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Grayson Perry

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madderose · 06/09/2020 11:51

Interview in the Times:

Who could be more fearless, then, than Perry? So it comes as quite a surprise, within an hour in his company, to find myself beginning to suspect he is self-censoring. The suspicion is confirmed when I ask if he would call himself woke. “Me?” he exclaims. “What a question!” He pauses to choose his words carefully. “Well, I can agree with many of the things that the woke say.” He hesitates again. “But some of the perhaps more arcane campaigns of the woke might fizzle out before they become normal.” Such as? “Oh God, I am so not going there! Because there are certain arguments I keep out of that are real hot-button issues.” So the transgender debate, I begin but he cuts me off quickly, repeating: “There are certain arguments.” And he steers clear because? “I don’t want it to define my public persona. Like it has [with] other people.” Does he mean JK Rowling? He repeats: “Like it has other people”^ which makes us burst out laughing, because he sounds like a politician.^

So basically, he is GC but he's not brave enough to come out and say it like JK has? I've always been a fan of his but feel a little disappointed......

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MrsCattywampus · 06/09/2020 13:06

Lily Savage, Edna Everage etc are different IMO because that's a persona for the purposes of entertainment. You know it's man, they know it's a man and that=knowledge is part of the entertainment act that is being performed.

With Perry obviously you know it's a man but "Claire" isn't really a persona with a personality or a story that's performed for entertainment – it's more just a look, and done for other reasons.

MrsCattywampus · 06/09/2020 13:04

I love him in many ways and I think he's very clever and extremely good at thinking things through and getting to the heart of issues - his Reith lectures about art were totally fascinating. So I don't doubt that he has thought about it and knows what he thinks. But yes he's in a tricky position. He can't reasonably say TWAW and I can't imagine he does believe that, but he can't reasonably call himself a GC feminist either given the "girls' clothes" fetish thing.

I do feel a slight discomfort and I wish that instead of an alter ego, he just wore what he liked - and he does actually sometimes wear other "women's" clothes in a more normal way. I mean of course it's up to him what he does, but what I would love to see more of is men who know they are men and just explore wearing feminine clothing because they like it or for style reasons, like Billy Porter (fingers crossed hoping Billy Porter hasn't "come out as NB" yesterday or something).

ErrolTheDragon · 06/09/2020 13:03

@ListeningQuietly

Grayson Perry has a stage persona he chooses to keep it separate from his personal views

Lily Savage made Paul O'Grady famous.
Dame Edna Everage is not Barry Humphries
Danny La Rue was not Dan Carroll

the key point is that these are men who adopt an external persona
while never in any way pretending to be something they are not.

Very, VERY different from the TWAW brigade who want to trample women under foot.

The fetish aspect makes Perry's case something other than mere external persona, but in that too he does not pretend to be anything other than he is. The 'Claire' fetish isn't ok but at least he's bringing it out into plain sight. That is at least a hell of a lot better than the men who claim to be women or girls. Perry enables the question: if there's an adult male dressing up as a girl then how exactly does that person differ from him - except in honesty and talent?
nauticant · 06/09/2020 12:43

It's a very interesting interview. A couple of other excerpts:

I’m curious to know where he encountered the greatest cultural intolerance. “Hmm. There were the petty right-wing attitudes of the people in the countryside who’ve never really been exposed to diversity. But if you were making a considered, dispassionate judgment about their culpability in the culture wars — well, there’s a scene in episode two when I have dinner with a bunch of people on Martha’s Vineyard [the liberal, well-heeled island enclave off Cape Cod]. I accuse them of being asleep at the wheel, basically — of culpability for all the patronising ‘I/we’re so right’ snobbishness of the left.” A mischievous grin spreads across his face. “But they get really up in arms.” Did they not take it well? “No!” he hoots. “Really badly.”

While researching for the series he studied a map showing the American counties registering the highest levels of voter antipathy towards the opposition. “And the strongest hatred of the opposition came from the left, in left-wing Democrat areas. The right, I hate to say it, are on the whole more reasonable. More open-minded, more forgiving.”

and

I sense his impatience to get back to work. “How are we getting along time-wise?” he asks. I glance at my notes and see we’ve covered everything. His gaze follows mine and sees the subheading “MISC” under which my final questions were listed.

“Misc,” he grins. “I like it. Is that your preferred pronoun?” I laugh, and his expression fills with delight. “You can have that joke for free!”.

Escapeplanning · 06/09/2020 12:27

He's been quoted before explaining that if he says too much people in the community get upset with him.

ListeningQuietly · 06/09/2020 12:27

Grayson Perry has a stage persona
he chooses to keep it separate from his personal views

Lily Savage made Paul O'Grady famous.
Dame Edna Everage is not Barry Humphries
Danny La Rue was not Dan Carroll

the key point is that these are men who adopt an external persona
while never in any way pretending to be something they are not.

Very, VERY different from the TWAW brigade who want to trample women under foot.

Datun · 06/09/2020 12:26

Perry has many times fully admitted that dressing in the clothes of a young girl was sexually motivated for him.

Just because he's upfront about his fetish, doesn't make it any more acceptable, in my opinion.

It would be difficult for him to be gender critical, when he knows female gender stereotypes are something he has enjoyed sexually. And he can't be TWAW, for the same reason.

MillyMollyFarmer · 06/09/2020 12:22

Oh he’s protecting himself by not saying what he thinks. Fine, whatever. I like some of what he says regarding gender stereotypes but the fact he calls his cross dressing a sexual fetish disturbs me as he is therefore getting a thrill out of other people’s reaction and making them part of his fetish. I just don’t like that.

Beamur · 06/09/2020 12:05

I haven't read the interview, so am commenting without context.
I really like Grayson Perry. He's a really interesting person and has a Zeitgeist-y style.
It's actually quite canny and maybe refreshing for him to sit on the fence. He isn't obliged to anyone to take a 'side'. I'm sure he is quite cognisant of the debate and furore and how toxic it is.

madderose · 06/09/2020 12:02

It would be preposterous for him to say TWAW when for him it is so clearly performative when he becomes his alter ego

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Doyoumind · 06/09/2020 12:00

I think it would be difficult for his stance to be that anyone dressing in a feminine manner and calling themselves a woman was actually a woman, wouldn't it?

I like him but think he's slightly problematic with respect to his alter ego.

Ultimately, I don't think women's rights are on his agenda.

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