It's a sad story, in the sense of being a classic tragedy.
My understanding is that the entire trans argument hinges off the idea that people are so deeply socialised to treat men and women differently that the only way to have your actual personality (oh fine, "inner gender identity") respected is to actually change your body AND its styling. And then you must work on fooling people into never realising who you actually started off being. The entire thing being based on the validity of deception to get a "just" result is based on a argument that society will never stop expecting women to Be Pretty and men to Do Things, so if you're an un-pretty, doing things kind of women you might as well be a man.
Now, after being astonishingly successful in mainstreaming this idea, transfolk are finding that they have set up a system that can continue to pile on risk and pain based on the deception they insisted was absolutely necessary in the first place.
As someone above has said, if the goal had set out to have citizen records to have recorded sex as male, female, transman, transwoman, and a field for gender identity as masc, femme, non-binary, none, other [fill in], we'd have both made the social cues more inclusive AND ensured better care for transgender people AND possibly not spent the past six years having to explain that women's rights and child safeguarding are worth keeping.