Sorry this is proper random and I wasn't sure where to put it, I can ask for it to be moved or deleted if people don't think it should be here.
This isn't some interesting feminist question and I feel kinda embarrassed typing it but here I go...I wear bras, and I like to wear comfy bras. I find basically only non-moulded plunge bras fit me well. We are a low income family and I buy most my bras in sales. The cheapest non-moulded plunge bras tend to be non padded. I find my nipples are therefore sometimes visible underneath my clothing.
I have nipples, I know everywhere I go if people can't see my nipples they still know I have nipples. I feel I have the right to wear comfy clothing that I can afford and roughly seeing the outline of nipples underneath someone's top is far from obscene. Yet I still feel anxious about it sometimes and I will generally not wear the most nippley bras under the tightest t-shirts and that kind of thing to make some accomodations.
I'm not sure what I'm asking. Does anyone else get self conscious about this? Does anyone else wear non padded bras/no bra so have sort of visible nipple bumps and to hell with what everyone else thinks? Am I being awful by sometimes having my nipples kinda visible under clothing?! Do people even notice?!