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What is happening to this Amish girl after she was raped by her brothers?

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EarthSight · 22/09/2020 12:17

They've been given a 10 year suspended sentence, 100 hours of community service, and a $250. Disgusting.

Where is the girl now (who is pregnant with one of their children)? How does she feel that her brothers have been let go and not even jailed for what they did to her? Is she still living in the Amish community? My heart goes out to her.

metro.co.uk/2020/09/21/incest-amish-brothers-who-gang-raped-sister-12-spared-jail-over-fears-inmates-would-hurt-them-13305125/?ito=amp-trending-3

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HelloToMyKitty · 22/09/2020 14:52

Also adding that the Amish community values forgiveness very strongly over punishment. Community leaders would be pressuring this girl to forgive her brothers and then report that she’s forgiven them to the authorities and then tidily sweep everything under the rug.

HelloToMyKitty · 22/09/2020 14:45

Surely to god she'd be taken into care? She can't still be there, with the family, can she? Poor, poor child

I don’t know anything about the US foster system or when the state takes the child away.

But taking an Amish child into care would probably present difficulties due to cultural differences. They would not be cooperating with authorities and instead continue to make empty promises to handle the matter through their local leadership.

She may not speak English well, and may not be familiar with ‘English’ customs and lifestyles. By now, she would be out of school as they usually leave around 13.

Honestly I’d fear for her living as an unwed mother in that community. But the reality is she’d also have great difficulty living outside her community as well. Hopefully she could have a real choice about her own future.

AsTreesWalking · 22/09/2020 14:11

Her parents should be charged as well.

CaraDuneRedux · 22/09/2020 13:32

@ArabellaScott

Surely to god she'd be taken into care? She can't still be there, with the family, can she? Poor, poor child.
I very much hope so - but then again, from what I gather (American posters please correct me if I'm wrong), the American care system is a mess, with being a foster carer often seen as an easy way to make an income if you have no other options, and very little background checks on would-be foster carers, which means that being taken into care is often a case of "Out of the frying pan, into the fire."

Though in this case, it would be very hard to envisage a situation which could be worse for this girl than being left with her birth family.

Suffrajester · 22/09/2020 13:18

Is IICSA, the child abuse inquiry, looking into the Amish organisation too? They collected a lot of good work on sexual abuse and rape within the Catholic church and Jehovah's Witnesses and various religious orgs.

OvaHere · 22/09/2020 12:58

This is horrific. I'm also surprised it actually became public knowledge, I imagine there are many similar situations that haven't.

Shocking that they were spared jail. As always I expect the young girl and her child will suffer most within the community for this.

Heffalooomia · 22/09/2020 12:50

Horrifying all the shame is pushed onto the woman and the men are protected
Just horrifying the Amish community cover it all up to try and protect their reputation
it is the Amish community who deserves shame and vilification

ArabellaScott · 22/09/2020 12:47

Surely to god she'd be taken into care? She can't still be there, with the family, can she? Poor, poor child.

startrek90 · 22/09/2020 12:42

I fear that it is the girl and her child who will be shunned..... Poor thing.

CaraDuneRedux · 22/09/2020 12:40

Given how this community deals with transgressors by shunning, I don’t think for a minute their lives are going to be a bed of roses. At least, I sincerely hope not

From what I've seen of patriarchal religions in action, I fear the only one who will be shunned is the 13 year old victim. Sad Angry

Also, what the fuck was that judge smoking? A non-custodial sentence because the poor little defenceless darlings might have a rough time in prison? They raped their sister, who was only a child, for fuck's sake.

BitterAndOnlySlightlyTwisted · 22/09/2020 12:28

The child has given birth to her baby now. Not only was she raped by the two brothers charged with this offence there were two other brothers who were not charged due to their age.

Given how this community deals with transgressors by shunning, I don’t think for a minute their lives are going to be a bed of roses. At least, I sincerely hope not

HelloToMyKitty · 22/09/2020 12:27

Prosecutor was wrong to let the community handle this. This is why violence against women is so common in closed communities like the Amish.

Native American communities have similar problems because of tribal autonomy.

Always feel sorry for the women and girls trapped in this system.

HelloToMyKitty · 22/09/2020 12:23

I’m surprised this even got out to the wider community, very often they do not involve ‘the English’ in their affairs. From the article it was a doctor that reported it, so the family was probably against cooperating with the authorities.

Domestic violence is widespread in the Amish community and it wouldn’t surprise me to learn that sexual abuse is too.

Alexandernevermind · 22/09/2020 12:22

That poor, poor girl. What a revolting, woman oppressing group of people these Amish are.