Woodhouse on Twitter.
mobile.twitter.com/sammywoodhouse1/status/1308822025797013509

Supported by who else but NSPCC.

Adults can buy a single ticket.

To Shut it down, Change petition here:
www.change.org/p/water-world-stop-nude-family-swim-session-for-adults-and-children-of-all-ages-at-water-world?utm_content=cl_sharecopy_24863394_en-GB%3A2&recruiter=1151217419&utm_source=share_petition&utm_medium=copylink&utm_campaign=tap_basic_share

Attended by convicted paedophile
www.lancashiretelegraph.co.uk/news/4047602.convicted-brierfield-paedophile-member-naturist-club/

Unbelievable.

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RandomUser3049 · 24/09/2020 22:08

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MandosHatHair · 24/09/2020 22:02

Goosefoot

You can see a diverse range of bodies at any normal swimming pool or beach, it's very rare to see anyone 'media worthy'. Why do they need thier clothes off to encourage body positivity?

FireUnderTheHand · 24/09/2020 21:56

If you are an adult and want to swim naked for whatever reason do it with other adults or alone or whatever but keep it away from kids.

Don't bring kids into it and claim 'we're a naturist family' because your kids CAN'T consent to being a naturist. You don't live in the Amazon rainforest, this isn't normal in western modern society as the dangers are innumerable and safeguarding must be in play for the safety of children.

Topless swims fine (not for me but breasts shouldn't have to be covered IMO), genitals should always be covered in the eyeshot of children.

Goosefoot · 24/09/2020 21:44

@MandosHatHair

I have no idea what his intentions were anymore than you.

He had been convicted of child sex offences, why would you assume that his intentions were anything other than dodgy.

Yes I suppose my son's teacher or dance teacher etc could be a pervert, but as I said before it's about risk vs benefit, I could keep them locked away, but they wouldn't get a good education or learn any skills or get any exercise. Apart from you not having to pull your bikini straps up every so often, you haven't really explained what benefits your children receive from swimming nude that they would not get from swimming in swim suits.

Naturists typically think that it's good to have a kind of body positivity that isn't built around sex, and to see all kinds of bodies at different stages of life. Rather than having to compare themselves to just young, slim, airbrushed bodies in sexual poses.
MandosHatHair · 24/09/2020 21:36

I have no idea what his intentions were anymore than you.

He had been convicted of child sex offences, why would you assume that his intentions were anything other than dodgy.

Yes I suppose my son's teacher or dance teacher etc could be a pervert, but as I said before it's about risk vs benefit, I could keep them locked away, but they wouldn't get a good education or learn any skills or get any exercise. Apart from you not having to pull your bikini straps up every so often, you haven't really explained what benefits your children receive from swimming nude that they would not get from swimming in swim suits.

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onelostsoulswimminginafishbowl · 24/09/2020 20:23

Handsoff... I suggest that you never travel to other countries then. Or is this a case of your 'culture' being superior to others? Those pesky Europeans and Scandinavians that see nudity as something quite normal 🙄

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SterFran00 · 24/09/2020 19:49

@RomanyBlood

I have no issues with nudity or naturism. We were not a ‘naturist’ family growing up but all used to strip off on a vast isolated stretch of beach in Norfolk because everyone just did. Ditto on beaches in Greece habituated by Germans.

It really is lovely going into the sea and swimming naked.

What I do have an issue with is lone adult tickets for a naturist ‘family’ swim. Have an adult swim , fine, let anyone in. But not lone adults in a Family Swim.

I understand your point, however, the journalists used the phrase ‘family swim’, when in reality it is family friendly, as in all ages - to distinguish between some events which are adult only.

It serves the media’s purpose to portray it in such a way to evoke a response (which I guess worked!!).

Lots of people meet their friends there, particularly the young adult naturists, so they would be buying single tickets and meeting up at the event.

Hence why it’s also a fallacy to assume that someone arriving ‘alone’ is a single person and ‘staying single’ for the evening. Most naturists know at least one or two other naturists at events, and often a lot more.

littlbrowndog · 24/09/2020 19:40

Omg if I was a young tween. Having to go swimming party naked with other families. Ffs. I would rather push a pin in my eye

The though5 of being naked in front of my brothers. Or my dad

Or strangers

RomanyBlood · 24/09/2020 19:26

I have no issues with nudity or naturism. We were not a ‘naturist’ family growing up but all used to strip off on a vast isolated stretch of beach in Norfolk because everyone just did. Ditto on beaches in Greece habituated by Germans.

It really is lovely going into the sea and swimming naked.

