Please or to access all these features

Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

It's an AIBU but it belongs here - Stonewall

136 replies

Doyoumind · 08/09/2020 18:18

I know some will say this doesn't belong on this board but I believe it is a response to certain GC groups.

Stonewall is trending with #IfirstknewIwaslgbtq, saying that people don't believe it is possible at age 12. The cynic in me says they are going at this angle in response to those who say children can't know they are trans. Of course I believe people can know they are gay by 12. I can even accept people know they are trans by 12. Being gay at 12 may have a huge impact on you socially but being trans at 12 and starting on a medical pathway is something entirely different and it is dishonest to conflate the two.

OP posts:
Thread gallery
13
FindTheTruth · 09/09/2020 10:44

*So this group, posting out binders to children, was in breach?

'MORF*

@ArabellaScott
Yes if they held data without parental consent. Looking at the MORF site just now it says You CANNOT order a binder if you are under 18

ArabellaScott · 09/09/2020 10:33

Okay, thanks.

So this group, posting out binders to children, was in breach?

'MORF is based at the Manchester headquarters of the LGBT Foundation which has received close to £1.2 million from the Department of Health and a £500,000 grant from The Big Lottery Fund.'

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-6450485/Trans-activists-send-free-breast-binders-13-year-olds.html

FindTheTruth · 09/09/2020 10:30

[quote ArabellaScott]As far as I can tell, you can't hold or process a child's data without parental consent?

gdpr-info.eu/art-8-gdpr/[/quote]
Yes. for a child under 16 they can't do it without parental responsibility consent

LizzieSiddal · 09/09/2020 10:29

Where the child is below the age of 16 years, such processing shall be lawful only if and to the extent that consent is given or authorised by the holder of parental responsibility over the child.

Thank you FindTheTruth. We need to point this out to Stonewall then. Makes me so angry- here we are, trying to make massive organisations, keep to the Law of the land!

FindTheTruth · 09/09/2020 10:24

According to The information commissioners office (ICO), in their Guide to the General Data Protection Regulation (GDPR) and Children:

Where the child is below the age of 16 years, such processing shall be lawful only if and to the extent that consent is given or authorised by the holder of parental responsibility over the child.

ico.org.uk/for-organisations/guide-to-data-protection/guide-to-the-general-data-protection-regulation-gdpr/children-and-the-gdpr/

ArabellaScott · 09/09/2020 10:13

Sorry, to clarify, by 'bad enough' I mean 'difficult enough to do correctly'. When they brought in the GDPR everyone panicked about keeping names and phone numbers of adult customers.

ArabellaScott · 09/09/2020 10:11

This stuff is bad enough for adults, let alone children, let alone sensitive personal information of children.

I know relatively nothign about the subject but I can see that it needs to be handled carefully. I would expect a youth group or youth worker to have at least a cursory understanding of the issues involved.

PastMyBestBeforeDate · 09/09/2020 10:11

Do you think it's just about Allison or is the Stonewall tweet partly about discrediting the court action going on?

ArabellaScott · 09/09/2020 10:09

As far as I can tell, you can't hold or process a child's data without parental consent?

gdpr-info.eu/art-8-gdpr/

ArabellaScott · 09/09/2020 10:08

How will this personal, sensitive information be stored? Secured? Will it be shared? The GDPR is relevant, surely?

ArabellaScott · 09/09/2020 10:07

I don't know anything about law, but I expect it's a data protection minefield, too: www.familylawweek.co.uk/site.aspx?i=ed1436

needaMNnamegenerator · 09/09/2020 10:06

They're not registered as a charity, so the Charity Commission is out.

It looks like they're not registered as anything, although they claim to be in the process of applying fro a CIC. (They've been claiming this since at least June - how long does it take?).

They had a company with the same name but it was dissolved.

twitter.com/millar_marion/status/1303415076569964544

LizzieSiddal · 09/09/2020 09:59

We need to start letting the charity commission know, every single time these groups break safeguarding rules.

needaMNnamegenerator · 09/09/2020 09:56

Maybe we should report this survey to the NSPCC. Oh, wait... Angry

Seriously, though, is there anyone we could report this to?

needaMNnamegenerator · 09/09/2020 09:55

That form could have been taken straight from an exercise highlighting what sort of information you shouldn't give out to strangers online. Imagine though if an LGBT child stumbles across it from a retweet on Stonewall/Mermaids - that's enough of an endorsement in their eyes to no doubt consider it legit.

Why can't those lobby groups do some fucking safeguarding training - everyone else working anywhere near children does. Honestly it's like they think they're somehow exempt or above it.

This.

FindTheTruth · 09/09/2020 09:34

[quote ArabellaScott]This?

www.gov.uk/government/publications/supervision-of-activity-with-children[/quote]
interesting link though it's for Schools, colleges and children's services. ... started reading 'The National action plan to tackle child abuse linked to faith or belief'

Whatwouldscullydo · 09/09/2020 09:18

I bet Owen Jones doesn't realise he is effectively endorsing an organisation which invited 12 year olds, along with adults, to privately DM them in return for payment and then told people who had concerns about this to 'suck your mum'

They know now. They know more than enough.

We really need to stop giving these people the benefit of the doubt all the time. In fact the more we try and warn them the more they double down and associate with even more of thse groups just to prove a point

Clymene · 09/09/2020 09:15

@ArabellaScott

Owen Jones has rted. Good. The more people that hear about this the better- I haven't reported it because I don't actually know to whom that would go. There's not much info on the group, don't know if they're a registered charity or anything?
They're applying to the charity commission according to their crowdfunded but not sure if they've got registration yet. One would hope the CC would take rather a dim view of an organisation asking children to contact them privately
ArabellaScott · 09/09/2020 08:59

Owen Jones has rted. Good. The more people that hear about this the better- I haven't reported it because I don't actually know to whom that would go. There's not much info on the group, don't know if they're a registered charity or anything?

FindTheTruth · 09/09/2020 08:48

This is a pretty straightforward safeguarding issue
and
I'm wondering if this is something the could be reported to CEOP (Child Exploitation and Online Protection command)?

I'm curious what the law is and what can be done.

Out of interest...

  • 1) has anyone here reported this to anyone?
  • 3) does anyone know if this is illegal?
  • 4) if it's not illegal, then this feels like a campaign / petition that needs to happen. . . or is there a petition already?
  • 5) what are your thoughts on a campaign to stop govt funded organisations retweeting (endorsing) messages to children, by persons unknown, telling them to share private information and photos ?
SoManyActivities · 09/09/2020 08:09

I bet Owen Jones doesn't realise he is effectively endorsing an organisation which invited 12 year olds, along with adults, to privately DM them in return for payment and then told people who had concerns about this to 'suck your mum'.

SoManyActivities · 09/09/2020 08:07

Yep, they have taken Allison Bailey's tweet and totally twisted it to make a 'look how bigoted these people are' hashtag.

Even Owen Jones has retweeted it, presumably without looking into it. Twat.

DeaconBoo · 09/09/2020 08:02

Of course being trans "is a thing" Hmm
What it isn't is a reason to take safeguarding protections away from a child. It's unbelievable the amount of times they (Stonewall, Mermaids etc) attempt this.

Catmint · 09/09/2020 07:58

The charity commission recently issued a regulatory alert about safeguarding, because a large charity (RNIB) hadn't properly reviewed or followed its own safeguarding policy & procedures.

Just wondering if it may be worth raising a concern with them.

Swipe left for the next trending thread