Which spaces do non-binary people use?

The question was which spaces do non-binary women use.
The question was not which spaces would trans women want.

Male bodied people go in male spaces. Female bodied people go in female spaces. Simple.

There is not the money, space or inclination to have 3rd spaces or convert everything to single enclosed cubicles.

also. TRAs are not fighting for this. They are fighting for access to single sex spaces, and currently getting the them.

Female facilities are made 'all gender'. Men's seem to stay for men.

Non binary. If sex is irrelevant and gender is all then they need a 3rd space. Again, not being fought for.

To this end, we need to rethink spaces like toilets and changing rooms to replace sex segregation with individual privacy. In Germany, for example, these facilities are often based around individual cubicles (with larger ones for families) and this is the model we should be working towards

I agree re individual privacy. I have no desire to see other people , men or women , naked. I hate communal changing rooms.

I wish I could "like" your post 10 times over, Old Crone.

I can't expect them to see the female mind and not the "male" body.

A female brain is a brain in a female body.

Single sex spaces are there because female bodies are different from male bodies, not because female brains are different from male brains.

the needs of a small minority such as the disabled, non binary or transgender should not be disregarded in the interests of the larger group.

But you're quite happy for them to be able to dictate to 99% of the rest of the population, that they must use any facilities in complete isolation.

Women together must be stopped at all costs, it would appear.

People who say they are non-binary, just as people who say they are trans, all come from one of the two sexes. Just like everyone else.

We segregate by sex, not by how someone thinks, or how they think they think, or because they don't think they think like any other male or female.

to replace sex segregation with individual privacy.
Except I value the company of others of my sex, in changing rooms and shared saunas, for example. Where the full range of female bodies is an important experience for other females. From school changing rooms, to pool changing areas, as I have got older, the experience of seeing other females happy with their bodies, however old they are, and however their bodies have changed. There is nothing for older women to be ashamed of, and like the current openness around prosthetic limbs etc, 'individual privacy' is not always a good thing. Yes, a 'third space', the privacy for those who want it, but don't impose it on the rest of us.

I'll answer this to the best of my ability from the TRA perspective.

The underlying principle should be safety and dignity for all. This is not a numbers game; the needs of a small minority such as the disabled, non binary or transgender should not be disregarded in the interests of the larger group.

To this end, we need to rethink spaces like toilets and changing rooms to replace sex segregation with individual privacy. In Germany, for example, these facilities are often based around individual cubicles (with larger ones for families) and this is the model we should be working towards.

Things do, admittedly, become a lot more difficult when we are talking about things like hospital wards and prisons. I don't have all the answers here, but as a trans woman I think the ideal would be to be separated from both men and other women wherever possible. This protects my dignity as a woman while acknowledging the reality of biology; women who are not transgender should not have to share intimate spaces with us because of the way we appear. Sadly, I can't expect them to see the female mind and not the "male" body.

These arrangements would, I think, also be ideal for non binary people, though I cannot speak for them directly.

Hope this helps a bit.