What I do have an issue with is lone adult tickets for a naturist ‘family’ swim. Have an adult swim , fine, let anyone in. But not lone adults in a Family Swim.

Balhammom · 24/09/2020 19:24

@Handsoffisback

Why would I care what someone saw?

Any sensible person would care passionately about protecting a child from actual harm. However, lots of people will see them in the street everyday. As long as there is no harm to the child, what’s the difference?

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Balhammom · 24/09/2020 19:16

The hysteria here is just bizarre.

Any children will presumably be supervised so are at no risk of harm. Simple.

If you don’t like it, don’t go. No need to spoil other’s fun.

SterFran00 · 24/09/2020 19:13

@ItsAllGoingToBeFine

Naturist children and (people) experience a naturist environment ie non sexual nudity

Nudity however is often sexual in nature. How do you distinguish?

Nudity can be sexual in nature of course - whether it’s ‘often’ would depend on the person I imagine. So, sexual nudity would more likely be in specific circumstances and places: private ones eg bedrooms..? Where behaviour/dialogue would be the main indicators...?
SterFran00 · 24/09/2020 19:09

@MandosHatHair

So do you believe that Robert Enright was taking part in nudist events to enjoy simple nudity? If they let a convicted paedophile slip through the net so easily, how can you feel your children are safe?
I have no idea what his intentions were anymore than you. From reading the report the police informed British Naturism when they found his card, and he would have been expelled as a member at that point.. This was 2008 I believe, and I imagine like any organisation lessons will have been learnt and processes looked at and tightened where necessary. Unfortunately, there’s no 100% foolproof method, same as anywhere. Of course someone could ‘skip through’ as they do with clubs that children attend and other things... It’s a bit of a circular argument though - how do I know a teacher at my children’s school isn’t an as yet unconvicted paedophile...? As parents we put our trust in others when our children aren’t with us. I’m with my children at events, and my direct experience informs me constantly and as any parent, I make informed judgements and decisions accordingly...
MandosHatHair · 24/09/2020 18:42

So do you believe that Robert Enright was taking part in nudist events to enjoy simple nudity? If they let a convicted paedophile slip through the net so easily, how can you feel your children are safe?

ItsAllGoingToBeFine · 24/09/2020 18:41

Naturist children and (people) experience a naturist environment ie non sexual nudity

Nudity however is often sexual in nature. How do you distinguish?

Goosefoot · 24/09/2020 18:40

I don't really get the upset about seeing people's genitals "without consent". It implies a sexualisation of all the body in all circumstances, and I think that's terribly negative.

Genitals are simply not inherently always sexual. Public bathing is normal in many places as noted. In many places family nudity is much more common. In other cultures no one wears any clothing at all. They don't go around asking for "consent" any more than I ask for consent for showing my knees when I go out in shorts. If I took my child to visit the Amazon jungle, would it be a problem that my child hasn't consented to a trip that means they might see a penis or breasts?

The main point of naturism as I understand it is to see the body as not only sexual but also simply a just a body. Old, young, thin, fat, etc. It seems to work fairly effectively at it for those who are into naturism though I think in some ways it's impractical and will never catch on widely. Though I would be all for public baths to catch on in our culture.

It makes sense to me that given the out of proportion sexualisation of nudity in our culture - the mirror of societies where women are forced to cover everything and stay away from men - naturist groups would need to be careful about attracting perverts, and as I understand it most are aware of this problem. This kind of event does seem like something that might require some thought for that reason.

As far as children being "involved" in a pervert masturbating - I don't think that's how it works. A thousand women might masturbate thinking about Brad Pitt, but he's really not involved at all.

SterFran00 · 24/09/2020 18:28

@Handsoffisback

You teach your kids about privacy and consent and then force them to parade naked in public? Yes, makes perfect sense. Their boundaries won’t be blurred at all as they get older....Hmm
I think I may have already said, there’s no forcing involved! And definitely no parading (I’m not even sure I know what that looks like in your head!!!). Oh, and it’s not public either - just within the naturist community...
SterFran00 · 24/09/2020 18:22

@happydappy2

Sterfran what do naturist families do when the children hit puberty & become embarrassed about nudity? Do they encourage the child to make their own decisions or expect them to embrace nudity?
Hmmmm, your question implies that it’s a given that all children hitting puberty will become embarrassed about nudity. And of course that can be the case. I have a teen and a tween and so far they are still happy with our naturist lifestyle. Our children make all sorts of decisions within their lives and the same goes for naturism. If it was something they became in uncomfortable about, we would of course address it and adapt accordingly.
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