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Mr Gay England: The trans man competing 'against an idea of male beauty'

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howard97A · 29/08/2020 13:25

Another step in BBC’s retreat from reality:

www.bbc.co.uk/news/newsbeat-53936529

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HPFA · 31/08/2020 19:24

I suppose no one really gets hurt here do they?

Chiyo could use female toilets and take part in female sports if they so desired, they've entered a gay men's competition and I imagine most gay men will clap politely and then choose another winner.

But I don't get how if you're a man you can be a "drag king"? Isn't the whole definition of drag that you're imitating the opposite sex?

GrumpyGran8 · 31/08/2020 18:19

@nevermorelenore

IIRC, Mr Gay UK is often won by a very muscular man in tiny pants. It might have been more interesting to see a broader range of body types and personalities, as I know a lot of gay men who don't fit the stereotype and feel marginalised.

Didn't JY try to enter pageants? Did that ever go anywhere?

JY attempted to enter the 2019 Miss BC pageant. He sent in an entry form with a photo (the one where JY posed in the ill-fitting purple ballgown) and that was as far as it got.
GrumpyGran8 · 31/08/2020 18:02

@nancybotwinbloom

I can't get the link to open?

Is it a women who identifies as a man competing in mr gay uk?

Yes. It's a woman who has had a mastectomy but doesn't take cross-sex hormones (all that facial fluff is glued on); they identify as a transman and works as a drag king. It's probably a publicity stunt, but they do look quite masculine in their shirts-off Instragram photos.
It's over to the gay men now, their reactions should be interesting.
FlamingoAndJohn · 31/08/2020 14:11

Hang on. If TWAW then TMAM so how can a man be a drag king?

That aside I wish him luck. It’s always interesting to challenge convention at events like that.

MrsSlocombesPussy · 31/08/2020 13:57

LGB Alliance have pointed out the bias in this article - stating that the person will be appearing with 'other men'

WinterIsGone · 30/08/2020 18:20

there is also a sizeable proportion of them who are quite sneery about it and strongly insist that TWAW
I think the transman won't win, but it will allow those gay men to demonstrate their inclusiveness, as it still won't affect them.

WhereYouLeftIt · 30/08/2020 18:16

Whilst there are many gay men who are horrified at what the transagenda is doing to women's rights, there is also a sizeable proportion of them who are quite sneery about it and strongly insist that TWAW. Although they're a bit quieter on the TMAM front.

I'm hoping that there is a decent overlap between the TWAW gay men and the audience of Mr Gay England. Because maybe the infiltration of their spaces by (oh, the horror!) females and their gut reaction to that will be instructive to them. It's a big 'maybe', I realise. But I can always hope.

Feminist10101 · 30/08/2020 17:51

I'm sure gay men are super-inclusive and welcoming.

By definition, gay men are not into vaginas. Most find the concept completely horrifying.

Suggesting that someone can change sex just by saying so makes an absolute mockery of biology, sexuality and should rightly be challenged.

PiataMaiNei · 30/08/2020 16:25

@nevermorelenore

IIRC, Mr Gay UK is often won by a very muscular man in tiny pants. It might have been more interesting to see a broader range of body types and personalities, as I know a lot of gay men who don't fit the stereotype and feel marginalised.

Didn't JY try to enter pageants? Did that ever go anywhere?

What a horrifying thought.
DeaconBoo · 30/08/2020 16:09

Fair play to them for competing particularly as they haven't been on hormones etc (and identifying as trans needn't require any physical or medical changes) so is going against a whole lot of stereotypes. Will be interesting to see the outcome - I'm sure gay men are super-inclusive and welcoming.

nancybotwinbloom · 30/08/2020 15:38

I can't get the link to open?

Is it a women who identifies as a man competing in mr gay uk?

nevermorelenore · 30/08/2020 15:10

IIRC, Mr Gay UK is often won by a very muscular man in tiny pants. It might have been more interesting to see a broader range of body types and personalities, as I know a lot of gay men who don't fit the stereotype and feel marginalised.

Didn't JY try to enter pageants? Did that ever go anywhere?

sleepyhead · 30/08/2020 15:02

I think the contradictions are deliberate. This, and the examples of transwomen who make few or no attempts to transition in any physical way are political imo - it's all about queer theory and queering whatever thing they're involved in at that moment.

Lewis Carroll, the Red Queen, Humpty Dumpty and the Mad Hatter did it better.

Changednameforthisoneyeah · 30/08/2020 14:52

"I hope the gay community will differ."
Not IME (as above - it was at the Viaduct in the gay quarter, and went down a storm).

Swallowzandamazons · 30/08/2020 14:40

I may be way off the mark here, but could there be a teeny tiny possibility that this is partly a publicity stunt, and partly a p1ss take to see just how far this nonsense can go before the men (this time) call a halt to it? A challenge, if you will, to see how woke is too woke for the gay community and the BBC? The BBC have fallen for it hook, line and sinker but I hope the gay community will differ.

howard97A · 30/08/2020 14:18

It's a shame, because [the BBC] used to be great, but a lot of the news and programming is starting to feel agenda driven.

Yes, especially in the case of the trans agenda.

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Changednameforthisoneyeah · 30/08/2020 13:42

I've seen Karen Jones/Lawson (trans woman with a horrendous record) doing a performance of 'Sweaty Sketty Girls' as a 'drag king' in one of Leeds scene bars. I felt absolutely sick.

Binglebong · 30/08/2020 13:39

In order to do drag you must appear as (a perverted version) of the opposite sex. So a male becomes a drag queen and a female a drag king.

This individual claims to be male. So if they want to do drag it would be as a drag queen. By being a drag king surely they are accepting that they are in fact female?!

Trying really hard to have this make sense and it can't. Which to me sums the whole thing up.

Butterer · 30/08/2020 13:25

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GrumpyMiddleAgedWoman · 30/08/2020 13:23

because the BBC is generally regarded as a trustworthy source of news and opinion
Not as much as it was. Most of the coverage of rural issues that I have seen in the past few years makes me Confused Can't tell a mule from a horse, talks about 'the horsing world' not the equine world.

It's a shame, because it used to be great, but a lot of the news and programming is starting to feel agenda driven.

Jointhecircus · 30/08/2020 13:09

Wow, it really doesn’t make sense! Either they are a man, and therefore straight, or they are gay and therefore a woman. It is really is not possible to make sense of this person as a gay man.

MistressMounthaven · 30/08/2020 12:57

LOOOOOOK at MEEEeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

merrymouse · 30/08/2020 12:47

I don't see what this has to do with feminism.

This quote is very relevant.

"I still experience a lot of misogyny from being read as a woman or trans misogyny and brutal violence because they think I'm a different type of 'transness'.

People experience misogyny because they are perceived to be female. Their own concept of their gender identity is irrelevant.

howard97A · 30/08/2020 12:32

I don't see what this has to do with feminism.

Open to correction, but wouldn’t feminists be interested in anything to do with transgenderism (because it affects the definition of women) and especially interested in how transgenderism is sold by the BBC (because the BBC is generally regarded as a trustworthy source of news and opinion)?

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Gncq · 30/08/2020 07:25

It falls into the category sex and gender, which is central to femimism.